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When i was 7 my brother and i sucked each other's dicks and felt each other in the ass and we both liked it. we did this like every night and one time we were caught. we still do it anyway. now im 14 and so is he (were twins). is this normal? (link)
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eww it's your brother .. insist .. tell ur rents!
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about a week ago i was talking to this guy on the internet and he was asking me who i liked and i was like idk who do you like and he gave me all these clues that lead up to me then told me that it was me and then i told him that i like him. he is cute and makes me laugh (which i like) but on monday he went on this trip and my best friends bf waS there to. so of course they talked on the phone everynight then one day she told me that while they were talking he asked for my phone # but he hasn't called me yet, should i call him or just forget about him??? im am really confused (14) (link)
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I wouldn't call him.. it shows that you might be a lil desperate .. always wait for the guy to call, and if he doesn't, then maybe he's just a loser lookin for a good sex even if he doesn't seem like that.. I wouldn't forget about him though .. I bet you he'll call soooon!
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ok well i like this guy i mean i have written love notes ABOUT him and everytime i read them i love him even more i mean he is really cute plus soooo sweet but i know he likes me as jsut a friend and he called me cute but when i get around him i get really shy and now he is but i'm only shy around him i'm not that shy but i am kinda (but it is only around him)! what do i do to not be as shy around him??? (link)
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Just be yourself. That's all you can do. Don't try to impress him though and dont act differently because that might just be a turn off .. but just be yourself around him .. just pretend that he's like another friend .. that's just a friend only you want it to be something more!
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Hi it is me amy again. i am really still sad. i really hope you guys will help me out. Well this is my problem. my best frienmd chose her Boy friend over me i am really getting sad. i wishi knew what to do. so if you can help me send me an email at amyBelle101@AOL. com or just answer it here. thanks a million. amy (link)
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Okay, listen up .. I've been through this plenty of times .. And it's almost starting to be normal.. It really sucks to have your best friend choose her boyfriend over you and it's hard to get through it .. what I think you should do is just start hanging out with other friends .. get your mind off of that .. but I don't think you should not be friends with her or anything .. she still needs you .. you guys are still best friends and i'm sure she'd still come to you with her problems. It's tough to have a boyfriend and a best friend who both need you and maybe she's not trying hard enough to make time for you .. but she'll come to you .. because, that's what best friends do. Just be there for her .. and support her.. try talking to her again .. just go hang out with other friends.
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Okay, here goes. My best friend and I have been friends for 14 years (We're both 19 now). We've always been there for eachother, always were together, etc. But about 3 months ago, I introduced her to one of my other friends, and then she completely changed her lifestyle and appearance (as in the way she dresses, acts, and stuff) to be just like that person and she's not the person I used to know anymore. Our friendship started getting weaker, so I changed my style to be like hers, and our friendship got to the way it used to be again. But about a month ago, I didn't like my "new lifestyle" so I changed back to my old on, and now our friendship got weaker. I've tried as much as I can to bring it back, I talk to her and try to fix our friendship, but it's not working, she gives me the "sorry attitude" and then blows me off. Now we're hanging on by a thread and it seems the more I talk to her, the farther we grow. I know this is because I introduced her to that person (her new best friend), and I'm starting to regret that deeply. They're inseparable now, and I'm feeling so awful because I just lost my best friend of 14 years to this. Now they spend every waking hour together and I mean nothing anymore. (link)
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I know you want to fit in with them, but you shouldn't have changed yourself just for them. It's hard to give a friendship away .. but when it comes down to it .. I think it's something you should try to do. You can find a new best friend and just leave the one that didn't like you for you anymore alone .. I don't mean to seem harsh but it's seriously her loss. You can go on now, be a better person without having to change yourself for her. It may be tough, but I think you can do it.
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thare is this girl that i liked for along time when like seen eachother for a wile before we went out and then we broke up because of me getting mad at her because she wanted to meet up with a senoir and shes only a 9th grader without letting me know and i found out from her friend should i just forgive her or forget her because who knows what she will do (link)
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Kyle .. I'm not goin to do anything with him .. me n him are like really good friends.. you just don't understand:-( .. i love you .. please don't forget me .. and i can't do anything else to make you forgive me
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Im 16 year old male... n ive ilked this girl since i donno when like forever n me n her went out for a while but than we broke up in high school n i still have really strong feelings for her but she has moved on n found a new man... should i try hard to move or just keep my feelings showed? (link)
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No offense, but if the girl is with a different guy, she's not actually goin to want to be with you. She's moved on with her feelings, and I think you should too. I know that it can be hard, but I think that would be for the best. It's just going to make you feel bad when you see them together if you don't move away from it now.
