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So i was answering a question and after i press send or whatever it says "Chatspeak detected. Type in english" what is that?

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=93

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Well i have a boyfriend his name is Justin. And truthfully i like him ALOT..weve been togehter for about a month..We hung out like 3 days ago and thats the last itme ive heard from him. Now i've got a bunch of people telling me he doenst like me and is talking shit about me. I dont know what to do because i like him alot and i think he likes me too. But people are telling me different..i dont know what to do. i like him alot and dont want to not be with him. please help me with what i should do?
Thank you very much,
Erica

**Sorry I didn't get to this sooner, I read it and then totally forgot to answer**

Well...Alot of times rumors turn out to be true. But before you start your crying I would suggest you talk to Justin one day when you and he are alone and tell him about the rumors your hearing and ask him if they are true. Tell him you want the truth, even if it hurts you. You deserve the truth. If he says they are true or whatever just remember, some where there is a perfect guy for you and if he doesn't want you he just missed a great chance.

Best Wishes.

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Hi Im Courtney and Im 14 years old,There is this guy in my homebase, I have never meet him before but we became really good friends. Like a Month ago I started likeing him more than a friend. I had my friend call him and ask him out for me but he said he only likes me for a friend. The next day I called him and told him I liked him and he said that was cool. Ever since I told him He has been really nice to me and walking to my classes with me , but he has never done that before. I dont want to ask him out agian, but all my friends that I hang out with all say he is flirting with me. I dont Know what to do. Can you give me some advice?

Well from what you have told me it sounds like he has thought about you expressing your feelings toward him and I think that he may like you. I don't think you should make it into anything bigger than just two friends that like each other right now. Right now I would tell you to just let him really figure out his feelings for you. Guys mature slower than girls and they sometimes can't understand their feelings. Don't make any big moves and just let it all happen.

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Im on your friend list...but anyways. How did you get to be a level 2 mod? I want to be a level 2 moderator!

Hey DemonDrummer,
Well for one, I have been on this site since the begining of the year and I stayed around. Unlike alot who get tired of just answering questions.
But anyways I would suggest that you just stay with the site and keep up your good advice you give. Rate questions like crazy if your a L1 and in time I bet you will be reconised for your hard work.

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Hey, my name is Megan. I'm 13, I know most ppl think that's young to be in relationships, but I consider myself a smart, and responsible teen. Well, to the question. I really like this guy who just turned 16, he's Really sweet, and he's so funny, and we have a lot in common. I know he likes me, I've caught people trying to see what I was doing, etc, and then telling him what I was doing. He's a VERY shy person, and so am I. He's very shy around me, but he always tries to make me laugh, and he does! He always is looking at me, and smiles alot, and usually when I catch him, he looks away, and when he tries to be funny to ppl, he looks over to make sure I'm laughing! I know he likes me, and so do my friends, but I'm too shy to ask him out, and him too! How can I do this with out sounding stupid, and in case he says no, I wouldn't be as afraid of rejection?????
Megan

Well you sound very matture.

You both like each other alot so this is my advice. Build up your courage, it takes alot but I bet in your case it will be worth it. If you just can't do it then talk to him about your feelings for each other. That might help quite abit. Now if you STILL can't do that there is always the opption of writing a note...which for most works but not me.
You really shouldn't be affraid of getting rejected. Its part of life, You learn alot from it. Now I'm not saying that he is going to reject you but if he happens to by any idiotic chance, Just think about what he is missing. Remember this quote, its very helpfull for me. "You may regret what you do now, but you will regret what you don't do so much more"

Good luck, Megan.

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I wanna kno if i'm her type

I really don't think there is a "Type" for anyone. Just people that get along.
Think about it....Do you and your crush get along, do you both laugh at the same things, hate/like the same things. If you answer yes to these questions than the answer might be that she likes you. But she could be one of those girls that don't see you in the same way as you do. In other words, she may not like you more than a friend.
I don't know if I really even helped but I hoped I did.

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What are some sites I could go to to get cool backgrounds for my advice column? (besides googling is :P) Thanks a bunch!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php

Thats Advicenators backrounds. They are all free and really kind of cool.

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My column says that I've been rated 25 times, when really, I counted& I've been rated 63 or so..is there any reason why it does that? I've looked under FAQ and couldn't find a thing! MODS please don't delete!

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=6
Use that link, it should tell you all you want to know.

