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Hey everyone. My name is Anastasia, and I love to give advice and help others. I have experienced alot, and can understand most things people go through, so feel free to ask any quetions.
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im a girl and im 16 years old... randomly, i get shoooting pains in my back from moving certain ways..and yesterday at school i bent over to get something and my back like spazzed or something.. it hurt so bad! it was hard to walk after. it hurts to do everything..lean forward..bend over..move..lay down..sit. i cudnt sleep cuz i cudnt find a position where my back didnt hurt.. i need help..does anyone kno wat this is or how i can fix it? (link)
ok, from what you said, it ither sounds like your mucles have tightened up from too much usage or, somthing more sevire, your spine's vertebre could be out of line, but i think you would be in MUCH more pain if it was lime that. go to a doctor and ask.
ANK


ok my parents were not home so i took there car out to practice my driving.then i took the car to go out to the mall and go shopping.when i came back from shopping there was a huge scratch on the hood of it!please help!!! (link)
ok some things you could do:
1. go get matching paint and paint the scratch or wax it and get rid of it.
2. don't say anything and if your parents ask, say a tree branch could have fallen on it or maybe some animal like a squrelle scratched it.
3.Tell them you wanted to practice driving and it happened then...though, depending on your parents, you may get into trouble.
hope i helped
ANK


Im 16 and scared! I have been on my period for 28 days (bleeding for 28 days) you only supose to only stay on 5-8 days. I just started using the new Nuva Ring (birthcontrol). I put it in a day after I first came on, could I have been pregnant and not know and killed the baby if there was one? (link)
go to a doctor right away. he/she may know how to help.

ANK


Hey, I'm a fourteen year old female, and I have been smoking for around eight months. I'm sure that there are a huge quantity of smokers here, or people who know about smoking, and I have a few questions I would like answered, please.

1. Which is worse for you, cigars or cigarrettes?
2. [for the smokers] How old were you when you started?
3. Does smoking have a major impact on your voice, or is it only slight?
4. Recently, I tried to stop, and I threw a bitch fit at my friends.. I just went crazy! Was that an impact of the cigs? Am I addicted?

thanks... I'll rate, I promise! (link)
ok:
1: they are both very bad and both can over time kill you.
2: i dont smoke
3: smokeing has a major impact on your lungs, mouth, brain, growth, and body in general.
4: it could be. it depends on the person.
hope i could help, and sorry i was kind of harsh...
ANK


Well i just recently found out that i am pregnant. i already have a little girl who is 8 months old today, and her father is still having a really hard time adjusting to her. he is always saying how he never wants another kid .. little does he know .. he has another on the way. i am so scared about telling him .. anyone have any advice on how to handle this??? (link)
i think you should tell him. i think that over time he will get used to being a father, and he should have been more careful if he didnt want another child.


first off: WILL RATE A 5 IF YOU HELP ME OUT! ok i had this dream...let me explain it...

there was this evil being (kinda like soemthign that came out of Charmed...lol) and it kept chasing me around and trying to kill me. but i guess it kinda had a human form. kinda like the guy who had knocked up pheobe. but he was trying to kill me. he would get ahold of me and then like drag me around and stuff, liek torturing me before he killed me. granted, i made alot of escape attempts, many failing fromthe start, many almost suceeding but not quite. then he had gotten me into his truck (dont ask) and was going to drive it off the cliff and dissapear before it hit bottom. He said he would let me live under one codnition. I provided him with an heir. at first i refused, but i guess the fact of knowign my life was on the line scared me so much i gave in. then i remember
thinking "i have to tell steve i can never see him again. for his safety" (see, i even think of you in my dreams!) then the guy, before taking offmy handcuffs, told me that he wanted a daughter b/c he already had a son. the next thing i remember i was outside and i had a son on my knee then somethign came jumping out at me and scared me shitless and i woke from it.

That was the dream. and my boyfreind got upset b.c i told him (online this afternoon...he is out of state on family business...his mom is sick) and he goes "so even in your dreams you would rather cheat on me than die. i would rather die personally. but its a dream and we cant always control our dreams" then he signed off! didnt say good bye or anything. is he mad at me? does my dream mean anything? I WILL RATE A 5 IF YOU HELP ME OUT! (link)
well, i think your BF will get over it. he is probably having a bad day. umm, weel its hard to say about the dream. sometimes thay mean things sometimes thay dont. maybe one of your worst fears is to be forced to cheat on him. or maybe deep inside your mind can naturally sence somting. maybe not somthing so advious in the dream, like you cheating on you BF. maybe somthing else in the dream. for example, maybe you will move somewhere else, somthing like that. i dont know, just a thought. but i personally beleve that its one of your worst fears. hope i could help, and hope your BF isnt mad!!
ANK


I can't seem to get myself motivated to do my homework! I have a lot tonight, but I always just seem to think "I'll do it later. I'm having way more fun IMing my friend right now" Then "later" comes around, and I think the same thing. This cycle goes until like 8:00 when I have no choice to start my homework, but even then I get distracted. What can I do to perk up my assignments?

thx

Trinity (link)
ok, heres what i do. i come home, play some games or somthing for and hour. then i do a few problems on my homework. then i go back to the game for a while and back and forth until my homework is done.


