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Well, my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks. And all the sudden today he breaks up with me!
Well, it was his friend since he was too chicken to do it on his own. I didn't believe his friend, so I called his house, and he said he was "God D*mn serious" but my boyfriend was laughing in the background and they were all laughing. And he just said the other day how much he liked me.
I cried for about an hour after that. If he's joking, though, I'm going to kill him. It scared me so bad. And I'm so confused. They won't tell me why, either. They just keep confusing me more everytime I talk to his friend.
They won't let me talk to my boyfriend either. They just keep saying "SHUT UP! GOD! HE HATES YOU AND HE BROKE UP WITH YOU. GET OVER IT!" but they keep laughing!
Do you think they're just joking or he really is breaking up with me they just think it's funny? Help!
Sorry this was so long. I rate!!
awww srry! well even if it is just a joke like the person b4 said hes an asshole. they are so mean. dont take that crap from them! dont worry there are other guys put there. u will find someone else, and hopefully someone less of an asshole lol
Hope i helped! good luck!
k i did sumthin w/ my bf be4 my mom found out she doesnt trust me and im working on regaining my trust becuz then ill actually be able to hang out w. ppl and maybe me and my bf will go bak out. (we broke up becuz i was grounded for a really long time..so we just r kinda taken a break u cud say and i wanna prove to him i can hang out again cuz i really like him...) anyway, today in skool there is this lil place and we hooked up. just made out. of course with my luck a teacher came in and i went to the principals. shes like, "i hear about ur little inappropriate incident" etc and "if this happens again your parents will hear from me." i was relieved that she wouldnt call them that day..but this is the bad part: tommorow is a day at my school and my mom is coming to work at a certain part of it. its a homecoming/pep rally type thing. so the principal will be there and i AM DEAD becuz i bet she will tell my mom and dad if she sees them. that is NOT GOOD. cuz 1st of all my dad is coming to visit becuz he is working in a diff state from our house and i dont want to get in trouble again. i am so afraid she'll tel...help me.
dont worry she wont! she already made the decision not to tell them. if she was going to tell them she would have right then nd there. Hope i helped! and good luck getting ur trust back and good luck w/ ur ex!!
I have really bad split ends but my mom doesnt have time to take me to get my hair cut and she wont have time till like October or November. I scrunch my hair now so you cant tell I have splint ends...is there anything I can do to make it less visible until I cut it? Thanks!!
P.S. I'll rate ya!
well actually cutting your hair would help bcuz u would cut the split ends off.
then after that u could use the shampoos n conditioners to prevent more split ends. Well if its been a long time since u got a hair cut its prob time for one. Do u have like an aunt or some family member who could take u? hope i helped. good luck!
Hey! Okay, well I am 14 female.. about 5'7 235lbs! I know... FATTY! but still... So, i wanted to go to this weightloss school but it was almost 6,000$ and across the U.S. for me so my mom was like NO WAY! but first I wanted to get homeschooled. and then again No! so I was like Private school.. Too much money she said.. I have 4 sisters n she is seperated from my dad!! So yeah, I have to go to a public school (freshman) n alot of ppl make fun of me.. I cant run fat or anything.. n i wanna start losing weight now, pick up my speed, and then just be a whole new me next yr.. i used to play softball, and i was well good at it.. but got too old to play slow pitch!! I mean im not saying i have no friends or anything.. but my thighs, but, stomach, arms, n etc... I know.. drink water n blah blah! but nothing works for me.. im probably gonna get Slim in 6 (www.beachbody.com) but I dunno if it will work or not.. im thinking i wanna lose 100lbs or so n sorta fat but like not too fast! i just wanna be left alone n not singled out everytime i go somewhere with a bunch "skinny" ppl, and this sumemr i was gonna change everything but stayed n side n was lazy!! n now 2days b4 school starts i wanna chnage everything!! i know its gonna take time but i wanna try sommin n see if it works.. i need lots of ideas, help, motivation, and support!! I seriously want a whole new me. i mean the "stretch marks" are ugly n never gonna go away so ill always remember being fat, i just want it to stop!! i wanna be the one not scared to speak up, and express what i think, i wanna be the one telling the person not to be making fun of someone, not the one being made fun of!! I want to change me!! have a high self esteem n just have fun!! so yeah u think u can help??? I'd rlly appreciate it!!! Any advice will help me .. i mean have any of u ever been n the same position or anything?? I was thinking baout even killing myself once, and i wanna "throw up" wut i eat but i dunno if thats smart, its like i cant stick to anything.. all i know is i wanna look good ... fast... not for boys... but for me.. n for all the teasing to stop!! I ask u all hoping for help!! Thanks alot, xOxOxO
Well it sounds like ur determined and have a good attitude so thats good! Make sure u find a healthy diet. Alot of drs say that atkins isnt healthy bcuz carbs give u energy and ur brain needs them to function. My friend went on weight watchers and lost alot of weight. its where everything u eat is a certain amount of points. u can still eat junk food just in moderation. this one os probably really good for teens bcuz u can have a slice of pizza or whatever and not ruin ur diet for the day. just make sure u eat healthy. u dont have to b on a team to excersize. u can excersize at ur house. get a tape or jog in place or do crunches and stuff like that. good luck, hope i helped!
