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my friends stepdad molested her last night and i dont no what to do. i no i NEED to be there for her. and her mom said that if they cant find another house to buy they are moving over an hour away. which means i will probably never see her again. she is like my best friend. someone please help me. it has just hit me that i might not ever talk to her again. someone please help. i have been crying a lot...
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***You need to report this to the police or something...the later you do, the less evidence you will have.
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Keep in touch through chatting and e-mail and go to see her on special occasions, an hour or so drive isn't that much if you really care about her. I'll pray for you and your friend hun, and I hope you two are okay and stay in touch.
-Farren
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omg. i am really sorry for your friend and you! i cant believe someone would do that. its disgusting and wrong and horrid and SADJFHASLFAWLIUHFALJKSDFALKJSNCLKSJCNASD!!!!!!!!! someone shoot the fucking bastard from hell. he will rot with the devil. did anyone call the police??? this guy should be arrested IMMIDIATLY!!! please get some help for her, i am in awe. also, if she/you are Godly people, i suggest you pray for her, and have her pray that everything will be OK. God really can comfort you in the darkest times...if you want more advice on THAT subject please message me.
i hope this helped in the greatest way. good luck to you and your friend!!!
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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HE NEEDS TO GO TO JAIL!!! Call the police, it's not fair for HER to have to move, when he was the one who was wrong! It's sad because this is the second molestation case that I've seen that hasn't been reported to the police. What he did was against the law, and completely disgusting. He should at least have to leave and never come back, if not do serious jail time.
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Why don't you get them to call the police and keep the house they were living in. Maybe have them stay at a hotel/motel for a while until he's gone. He should be put in jail for that.
Hope i helped! ♥
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I know this is going to be hard for you..but dont you think this is best for her? Being molested is horrible..and she needs to get away. For now..support her. And when she moves..keep in touch by talking on AIm..emailing..phine..letters. And maybe once a month you guys can visit. But your friend must escape this environment. shes lucky..many girls who are molested by family members are stuck in the home. But she can get away..she needs this.and i think you know deep down inside its best for her.
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Wow, I'm really sorry that this has happened to your friend. You need to be there for your friend and try to help her through this. In the mean time, start helping her mom by looking in real estate brochures or in newspapers and if you find a place that's close, show it to her mom. If your friend ever does move, you can still see her but not as much but you could always talk to her on the phone or by writing letters to each other. Just be there for your friend and show her that you care about her and want to help her out through everything.
-Karen
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she has to talk to her mum. her mum should do whats best for her. if her mum is a selfish bitch that doesn't care, ask you parents if she can move in with you. molestation is wrong and u need to take as many steps as necessary to prevent it from happening again.
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ok 1- calm down
2- talk to her on-line and on the phone
3- my friend moved about 45 minutes away and i really cant see her much i just saw her for the 1st time last month since the last day of school.
figure a game plan where you guys can see each other on the weekends maybe go to the others every other weekend and stay all 3 days or something ...like drive there on friday after school n do hw in the car or such n come back home on sundays.
you just gotta think possitive on how u guys can see each other..one of my 2 friends who moved out of state n i are 8 hours away and i found out Hershey, PA is our half point where there is 4 hours and 35 mins to there both ways, so next time we could meet there instead of drivin 8 hours to see the other person....
JUST THINK POSITIVE!
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AWWW I'm sooo sorry to hear about your friend. But meanwhile you can help them find a house or apartment. Help them look for one so maybe they can stay near you or something. I have no clue what so ever what to tell your friend but make sure she knows that your there for her.
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Well I use to live in Denver then my mom moved to a new job in fort collins! (that is an hour away) and me and my friends became closer than EVER!!! I swear and sometimes for the weekend I go down or she comes up and it's a blast. But wuteva they decide u always gotta b there 4 her.
Good luck!
~Maddy~
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