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I have a 6 month old beagle and he bites me all the time..and only me and sometimes my mom but not my dad or brother..he never used to to this! It started about a few weeks ago and I don't think he's mad because half the time he's around me and happy..and then the other half he just starts chewing on me and I tell him to stop and I move away and he get's even more mad! I don't know what to do it really bothers me and it hurts! I know he's not teething because he's past that age and he chews his toys too. If I try to stop and disiplin him he doesn't listen..but he listens to everyone else in my family! Please help! I'll rate high..thanks!!

I can understand where you are coming from, I have a 7 or 8 month old Beagle "Fonzie" and he is terrible with the chewing. *Scolds Fonzie for shewing on his blanket* I have only had fonzie for about 3 months and he has chewed up about 4 blankets altogether and he love to bite/lick me continuesly. What I have done to minimize his desire is everytime he does it he gets a nice stern NO and a slap on the nose. If he keeps it up I repeat and slap his nose again. Yes it may seem mean but really Fonzie has learned. he hardly trys to bite except when he is really excited. I do the same to stop the licking.
I also wanted to say that he can too still be teething. Fonzie was untill he was about 7 months. You also have to give your pup a chance, your dog will still be a puppy until he is about a year and a half.

You just have to tell him NO and slap his nose. Make understand that your the boss. Fonzie only trys to bite me and my mom but no others.

Good luck and have fun with you Puppy!

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Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help!

Okay.... Someone who eats my kind of foods! YAY!!!! Heh, okay what I always eat is....Don't be afraid till you try it....Cream of chicken with mashed potatoes. Yes thats mild but I always water the cream of chicken down and I normaly put beans of corn with it. (In the same dish all together) Another thing is your mashed potatoes you can put in garlic powder and just seasonings that you have around. If your too afraid of ruining you precious potato's you can buy the ones that already seasoned. They taste just as good. I know from experience. Heh, personaly I prefer watered down cream of chicken and egg noodles with beans. Honestly I love it.

What we like, the Mashed potatoes and my cream of chicken is total comfort food. So it makes sence why you like it, it comforts you.

Well I don't know if I helped much but something else that I love and maybe you will too is Strawberry shortcake ice cream bars. MMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm that is goood. Yhey are kinda hard to find though...

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my x boy friend dumped me and said he still wanted to be friends. now he hates me and he never told me why he dumped me. I really need to talk to him but every time I go to talk to him he says "Go away your anoying" and I have no Idea why!

Well he dumped you for starters and whenever I hear "We can still be friends" line I always thought that was a sign that the guy is an idiot for breaking up if he wants to still be friends. Now see with you, you want to know why and he is trying to get away. Doesn't that tell you something like prehaps move on and forget him? I have to be honest if a guy dumped me I would totally forget him. My advice to you is leave the guy alone. He doesn't/won't talk to you than just let it be. You may need closer but think of it this way "He is an idiot for not wanting me, I will move on and show him that I don't need him"

So yeah my advice to you is leave him alone and go on with your life.

sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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my best friends little brother has a huge crush on me. he tells all of his friends that I'm his girl friend. I like him as a friend. But my best friend thinks he's weird. evry time the 3 of us are in the same room my best friend always asks me "would you ever go out with my brother" just to hert his feelings. I wouldn't go out with him but I just say "I dont know" when she asks me because her brother is nice and dont want to hert his feelings.
I'm 11 a girl and in 7th grade
my best friend is 12 a girl and in 7th grade
her brother is 11 and in 6th grade

Well I feel I must state the fact that your quite young to worry about this, but yet I feel inclined to answer.

what I normaly advise to others in the situation that your in is to tell him politely that you don't like him but keeping in mind of his age I think the best thing for you is to let his crush die out. Normaly they do, deffinatly at your age. If he drives you nuts too much with his crush tell him nicely you don't like him.

With his sister just tell her the truth, that you only see him as a friend and that you won't go out with him just to hurt him.

Good luck and best wishes.
advice~gurl

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omg liek ii dun no iif mii boii luv mah how kan ii find out :)

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hey... i met this guy though a friend... ethan... he is sooo incredable.... he's 14 (same with me)really funny.... really smart... amazingly gorgeous.... i really like him and i am pretty sure he likes me... the only problem... he lives in Seattle and i live in LA... i want to be with him soooo bad but i dont kno what to do... should i get over him?? or should i keep on liking him?? please help me with this... devonny

Its a known fact that long distance relationships don't normaly last. In your case I don't think it will. Your only 14 and Seattle and Las Vegas are far apart. I'm 4 hours away from seattle and I still would say it would not work.
I say forget him for now, guys that are just as perfect will cross your path and maybe in the future you two will get togather but for now leave it alone. Thats my advice and opinion, Good luck and I do promise there will be guys just as great for you. Its just that this guy isn't for you.