well i plucked my eyebrows and make them look pretty...i was wondering what would be the best way to perice my ears by myself? also i need advice on what i should do with my hair on the first say of school? it is about armpit length and it is brown. like in a bun, in a ponytail, straiten it, curl it, wave it, any tips?
ill rate ya
---erika---
hi. i pierced my 2nd hole by myself so i know about piercing ears urself. i wouldnt recommend doing the cartilage urself, it can turn out awful. like something in ur ear can shatter and its much more likely to get infected that ur lobe. So if u want to pierce ur ear lobe, make sure that u sterilize everything that u use. Use a lighter and put what u use in the flame for a second, wash ur ear with rubbing alcohol before u do it and icing ur ear before u do it might help (i didnt and it was fine). Some ppl use a needle and some use a safety pin. I used a safety pin bcuz u dont want something too thick. You can either put an apple piece behind ur ear and then push in through fast or slowly push it through. I used a safety pin and slowly oushed it through, it might sound painful but its really not. As soon as u take it out put sterilized earrings in (u may have to shove them in) lol. CLean ur ears twice a day with rubbing alcohol and a q-tip for about a month. And for the 1st day i would straighten bcuz i think that hair usually looks best when its straight. :)
srry its so long lol i just wanted to make sure i told u everything u needed to know about piercing ur own ears. Good luck and hope i helped!
i have this friend that thinks if i wear the same shoes i wore last year to school people will think im poor.i know its not true.and i think that her and her lil buddy talk alot about me.what do i do?
Don't worry, i doubt anyone else keeps track of ppls shoes from year to year. as long as they're not falling apart ur fine. lol. well maybe u should talk to her about it and ask her if she talks about u or something and if u dont feel confortable doing that just make sure u have other better friends that u can count on and talk to them more. Hope i helped! good luck!!
-- kt
I'm Almost 13, and i am 125 lbs, and i have been on a lot of differant diets, but only been gaining wieght, so i cant deside what to do: eat like, nothing and exersise, or exersize sooooo much, and eat normal.
pleazzzzzz help!!!!!
Well first of all how tall r u? Do add more information to your question and say how tall you are. If you're not overweight that its hard to lose weight. Eat healthy and dont try diets like atkins bcuz that kind of thing wont work especially for a kid bcuz tkids matoblism is different than adults. Just eat lots of vegetables, some fruit, some whole wheat things instead of white breads and pastas and eat less red meat and eat chickent and other poultry and drink plenty of water, and keep exercising like u do and u should lose weight. good luck, hope i helped
is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help!
TAMPONS!! lol. the pad will move around and u might have leaks. hope i helped!
Just so everyone knows, putting this in the subject of your question not only does not affect our decision to delete it, but it only serves to point out to us that you have already asked the same question before and it was deleted.
Asking the same exact question two or three times, only putting "MODERATORS, DON'T DELETE THIS QUESTION", does nothing but serve to annoy us more.
yeah it is stupid and annoying but, it doesnt neccesarily mean that they already asked it and it was deleted, maybe its just the kind of questions that might get deleted
Hello, over the summer a few of my freckles got REALLY dark on my face, and I don't like the way it looks. I heard that lemon juice works... is it true? How much would I put on? And how often?
