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controlive boyfriend
okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 71/2 months. overall, hes a great guy, but hes so contolive. he gets mad when i hangout with my friends because he says theyre bad, when theyre really not, also, even if i have an average talk with another guy, you know just a heyy whats up type of conversation. after every studyhall he always asks me who i sit with and what we talk about, and when im online he im's me and asks who im talking to, what im talking about, and asks me to send him the conversations. its sooooo annoying. yes, i love the kid, but sometimes he drives me crazy. what should i do?
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If my boyfriend treated me like that, he'd be out on his ear. Tell him you don't like him trying to control who you talk to or hang out with and that you have the right to speak to anyone you wish.
Let him know that just because you talk to another guy doesn't mean you're going to jump into bed with him.
He sounds like a very insecure guy and maybe just needs some reassuring that you're not going to cheat on him.
Alternatively, he's just a control freak and should be booted to the curb as quickly as possible, leaving you to find a guy who will actually treat you the way you deserve.
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Arghh i had the same kinda guy but he changed i just talked to him i just said why do you always ask don't your trust me and i said if don't trust me you shouldn't be with me and their only friends you don't need to know but if there was something i would've told you and he said "oh ok sorry " and now he just asks me how many guys im talking to and thats it just tell him you need to trust me and if there is something i'll tell you but i don't like all the questions and you telling me to send you my convo.
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Ok, is love really worth having your life controlled? No. It isn't, because that is NOT love. Not on his end, with that behavior.
You don't need a parent, you have that. You don't need a boss, you can get PAID to put up with one of them at work.
You don't deserve that treatment in a relationship at all. You are not a dog, to be trained in obedience. Sit, come, stay, roll over, play dead. You are better than all that, no matter how long you have been going out.
I mean, come on. Do you REALLY want to end up marrying a guy who won't let you go to the bathroom without his knowing your every move? I think not. But that's the kind of guy you are with. Sad fact.
It only gets worse in time. Trust me. Been there, done that. But never again. I am not an animal to be trained, I am a person. My OWN person, and I will do as I damn well please, by God.
You may or may not believe me, but you are better off dumping this jerk and finding a guy who is man enough to treat you like a woman, with respect, as you deserve to be treated.
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