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I'm 16 and I like this guy .. only .. he's 23 .. I met him at a party and he's such a nice guy! I feel like i'm already in love with him. I'm afraid to tell my parents that we have a thing. What should I do? (link)
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First off, I think you should back off from the 23 year old and find someone that is more of your age. There's other sweet guys out there that aren't 7 years older than you that can be easy to find. Plus, this guy probably sounds sweet, but really .. is just look for some fresh stuff.
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I'm a girl, in my last year of middle school.I hang out with this group of girls, and one of them, Audrey, is almost TOO nice. Anyway, there is this scary(scay I mean has no friends, yells BAD words at people for no reason, is extremley poor, you get the point) girl, Kirsten, who is OBSESSED with Audrey!! Now, Kirsten has insisted on hanging out with Audrey, wich means she's hanging out with the rest of us. Me and my best friend ( the only 2 out of the six who are worried about this) tried talking to Audrey, but as I said before, Audrey is almost tooo nice, and she doesn't want to hurt Kirstens fellings by telling her to shoo. So, we tried alking to Kirsten about it, and she just screamed at us! We really hate hanging around her, but we don't want to give up Audrey over it. What do I do? (link)
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I think that Audrey just wants people to think that they can fit in... she ovbiously doesn't want people to feel bad. I know it might be hard to accept someone else that you really dislike into your group of friends, but maybe it's a good thing. You can't really do anything about Audrey and her being friends, just try to get along. Or ignore her if you have to. It might be tough, but in ways .. maybe Kirsten hanging out with you guys, could somehow change her for the good.
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I hhave this friend, ooooh, let's call her Tish. Tish is my best friend, but she has one major fault. She lies. Not like "sarah said that..." to later find out sara said nothing. What I'm talking about is she lies to impress ME! I've tried telling her she doesn't have to lie to impress me, but she gets all mad at me. Hoow do I know they are lies? Let me give you an example: That's cool, but I went to ant-artica afer school in my private jet, and when we got there, I went shopping at Anchor Blue! I got everything in the store! PLEZZZEE HELP!! (link)
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well .. talk to her about it .. tell her that you are seriosuly getting annoyed with her lies and that it won't make you like her anymore than you already do if she just lies about her life. You want to know the true facts about your friend .. and if she thinks lieing will make you like her more, It won't and I think you should tell her that she should be true to you and to herself.
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i think my boifreind is scared of my mom and dad he woln't make a serious commentment without asking them what should i do? (link)
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Most boys can be scared of the parents. Afterall, the parents are afraid to give away their daughter. I'm sure that if you just talk to him about it, everything will be fine. Just tell him not to be afraid because your parents love him. Tell him to just be himself around them. If he's not himself, your parents could start not liking the "not real him" ..
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I really like this one guy, but the bad part about him is that he's a flirt. He is currently single, but he's constantly flirting with girls and he even has a little black book with dozens of girls' phone numbers in it. He's got a very perverted sense of humor and always asks me if I could do perverted things for him involving taking off my clothes. He's just kidding of course, but is this kind of guy worth my time? (link)
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No .. don't get yourself into something you might regret in the future. Those kind of guys are ones that aren't very .. "boyfriend material" .. Plus, you probably wouldn't have a really great relationship with him if he's just gunna flirt with all the other girls all the time. You need someone that just needs you and doesn't need to look at other girls or flirt with them. Also, you need a guy that you can trust and that you can trust yourself with.
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ok, im a 16 almost 17 year old female. i have been datign this guy (Let's Call Him M) for about 2 months. and i love him, i truly do, and he lives in a different town. and about 3 weeks ago my ex (lets call him J) kinda randomly came to see me (we hadnt even talked since december my freshman year...im juss now ending my junior year) so i was excited...me an J were really good friends, then we started hanging out together. he took me to my concert, and i told M about how we were hanging out and he got all jelouse and we almost broke up. btu we are ok now, except, i have realized that i still have lotz of feelingz for J. and i dont know what to do!!!! please help me some one!!!!!!! (link)
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Make sure that the feelings you have for J are not just .. the Old kind of emotions. Do you really like him again? Or is it just that you've been hanging out with him a lot? I know this can be hard but it's something you have to decide.
