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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that
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I do think that you have a trust issue with him. And for a long relationship this isn't good, because they are built mainly on trust and love. I definitely think that you have every right not to trust him, but on the other hand, he isn't doing anything bad with him, so most likely they are just friends. Plus, if he wanted to just be a single guy with lots of girls that he can have then he wouldn't be with you, so there has to be a reason why he is still with you. And those little, sweet, cute things he does for you, I'm guessing he doesn't know how to show that he loves you without doing things for you and with the girls maybe sometimes he misses you or he just wants to be with friends at times. I say just trust him and if he find he is cheating on you then definitely ditch him but ONLY if you know for sure that he is. Otherwise, keep him, he sounds good for you and also if you are still having these issues later on, then just confront him about it all. Say sweetie, I don't understand why you are always with these girls, I don't know, it just confuses me and I don't really like the feeling. But ask them what those girls mean to him and by the way, some people are like that, they don't mean to flirt, but do anyways. Don't worry about it, that's just how some people are. I wouldn't be too worried, but if this gets worse I definitely advice confronting him if you already haven't. If you need any other advice just put it in my inbox! -Kayla
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its good that you guys have lasted long thats hard to do! but he sounds like he might be cheating on you "other girls in his room" i mean that would freak me out to, but i don't no the guy like you do and if hes getting into trouble thats something you might want to stay away from because ever herd of guilty by association, if hes doing something bad while your around you could get in trouble too, hope thats helps
Riss
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wow..7 months..thats something to be proud of..lol well i dont know if you can trust him..it sounds like no..because when you confronted him about the situation he just said that he had to go..and a real boyfriend would not do that..heres the problem..in a good relationship the 2 people involved must be able to communicate with each other..if one isn't communicating then its not going to work..i think you should just tell him that you want a break and that you need some time..you guys can always go out in the future..and there are so many other guys out there!! Just take a look! Get me updated! kay? n tell me what you decide! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p
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Hey sweetie... I know how your feeling, it is extremely hard or even thinking about letting go of a boyfriend you've had for so long! Guys are always so used to flirting and making comments on girls.. (its what they do). But also, ppl would say to me and my Ex that they can't beleive we heald on so long either! Okay well- you should sit him down and be like "okay my love.. we need to talk about somthing thats been Really kinda bothering me lately.. and i just want to talk to you about it becuase you mean so much to me and i don't want somthing to go wrong or happen to us" and then explain evrything how you feel and just open up to him becuase you guys are probably close. SO have him listen to you, and then see what he has to say to it too [talking/ comunication is key to a relationship] and you guys should trust eachother. But on the other hand... if you feel that he's not being good to you and not a good boyfriend AFTer you talked.... then you should consider letting go- But thats only becuase its good for you, and it can teach him a lesson becuase he will be sad and miss you after. SO babe.. just talk to him and let him know how you feel.. be true to yourself and good luck! ;) :D
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Ive never been in a long relationship. Well i have but it ended in disaster, so i dont realy count it (quite embarassing realy). But just cause i havent been in a relationship like this one doesnt realy mean i dont know what im talking about. My suggestion is to get out of this relationship. He sounds like bad news to me, almost like hes using you as a trophy. I wouldnt trust a guy who eggs houses and breaks public property itsnt the most honest guy in the world, espicaly when he hangs out with other girls in his room without you arround. As far as how to end it... ill sya the same thing i always do, be honest and upfront, say whats in your heart. hope i helped and good luck!
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Ok I think it would be easier to talk about this subject on AOL or e-mail...so IM me at- CanxYouxKeepxUp or e-mail me at roxytoys@yahoo.com
Thanx buh bye
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