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aight there is this gurl that you meet and you feel in love wit her..but she really didn't like you she wantd to be friend then she ask you to homecomming yall had fun but her x was there and you are trying to ask her out but don't know what to say

Well one if you learned to write a question better I may be able to give you better advice. I am sorry for my lateness on answering you question but I couldn't figure out how to reply to this.
well just ask her if she would like to go with you. It won't kill you, Take a deep breath and dive into the deep end. Just say you like her and that you want to go out with her. Tell you don't know if she likes you with her ex always around. Good Luck and I hope I helped a bit.

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Hey. I've like a girl for maybe a year now but i haven't really done anything about it. We talk online every night she's on. We recently have been talking about peoples crushes and i told her that i liked her. She didn't return my statement and she said she liked someone else. I didn't know what to do but i really like her. Were the best of friends and i want more. I cant stop thinking about this and i dont know wat to do.

She either likes you but can't/won't say or she doesn't. And really I think she doesn't sorry tos say, I could be wrong but I still feel right. I think wahat your feeling is just infatuation. foolish and usually extravagant temporary love of an adolescent. and no I'm saying your foolish but this just infatuation. I have had it (many times) my friends everyone has. I do know what it is like to not be able to stop thinking about someone but I think you have to make your self not think about her as much. If you feel ike you want to tell/talk to her again about your feelings than go ahead but you might have you heart or hopes crushed hard.
I really don't think she wants what you want. She just wants friendship and well... you want more. good luck and just remember "You will regret what you do now but you will regret what you don't do so much more."

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ok....... One day I had a (best) friend over and let's name his "Brian". So Brian and I were walking around the park by my house and we were talking about crushes. He knows I have a huge crush on him but he told me he had a crush on MY BEST FRIEND! I was crushed. But then after we walked like 2 blocks around the park, we sat down on a swinging bench. And (since we're best friends) I layed down on the bench with my head on his lap. And then out of nowhere, HE KISSED ME! You can imagine how happy I was. Then when we finished kissing, we decided to walk home. We didn't talk the whole way home (which is like 10 minutes). I'm a 13 year old girl and he's an 18 year old boy (does that matter? LOL)Does he like me or what? PlEaSe AnSwEr! I rAtE gOoD!

quit repeating this question. Its been deleted a million times already. If you ask this again you will be suspened again.

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Hey!I am 13 and a female. Ok,here's how it is.I like this boy,i think.I am in seventh grade and I have known him since sixth. He knew I liked him last year and he liked me too.He was just too shy. I dont really like to ask guys out and uh..last night on the phone he told me that he would go out with me if we lived closer. I live about 20 min away. The way I know him is because part of this year and all of last year I went to his school.But my mom MADE me change schools!On the phone he was like asking me if I ever wanted to go out with someone but I lived to far away? and he was like if someone asked you out right now what would you say.He also said last year he should have went out with me instead of his EX! I dont kno if like he wants to be friends or what? Im really confused!Im not sure if he likes me or not! I havent seen him since I switched schools a month ago.I dont know what I should do cuz I like never see him but I feel a really good conection!! We r plannin 2 go 2 da movies soon!PLEASE give me some advice!! PLEASE!! write asap please!

I think he may like you but he is aguy that you should stay away from because he could keep giving you mized signals for a longs time. I think that you should take it slow and just go with what happens. Do watch out for heart he could be a real breaker.
Good luck but just stay calm! hugs

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I really like this boy in my fith grade class.Were both ten and almost everyone girl in my school has had a boyfriend befor but not me. I act really confidint at school but im really shy when it comes to boys. This boy is prety mutch the class brain but he's not a geek. He also cute and funny, and all of my friends tell me that he likes me but im not shure i mean he whaigts for me after school and then tries to entertain me and we joke with eachother all the time.My friends have asked him he liked me befor and he tried to keep a staight face, didnt look them in the eye and said "like a friend" but they all tell me that he will say yes if i ask him.BUT I AM WAY SHY AROUND HIM!

Well personaly I think your too young to worry about guys. I know how you feel but I think you should just stay friends, when you get older in like 5-6 years, (as you can see I'm not even old enough for me) You should just be friends my advice. But I will say he likes you he really likes you.

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