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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do? (link)
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I know it's tough because you have friends from different groups and cliques but if they all wanted to be with you on your birthday, I'm sure they could all find a way to get along, even if they don't know each other. They may be shy at first but if its a great party, i'm sure they won't even care if they don't know anyone.
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Ok, I need some help. My friend Caroline has been trying to get over her ex for a couple of weeks(I don't know why it's so hard, they only went out for a week). Now she's met some guy over the net, who's 23! She wants to meet this guy, because she thinks it'll help her get over him, which is a huge mistake in my opinion, she doesn't even know him. What advice could I give her without seeming like I'm telling her what to do? Or what could we do to get her mind off of her ex?
Thanx
Kortni (link)
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I think you just have to let her know that you're kinda creeped out by it. And that it really isn't right to meet someone just to get over your ex. I really think you guys just need some "girl time" maybe hang out with friends and .. go to movies and stuff like that. It'll get her mind off of her ex, and she'll be having a good time with her friends. Soon she'll realize that being with her friends is way funner than trying to get over a stupid guy.
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do? (link)
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Well, no offense but I think it's a little late to tell her now. I think you should've thought of it before. Now alls you can do is just be supportive. Maybe they won't last and then you can tell her. Then you should tell him how you've been feeling. I think it'll all work out.
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ive been with my bf for 3 1/2 months and well...i used to be so INTO him.. but soemhow the luv has just FADED away... i DO care about him and love him alot, its just that im not IN love with him anymore. he told me a few days ago that if he ever lost me, he would kill himself. i know he wouldnt really do it, but i still need to worry. ANYWAY, he has NO CLUE about how im feeling. He thinks that i LUV him alot, and i dont know how i can get him not to be into be anymore.
hes just so into me and tells me so many things that he luvs about me... it creeps me out...
what should i do?! can anyone gimme any ideas on how i can get him to STOP LIKING ME... at least bit by bit.... i just want him to get , well, TIRED of being with me... i jstu want him to DUMP ME!!!! (link)
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Getting someone to dump you isn't always the best cure for things. I think you just need to tell him how you feel straight up with no hesitations. And make sure that you actually "don't like him" .. sometimes what happens to me is that, I don't think i like someone but once I don't have them anymore, I want him back. So, is it one of those things? Or do you seriously not like him? I do think you just need to tell him that maybe it's time for a break.
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My friend wants to hook me up with this guy that I hardly even know! I know his name and that I am a few days older than him... but that is it. She asks me if I get to know him better of I would go out with him? I told her I don't know because I dont know him yet. She and her friend keep asking me if I think he is hot. I say "Umm sorta". What should I do?
PS he is my EX-Boyfriend's Best friend! (link)
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Well, you really shouldn't be forced. Tell your friends that if you really wanted to, then you could make the decision for yourself. And considering that it's your ex-boyfriends best friend, I think you may need to think about it. Do you think that it'll maybe ruin their friendship?
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I have a boyfriend and we get on really well when we're together. We've been going out for 4 months but we've known eachother for a lot longer. We were really good friends before we started going out.
The only thing is, lately he wants to see me 24/7. Don't we need space? I feel I need a bit of time on my own. But I dont know what to say to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings in anyway. When I say I have stuff to do he gets a bit annoyed.........well he kinda says its ok but he hints it a lot that hes not happy with it.
Please help me (link)
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This sounds so familiar. Tell him how you feel. Seriously. He needs to know that you don't need him 24/7 and that he probably doesn't need you either. You are probably the only thing he has right now and he wants to be a part of you, but sometimes, you just need to tell him that you want to hang out with other people, and not just him. If he gets mad, then maybe you'll just need to take a break. I know that's not always the best thing but then maybe you'll realise some things. He's just trying to make you feel bad and you shouldn't let a guy do that to you.
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How do you get a guy to talk to you? (link)
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Sometimes, you just have to go up to them and say hi first. Or else, just give them certain signs that say .. "hey, talk to me" .. maybe give them a smile and they'll come to you .. If they don't come up to you .. then you go talk to them .. i'm sure a conversation will get started.
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