E-mail:
angiemills88@hotmail.comGender:
FemaleLocation:
australiaOccupation:
Kitchen DesignerAge:
19MSN:
angiemills88@hotmail.comMember Since:
January 26, 2005Answers:
409Last Update:
February 14, 2008Visitors:
27559Favorite Columnists
Teza
shake
Brunettesweetheart2468
mousie_101
BabyBlue848
Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
Friendship
View All
about
i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...*~respect yourself~*
advice
I have a 17 yr old nephew that I am fairly close too and really care about, yet not close enough where he trusts me enough to talk openly and honestly with me.
A couple of weeks ago he got into some trouble in school. This is the story he told his parents (my sister is his mom) and the school principal. A kid his age threatened to beat him up in sixth period, and even shoot him. Come sixth period, the guy took a swing at my nephew, infront of all the other students as well as the teacher, my nephew ducked, then punched the guy in the face. Then everyone was cheering them on when the another teacher broke it all up. Long story short, my nephew gets suspended, and since this was his third suspension, all for stupid, stupid actions on his part, he was sent to a local continuation high school. Coincidently enough, so was the bully who threatened him.
I fear for my nephew. I want his entire family to move out of their bad neighborhood, but they are too scared to face the facts. I am on the outside looking in, and I can only imagine what the future holds for my nephew and his other siblings.
My nephew appears to have no aspirations for anything. I have always been the nice uncle who has freely experienced the world. I want to help him, I want him to see that there is a HUGE world out there just waiting for him, but how? How do I help him see outside his little box?
you could invite him to spend some time with you. take him outside the box so he can see it personally. good luck.
my dad hits me. and i'm really afraid of him. when he comes home from work i stay in my room. but whenever i do something wrong. even when i get less than an A on a test he'll hit me and say i'm not living up to my potential. i don't know what to do. He hits my mom to and i get badly bruised from the battles. what can i do? who can i go to? and is there anyway possible that i can get out of my house and be adopted or something? help me Please.
you need to go to the police. its all you can do. if your mum has stayed with him this long i doubt she will leave him now but you can ask her to. you need to tell the police the next time it happens. and if he is beating your mum call the police while hes doing it. if the police say they cant do anything about it tell them that he will hit you if you dont get out and ask to stay at a friends place. you need a close friend with a nice family that you can tell. tell her parents so they know whats happening and ask to use their house as a safe house. then, whenever your dad hits you, go to your friends and call the cops. your in a difficult situation and you must be careful because he might do more than just hit you next time. so tell the police and they should sort it out. if your dad has to go to court and you have to testify, do it. dont be scared coz if you dont he will hurt you but if you do he will go to jail.
goodluck!
if you need anything at all e-mail me at angiemills88@hotmail.com
ughhh
my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible !
DUMP HIM!!! if he isn't wiling to make sacrifices for you he aint worth it. get a better guy.
I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way.
it depends really... i was put to sleep but then again i had 6 teeth pulled out. if you are staying awake then it will be numbed so it wont hurt too much. but if you are put to sleep it wont hurt at all.... just feel weird when you wake up.
My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him?
you have to talk to him. ask him whats wrong and figure it out.
i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?
its not bad to think about it as long as you dont do anything. keep your virginity coz then, when your older, guys will respect you.
if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
NO! lol. your a lesbian if you WANT to make out with chicks all the time. dares dont count. :)
i love this kid pat that is 2 years older then me.over the summer he stole my bike thats how i fell in love with him. nd he was my first kiss!! like real kiss. any way we made out 5 6 times in the past. were in a fight right now. i still like him though.opps i mean love. any way he likes this girl liz. but he always make me laugh like last nite.. he was flirting w/ me be4 we got into a fight.. idk should i tell him i love him to death and i would do any thing for him? or noo? please help
i rate high
guys... and girls... can get scared of love... like i had this guy i was dating for 2 WEEKS and he's like OMG i so love you... i was 16... i didn't want love. i wanted fun. needless to say we didn't last long. so be careful. before the whole love thing happens... have fun!!! dont get all serious!