i dont get this well i never take in more then 2000 callories a day more like 1000-1500 but like im putting on weight!!! the only way i lose any is if i dont eat for a day or i have no breakfast no lunch and like a salad for dinner which i have sometimes! but i dont get it.
i did lose about half a stone last year im 51.6kg and 5'2 btw im almost 15 if that helps x x x (link)
yes, it does add up. you may only take 2000 calories or less, but to loose or keep your weight you have to exercise!! eating only a salad isnt bad as long as you drink LOTS of water throughout the day. so if you want to loose your weight, you can eat regular, but you have to exercise. hope i helped
ANK


Okay I'm 13 years old and a female. Yesterday I noticed a small bump on my left breast, near the nipple. It sometimes hurts when I touch it but it also looks somewhat like a pimple. I'm really worried that this could be breast cancer. There is no history in my family of having breast cancer. Do you think it's cancer?

Thanks! =]

All advice is appreciated! (link)
well, its unlikely that you have breast cancer, but if i were you, i would tell your mom. she might know if its a pimple or somthing else. if she dosent know, go to a doctor. hope i helped
ANK


Ok, so i have this really outdated laptop that never works.. i really want a notebook type thing. I went on all types of stores to find one. I really want a GOOD notebook.. but i only have abut 800 bucks and i want one REASONABLY priced.. say about 800 or less. Please help me
i rate high.. if you could.. supply me with internet sites so i can check them out! thanks
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well, i hear alien ware is good (alienware.com)but, as long as you get an ibm, alien ware, emacines, or other popular brands you should be fine. but i dont really recomend dell. my friend (who is a computer genious) has one and over one years time it broke down 11 times because viruses got in. hope i helped
ANK


I got a DELL 2400 bout a month ago and I have installed MSN 7.5 and my computer is running slower. I have about 89% free space on my hard disk. What can I do to make it run faster??? Thanks! (link)
well, press control, alt, and delete at the same time and see how many programs are running. if there are over 35 then tthats not good. try to delete you cookies too.


hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off? (link)
well, its really up to you. some people take it off cause it hurts when they wake up. i leave it on, just cause its less work in the morning :)


Ok I like this boy that I'm like best friends with. Well today online I was gonna tell him that I like him. I was in a chat with him and 2 other friends. I was aksing who i should like. Well then my cpu broke. i didnt see the rest of the chat. Well it ended up him telling one of my friends that he likes her and I was just about to tell him that I liked him right before my cpu broke. Now he likes my friend and I'm really sad. How can I get him to like me?

I need Advice fast!
I rate 5s for most people (link)
ok, well if you beleve him then beleve him, but talk to your friend. then i think you should go IM him and say somthink like: mark, i have a crush on you." and then see what happenes

hope i helped
ANK


ok yall i need some help.ok the thing is that i like this guy but he is in the 6th grade and im in the 8th.he is as tall as me not imature so--- sweet cute and possibly likes me to.i think he does cause he always flirts with me but no one else.i dont no if i should or not. i think he is 12 or 11 and im 13.which isnt that bad .but the thing is if we do become bf and gf i dont want ppl thinkin i was just desprate or any thing like that.cause im not i just dont have alot of self confidence with askin guys.so idk wat i should do.plz help i rate high. (link)
well first of all if people dont like it...they dont like it. o well, tough for them. i mean, i know how it feels to be judged by who your friends are or who you date, but just egnore it, it will die down soon enough. so just ask him out, see what he says, if its a no, try to move on, cause he probably isnt right for you anyway. hope i helped...ANK


OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please (link)
i would talk to your boyfriend first, and ask him what he told his mom, ect. then go appologise, but dont show any anger, and dont hint that your not REALLY sorry(if you arn't). say you were stuped and you wont do it again.hopefully they will learn to forget it and get to know the better side of you. hope i helped.
ANK


my bf and I never have things to talk about. What can we talk about?
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well think of what your bf likes and talk about that.(or waht you liked)


i like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me should i use the direct approach and aske her out or tell sum1 else 2 do it for me (link)
well if you can gather enough courage to do it yourlesf it might work out better, but if you cant then have one of your friends do it. if i were asked outby someones friend my answer really wouldnt change, but it matters in the girl.hope i hepled
ANK


I'm writing an essay on who inspires me and I'm doing my grandma when i said "grandma" in the essay would it be capital? For example My grandma...Captil or not? (link)
Grandma is capitalized, my grandma is not unless you are useing it as a name


I'm going to get a physical done next week. I got the last physical done about 2 years ago, and I remember they looked down my pants to see if I was healthy "down there." My question is, am I supossed to shave my pubic hair or not? I don't wanna look like an idiot when they look "down there."

Thnks bunches.. (link)
i wouldnt do that....unless you want to keep shaveing throughout your life. if you do it only this once, it will grow back quicker and thicker. i wouldnt do it, but i guess its up to you. hope i helped,
ANK


my friends boyfriend recently got stabbed by his ex-girlfriend. my friend thinks it is all her fault because he got stabbed because of something she told him to tell his ex. and then his ex went locco on him. does is sound like her fault?

will rate...
smartass answers not welcome

PS-wat can i do to comfort her? (link)
its not her fault, she didnt make him tell his ex.invite ur friend over and do somthing she likes to do. try to get her mind off things. hope i helped
ANK




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