I've heard that lemon juice will work, so if u try it make sure that u dont leave it on for very long bcuz it will dry out ur skin. Its acid. so b careful. good luck hope i helped!
Xox0 :: kt
how do u make one of thez sites?...i need to no..its really ko0l...thanx
well first u register which u probably already did and then to set up ur adice column u go to Column Settings and u can make it look how u want and if u want to answer questions u can click give advice at the top or u can put a link to ur advice column somewhere so that ppl will ask u a question. good luck, hope i helped.
xox kt
theres this guys ive had a crush on for a while, but me and him are just really good friends. well i think he likes me, but everytime i thinkhe likes me, he just starts likeing some one else! im starting to think he likes me again.. should i just give up on him and start liking some one else? or should i stil like him be cuz i think he likes me...?oh and im thirteen and im a girl lol
dont give up. go for it. and if it doesnt work out than atleast ur still friends. :)
Hope i helped. good luck!
ok..well i got my hair permed and i was wonderin how can u get ur hair realli curly..i go to skool in 2 days so plz!! hurry!!
wow im blonde... but i thought that i perm would make ur hair curly but if it doesnt try going to target or something and they have hair gels that u put in ur hair when its towel dryed (after u wash it) and then put the gel in and then blowdry and it will get curly. Make sure that u get a gel that says for permed hair. if that doesnt work than u can try hot rollers or curlers that u leave it overnight. hope i helped good luck.
like can u get a guy want to kiss u? and if u can how would u want to make them want to kiss u?
if u dont no him that well get to no him better and then flirt. hehe well hope i helped. good luck :)
hey!! well i like dis guy..but he has a g/f dat he doesnt realli get to see...i asked my friend if she would go ova there and ask him da reasons he doesnt like me..but he juss said..he juss doesnt...and hes gonna be in my class dis year and i'm kinda shy and scared to go back to skool....but he like flirts wit me alot and everybody says he likes me....wat do u think he meant wen he said he "juss doesnt like me"
i dont no maybe hes just shy and doesnt want to ruin things with hir gf. Try to become friends with him and see what happens from their. Hope i helped. good luck!!
-kt-
hey. there's this guy I like but he doesn't go to my school and I barely ever see him. He's never online, so I can't chat with him or anything. I see him like once a month at school dances and stuff. How do I have a relationship with him if I never see him??? oh and in case ur wondering i was in a play with him so that's where i met him. - alone and frustrated
Well if u know him well enough to have a realationship and seeing him is the only problem then try calling him. U could try to hang out on the weekends, either just u 2, or will other friends. hope i helped. good luck
-kt
I want white skin not like totally white but just white skin...I maen my skins dark and thats because of the sun and all but I hear you can use stuff to make it whiter and I was wondering if any of you guys knew wat I could use to make it whiter I mean I wash my face and all but nething else and I dont wanna use makeup because I dunno I guess I just think that it doesnt help that much so if anyone knows nething I can use or do please tel me thanks!
ur tan will fade. But to make sure that u dont get any tanner and that it will fade wear sunscreen when ur outside
Im very hot and everything great y wont the perfect guys ask me out?
they're probably intimidated by u. flirt :p
is garnier fructis a good shampoo?
yep it is :)
a while back my boyfriend all the sudden stopped callin me and all that and i never called him cuz i felt stupid or something but anyways over the months ever since then ive been sooo depressed and sad and i take a lot of it out on myself and i have to see counseling over this shit! me and him were so close and i loved him a LOT and i still do i just dont know how to tell him or what to say to get him to go back out with me and i think he's got a girlfriend...ive tried writing letters and all that but ahh idk what to do...i really want to be his girlfriend again i cant live like this! please help me...ill rate you later when i figure it out or you tell me cuz i just found this site and you seem really nice...i live in waterford michigan! thanks for the help.
definetly not an easy situation but maybe u should try to call him or something. If he has a boyfriend that makes things really hard. If he does that maybe u could try to find someone else :/... even though u realy want him maybe if u guys just took a break and saw other ppl and it didnt work out u could get back together. Hope i helped and hope u feel better! ((i live in birmingham MI))