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Hi Im Carissa and im 13 year old girl. I go to hendrix jr high. Im a cheerleader for arizona power eliete. ask me anything you want im ready to help anyone who would need my help! IF you dont want to sign ur name on the bottom u dont have to u can make up a name if you would like.










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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that

its good that you guys have lasted long thats hard to do! but he sounds like he might be cheating on you "other girls in his room" i mean that would freak me out to, but i don't no the guy like you do and if hes getting into trouble thats something you might want to stay away from because ever herd of guilty by association, if hes doing something bad while your around you could get in trouble too, hope thats helps

Riss

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if you wanted to tell someone how you felt about something that happened would you give them a note, tell them to their face, email them, or tell them in a aim convo?

well its always best to tell someone sumthen to there face but if thats hard for you eather note or aim

Riss

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hay i need ur help big time!! 2mrrow a new girl is comin and i dont want her to like the guy i like and i dont want him to like her but i already no that he likes me and i dont want him to like the new girl so wat shoul i do? i hope he doesnt like her and she doesnt like him!! but i dont no so please help me

well if he like u there should be no problems! but dont worrry im sure everything eill be fine!

Riss

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my bro is gettin bad grades and my mom and dad is like mad i dont no why like i will ttyl by

well your parents are mad because they want him to succed in life, its that simple help ur brother out

Riss

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i love collectin rockz but i dont no if that is good do u think it is? i love it but some of my friends thinks it is weird i dont no why. when i waz little i alwayz collected rocks is it good 4 me?

theres no problem with collecting things i used to collect rocks myself but i stopped i dont rember why i guess i just gre bored of them! keep collecten if u like them :)

Riss

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hay riss i love ur advice and i waz jus wonderin how do u no if a gurl or guy likes u? because i like this one guy and i think he likes my friend but he alwayz talks to me wat should i do?

ask him who he likes.... if he says no one then asks you who you likej ust flat out tell him you like him cuz usally guys will say no one when u ask them that question!

Riss

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hay riss i like this guy a lot and i dont no if he likes me wat should i do? like in skool he trys to act kool like ya

get to know him better become friends then find out if he likes you

Riss

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okay riss..i need your help soo bad..i dont know what to do..okay..well i told this guy i would go to the prom with him..but then my ex boyfriend came back..and now he wants to go with me..what should i do? i still like my ex and i would like to go with him..but i also like the guy that asked me and i wanna go with him
signed
-torn between 2-

-torn between 2-
Well this is hard to answer cuz i dont knowm uch about each guy but ifu and ur ex boyfriend broke up and bad terms i would go with the other guy..

Riss

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wow..riss.i dont know who ur..but from what peopel tell me ur a hoe....not to be mean but u r..i think if nay1 needs advice its you

well i no im not so wuteverhonestly to say that and be a coward and not say who u r is freaken retarded so go away and dont post here again and let space be left for people who acutallly need it.. have a nice day :)

Riss

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hay like i need 2 ask u somthin ok?
like me and my friend called this guy that i like last year and she asked if he liked me he said no cause i waz 2 tall and now he always shoes off 2 me!! wat should i do?? please help me ill talk to u lata

well in my personal oppion i thinkss its rude that he said no cuz ur 2 tall but if hes changed and more mature give it another shot!

Riss

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theres this kid im going out with
well my friend is.
seriously my friend
its not even ona those oo so i hava friend.. things lol. shes right next to me at the moment>
well shes going out with this guy
but is totally in love witha nuther
she duznt really wana go out with him
but panicked i guess?
shes says thats it
shes too good hearted to dump him
ehh ive met him
hes kinda ghetto
so is she
there kinda like..
bro N sis? LOl JKKKK
there not
but it totally seems it
lol.
hahaa
anyways.

wut should she do?

im not exactly sure what you said but i think i got it she shouldnt go out with a guy if she really dosnt like him its not fair to her or to him so yesh it wiil be sad to dump him but its better then going out with sumeone u dont like

Riss

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ok riss, i have a problem. im 15 years old and im pregant...but i have no clue who the father is....what shouuld i do?...it could at least be 5 different guys...help me plz..
-nofatherforherchild-

nofatherforherchild
thats nasty but all i say is get the guys tested see who matches

