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i want to break up with my boyfriend
ive been with my bf for 3 1/2 months and well...i used to be so INTO him.. but soemhow the luv has just FADED away... i DO care about him and love him alot, its just that im not IN love with him anymore. he told me a few days ago that if he ever lost me, he would kill himself. i know he wouldnt really do it, but i still need to worry. ANYWAY, he has NO CLUE about how im feeling. He thinks that i LUV him alot, and i dont know how i can get him not to be into be anymore.
hes just so into me and tells me so many things that he luvs about me... it creeps me out...
what should i do?! can anyone gimme any ideas on how i can get him to STOP LIKING ME... at least bit by bit.... i just want him to get , well, TIRED of being with me... i jstu want him to DUMP ME!!!!
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omg! the same thing happened to me! like and he asks u to kiss him and u make up an excuse? just tell him that u wanna b friends..u realli like him..but u arent realli that readi for this kind of relationship..if he was a *true b/f* he would understand..yea he is gunna get mad but just say ur sry and u just want sum tyme aloine to think..
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Getting someone to dump you isn't always the best cure for things. I think you just need to tell him how you feel straight up with no hesitations. And make sure that you actually "don't like him" .. sometimes what happens to me is that, I don't think i like someone but once I don't have them anymore, I want him back. So, is it one of those things? Or do you seriously not like him? I do think you just need to tell him that maybe it's time for a break.
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Don't wait on him dumping you. Dump him now! He won't kill himself and if you really fear that he will hurt himself then give him the "Let's stay friends" deal. If you're not happy being together anymore, then end the relationship. No big deal.
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well honestly i think u should just tell him how u feel and if he loves u as much as he says he does he will understand...and still want to be friends w/ u..but dont make a big scene about it..just make it yalls business and no one elses
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Ugh! I know just how you feel. My friend got rid of her annoying b/f by walking past him with another boy and said that she was with HIM. It was a bit mean but it worked.
Hope it helps a bit
Ithielden
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well if your not into him any more tell him the truth and dont lead him on or he will get even more serious about yall's relation ship and if your not into him any more you defenitly dont want that but like i said just tell him the truth that you just want to be friends with him and not really boyfriend and girlfriend any more hopefully you can work something out.. <3 all my love LaLa
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Well you could tel him that yall should take a little break.. and see other ppl for a lil while.. but tell him you still want to remain friends. That's what I did with one of my boyfriends (i was in the same situation as you).. We stoped seein each other for a lil while and within a week we were back together and fell in love all over again. The sencond time around that love never really died.. So I think sometimes you think your sufficated or something always being with the same guy and you see that even just a lil while a freedom can go a long way.
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