I recently met this guy who I really am starting to like a lot. He has even talked about us being togeather, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, but I decided we should take it slow and go out a few more times. He recently admitted to me that he was bisexual. I still really like him a lot, so should this effect me in any way? I'm really confused, please help me. Thanks
well its kinda hard to tell you what to do... but i dont think i could go out with a guy that... well sticks things where they're not meant to be stuck... i have gay friends so i have nothing against them... but personally i couldn't date a guy thats bi.
hey well i need some advice..you see well this is kind of weird but I am 14, and i have not had my period yet. I dont know when I am going to get it. My friends all have it and have boobs. I dont want to talk with anyone about it, like a doctor or family. Please help. When do I know I am going to get it? Thanks xox
dont worry. my aunt didn't get hers until she was 17. so dont fret. they will come!
do you think it's better if a 17 year old dates a 25 old?! or do you think it's better for me wait until i'm 27 and he's 35?!
i think that if you love him and you aren't gonna get all slutty then go for it. age dont matter!
there is this guy i like that i send letters to but i was wondering should i ask him if he is single or would that be to rude of me?
its not rude. go for it honey!
tonight i was at my boyfriends house and ive been with him since october.. 16/f.. just recently i fell in love with him and its an amazing relationship ..i was at his house tonight and he and i were messing around and i suddenly have never wanted to have sex so bad in my life.. im a virgin so im kind of opposed to it.. but i mean im in love with this guy and he means so much to me its just.. being a virgin i get so much respect and i love the respect i get from it.. im afraid if i lose it im gonna regret it somehow or another.. i dont know though.. i really dont know.. what should i do.. i mean i want to so bad because its just so .. there.. but i just.. dont know.. by the way hes a virgin to.. hes 18/m me-junior him-senior
if you truly feel you are ready for this then go for it. but think long and hard about it. you might wanna wait a few months and see if you still like him.
my friends stepdad molested her last night and i dont no what to do. i no i NEED to be there for her. and her mom said that if they cant find another house to buy they are moving over an hour away. which means i will probably never see her again. she is like my best friend. someone please help me. it has just hit me that i might not ever talk to her again. someone please help. i have been crying a lot...
she has to talk to her mum. her mum should do whats best for her. if her mum is a selfish bitch that doesn't care, ask you parents if she can move in with you. molestation is wrong and u need to take as many steps as necessary to prevent it from happening again.
Yesterday I(17) met this guy snowboarding(20) and he gave me his number and i called him last night and he wanted to hang out tonight but i had to babysit till 8 so he called me around 8 wen i shoudlve been done and asked to hang out but it ended up i was gonna have to babysit longer so i told him that i couldnt and he was like well i have to go to school tomorow (wednesday)and im not sure what im doin after that and he was like well give me a call wen u have some free time and then we said bye.im not sure tho if he means hes not sure what hes doing after class on wednesday or just like the whole next few days ...so im not sure if it would be dumb to call him like thursday afternoon? what do u think?
call him! he was putting the ball in your court!!! he prolly thought you were making up excuses as to why you COULDN'T see him. so call him and organise something.
Just out of curiosity, what are some hints that guys may give if they like you? And what are some really subtle ones? I'm always oblivious to these things and was just wondering. Especiallly to see if any of them apply to the guy I like. Thanks!
when they make comments on everything you say... like this one guy, i would say 'do this or i'll whoop your ass!' and he'd reply with something ike... 'will i be tied down to a bed ;)' we ended up dating. so yeah, smartasses usually like you....
I'm a 19 year old female thats having problems with my boyfriend. He thinks that things between us have started to slow down. He also said that its all one sided and that he has to try and see me. The problem is he's worked non stop all week for the last 3 weeks. His mom and dad hate me so trying to see him at his house is a no go area at the moment. When we do see each other its breif mainly in the morning before he goes to work, where i have to get up at 7 just to see him or in our local which is 4 times a week. I feel low enough at the moment how do we set things back on track?
a relationship should be easy and fun at that age. obviously you aren't right for each other if its so hard. move on and find a great new guy!
ok there's this new kid in my skool , nd he's in everyone of my classes, nd he chose to sit next to me in every one of them. but the thing is i lik him , and he's alwayz flirtin wit me , nd i flirt bak. but when he came here , me nd my b/f juss started goin out,nd som1 tld me tht he liked me bak. and everyone says tht we would mak a good couple. but the other day my best friend saw my b/f kiss his ex-gf , nd he said he didnt,so wut should i do? Should i break up wit my b/f , nd go out wit the new kid? or Should i give my b/f another chance, nd juss be friends wit the new kid? nd im 13/f
Signed really confused
dump your man. dont take his shit. cheating is wrong. go for the new kid!!!
well not in love...at all just I really like him ALOT. Im not sure if I should tell him or not....or how. But he has a girlfriend (its nothing serious theyve only hugged). But hes always flirting with me and staring at me two days age he was like lying on me. Hes o cute and nice i just dont know what to do
Please Help!!Sandy/13/f
you gotta tell him. you may be worried about it ruining your friendship but if you do nothing it will ruin your friendship too coz it'd be to hard to just be friends. so tell him
my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2
divorces are hard on kids. but you need to realise that your father has to move on... you cant change how you feel but accepting it will help. your parents are seperated. your father has a girlfriend. so what??? my parents are divorced, both have remarried, i dont care. as long as they are happy. so think of it that way. your dad is happy. thats good.