Riss

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theres this girl and shes like obsessed with my boifriend! :-/ n i consider her a best friend but omg i lov my boyfriend to death but so duz she! n hez neva guna go back out with her but im juz getten tired of reading her pro about these quotes that i KNO are about him..

help me :/

dont let it bother you its not that big of a deal. its just a profile! let her know how you feel and also ask if she likes your bf if she says no then shes probley not lieing if shes ur best friend! and also you never no those quotes mite be in there cuz she thinks there cute so dont worry about it

Rissy

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ok so theres this girl that I was going out with for about 2 months. then I heard a rumor that she was going out with someone else so I broke up with her. a couple days later her friends tell me she was never cheating on me and now I really miss her... cuz I really cared for her in the first place... what do I do?
[-lost-]

Lost
You should give her a call tell her im sorry that i broke up with you but when i herd you were cheating me it hurt me and that i didnt want to leave you but i did cuz i felt like you didnt luv me, now that i no its a lie im sorry and i miss and i wanted to no if u still liked me and would ever go back out with me

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okay..iam 16 years old and iam pregnet..and my mom or dad has no clue..and me and my boyfriend love having sex..and now i have twins how do i tell my boyfriend that iam tired of having sex? we have it like 5 times a day for 20mins..i love it..but iam starting to get tired of it..and then how do i tell my parents that iam pregnet? what should i do..
Abortion? Or what? please help me..
Signed-
Pregnetscared15yrold

Pregnetscared15yrold

First of all wtf r u haveing sex so much anyways and second of all thats really slutty well seinc ur pregnant your gonna have to tell your parents first off and second do not get and Abortion thats takening a childs life away, if u dont want the baby though put it up for adoption just no abortion thats killing sumeone.

Rissy

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Okay riss..your advice ROCKS!! but see..iam best friends with the guy i like and i dont want anything change between us..cause what if i say ok i like you..and he doesnt like me back and then he doesnt talk to me? and iam scared..i mean i really like him..and he broke up with johanna..and now iam scared to the 1st extent that i will lose his friendship..
what should i do?
signed
-shy love,AGAIN-

Shy Love,
tell him you like him! let him know how you feel tell him that if he dosnt like you back to not let htat ruin ur friendship but dont ask him out just tell him u like him dont dump all that on him at once just make sur to leth im know if he dosnt like you back to not ruin ur friendship good luck write me back and tell me how it works out! :)

Rissy

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hi you prolly dont know me it gave me a random person but I really need advice. Theres this girl that I've liked for 4 years, and we're good friend but she never really notices me. What should I do?

-really need help-13-

-really need help-13-
U need to talk to her more call her on the phone flirt and just show her you really care forh er and would want her to be her gf hope that helps ya

Rissy

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ok well...theres this guy named shane. he is going out with a girl named ashley tho. i reallllly lyk him! lyk ALOT...! well over the summer he was the one trying to get me to lyk him. and i didnt really lyk him then. but i ended up going out with him for lyk a month and a half. he broke up with me for 1 week...asked me back out. we went out again for another 2 weeks. lol. then he broke up with me for ashley. he knos that i still really lyk him. and he still acts lyk he lyks me. hes so confusing. and today he almost broke up with ashley bcuz she lyks this other guy too. and shane was going to ask me out but i guess ashley and shane worked things out...ugh! so idk wut to do..im so sick of him playing these games with me. shuld i still love him...or try to get over him (which is lyk impossible)

-im so confused- :-(

-im so confused-
i think u should give it a try these no lose in trying

Rissy

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Riss,
My friend Johanna goes out with a guy i liked name Kyle..and she knew i liked him and i was gunna ask him out the day SHE ASKED HIM OUT! and now iam really mad..and i want him to know how i feel..but iam really shy when it cums to stuff like telling a guy how i really feel..
please help me!!
signed
-shy love-

Shy Love,
first off you need to tell ur friend how you feel and secondly if ur shy sumetimes its easier to write him a note or even call him! but if thats scary for u 2 just take slow through hints at him you like talk to him more! talk on the phone at night hope that helps!
Riss

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uhh there is this gurl at mah skool and she is a total slut and she atcs like and she acts like she is like hottest person ever and its really anyoyin..what shouyld i do?


dontknowhat2do

if shes not ur friend ignore her shes probley a waste of ur time! but if she is messing with ur boyfriend or sumthen tell her to stop! if she ur friend talk to her a true friend whould at lest to you
Riss

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