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disapear please!!
shes really emotional all the time ive been her best friend since kindergarten i feel a total responsibility over her instead of friendship, she bugs me all the time and all my best friends really dont like she makes me so depressed that well ive done some bad things to myself im tired of being her second mom and anytime i try to do things with other friends without her she flips out i dont wanna lie to her and i dont wanna make it a big deal by completley ditching her, how do i nicely silently disapear form her life?
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man..this stinks..do not answer her calls..avoid her...blah blah blah..but a REAL former friend would at least tell he WHY..so she does not wonder to try to be your frind again..easy way out..do what I said..be a BETTER person..face to face
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What i would do is write her a letter and have it say this,
Dear ___,
Lately you have been bothering me in many ways. First you flip out when I dont include you in my plans, and i feel like you get too emotional on me. I really hope that you can change this a little because i already have enough stress as it is and when a friend flips out and gets emotional on me, it feels like everything is all my fault. Please if you could, Make it a little easier!
sincerely,
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or something like that just expressing how you feel so tell me how it goes and i hope i helped!
-*-SNOOZIN-*-
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When she calls...dont answer if you have caller ID. Have your mom say your not home..etc. if you want to approach it that way. She may catch on. You could write her a letter telling her how you feel if you like to write and get your feelings out. I find this helpful. Tell her you dont find this friendship to be working out..and that you want space from her..etc. Dont let her ruin your life like this..its not fair to you. I know you want to do this nicely..ive been in your situation before and i was able to let my friend down nicely..but every once in awhile you need to verbally tell her off. (not cursing her out..just talking to her in a firm tone telling her how you feel and how things are going to be)
-best of luck...write to me if you want further advice or have more questions please
-melissa
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