Website: LaLa
Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: May 30, 2004
Answers: 19
Last Update: June 24, 2004
Visitors: 1567
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i hve an idea 4 u how bout' minding your own buisness i want to spend more time with my mom not my friends please return something [your a jerk] [you have to be a guy] stay out of my life] (link)
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like i said dont ask a question expecting the answer you want to here
your mom obviously dosen't care about your ass if she dosen't want to spend time with you
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my sister is having a baby and she really loves symbolic and unique names so i was wondering if i could get some suggestions... thnx :-D (link)
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Jazara it means blessed princess
and Justice is also a very pretty name
haha my name is pretty damn unique also havent meet anyone else with it in my 16 years of life
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my mom never spends time with me i ask every day to but she always says she's to busy but she's not i have talded to her before but she just said so what do i do (link)
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ahh that sucks
umm well it should really be the other way around to tell you the truth " mom wanting to spend more time with kid " just keep trying to spend time with her and if that dosen't work spend a hell of alot more time with your friends then she'll relize hey i missed a good opertunity to spend time with her when i had the chance dont get to mad at her though for it because i never really spend that much time with my mother either shes soo "busy" work.. kids.. you know the usual sutff hopefully all goes well for y ou
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Ok I have this friend and he's a boy and I have liked him for the past 3 years. He knows that I like him but, I don't know if he likes me or not. I was wondering what I should do, but I don't want to ask him or anything.
*confused* (link)
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lol this happens alot you should get one of your friends to just randomly ask him hey do you like (insert name here) haha and then have your friend tell you what he says thangs could work out who knows
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im too shy to ask a girl out what always happens is that i have my eye on one but i can't get the nerve to ask her out then some other guy takes her what do i do (link)
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just tell her how you feel some girls like shy guys ;) if you have your eye on a girl just make sure you let her know that you like her and then you can work your way up to asking her out don't be scared of rejection or anythang it happens to everyone soo many times in life don't let a girl bring you down :) hope i helped
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There is this guy I really like. Today I found out that he cuts himself. The only thing is, he doesn't know that I know. How can I bring it up and tell him to stop without sounding all maternal? (link)
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don't go tell everyone what he has done to himself people deal with emotions diffrent ways if you have a cut on your arm and someone ask you what hurts you can point to the cut and say that hurts because when your emotionaly hurt and someone ask you whats wrong or what hurts you dont really know its just emotions if your worried about him just ask him about it just dont question him like hes a freak or a physco or soemthing for doing it just out of curiousity ask him what it is and ask him why he's done it
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I have been beging for an earing for about 3 years now. im 14 and in 8th grade i reall really want it but there is just no way that i can convince my parents i dont know what to do please someone help me in ways to convince them ive tried school grades are good chores for free and even going shopping for them once in awhile i dont know what to do anymore..... (link)
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just do it your self it dosen't hurt .. well depend where you want it though
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Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =( (link)
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just let your friend know that you were there before him and you will be there after him he's just a boy she will get over him soon
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ok well i dont even kno where to start! my whole entire life sucks, mostly becuz i cannot stand the way i look.. i am soo fat and ugly.. im 15 and never even had a boyfriend before!!! sometimes i think i should just kill myself & get it over with.. i dont really think i have anything to live for.. please help me, i just dont know what to do anymore :/ by the way i think u are extremely pretty and u seem really nice (link)
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i'm sorry i'm so late answering your question -- well you can't stand the way you look? all girls don't like how something on their body looks or how they look in general everyone is beautiful in their own way don't let anyone tell you any diffrent -- so what your 15 and have never had a boyfriend who cares boys are trouble they just hurt you boys are should be the least of your worries -- your a normal teenage girl most of them have thought about killing them selves before the thought has crossed most peoples minds but you never they never go through with it because they relize how much they would be losing and how many people they would hurt and they relize hey my life really dosen't suck that much take it from me i would know don't do anythang stupid like hurting yourself physically or thank about killing your self just try to be happy you only get to live once so why not live it to the fullest and you said you don't have anythang to live for yes you do there are so many people who care about you you might not relize that but there are and if you would do something like kill your self you would hurt everyone who loves you so much thats the worst thang to deal with is someone killing them selves because it just makes you thank i could have done this or i could have done that to make them happy -- hopefully everythang i said helps you if you ever need to talk to anyone i'm here get at me on aim if you need to i hate to see people hating life when they could be having so much fun -- thank you for the complaments :-) --
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ok im an african american girl. i go to a prodominatly white school. and im not racist but some of the kids think like all the black people that go to my school are racist. im not racist against white people i like everybody n if i hate you its not because your race its because i hate you. or if i like you.. yea you get it but anyways im not racist but the white kids at my school say some racist comments and they have a lot of sterotypes about black people and then they watch to much tv. they think that all black men are in jail which is not true because i know alot of wealthy successful black men n then they think that all black women are video hoes.. n that aint true because i know alot of successful black women. and alot of their comments are just stupid and unnecessary and it pisses me off. like to the point where im ready to just beat them down. because they go by what they hear and not what they know. so i need a different way to over come there lil racists comments because if i do beat one of them down i already kno its gonna be shame on me and not shame on them because thats how my school is. and like i said i dont have anythin against white people but at my school if somethin happens they go to the black kids before they even try and think about anybody else. I NEED SOME HELP! (link)
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pretty much the same with me my school is mostly white kids and me being purto rican they find stuff to say but you just have to prove to them that what they thank about black people isn't true yes there are some black men and jail and yes there are plenty of white men in jail also people that put others down are obviously insicure about them selves sence they can find nothing better to do with there time then to make fun or say stuff to hurt other peoples feelings
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I have a boyfriend and we get on really well when we're together. We've been going out for 4 months but we've known eachother for a lot longer. We were really good friends before we started going out.
The only thing is, lately he wants to see me 24/7. Don't we need space? I feel I need a bit of time on my own. But I dont know what to say to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings in anyway. When I say I have stuff to do he gets a bit annoyed.........well he kinda says its ok but he hints it a lot that hes not happy with it.
Please help me (link)
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everyone needs there space let him know that and if he dosen't except that so be it but everyone needs a little bit of there own space so you dont get tired of your relationship that quick
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Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
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kelly,
most girls me being one of them are typicaly atracked to the whole "bad boy" thing if you don't like the stuff he does talk to him about it and see how he reacts to all of it and if its a positive response and he's willing to try to stop for you then hes defenitly a keeper! but on the other hand if its a negative response that he gives you then i really dont know it would be up to you i guess weather or not you want to put up with all of it but if he picks that over you then he's not worth your time anyways theres other guys out there that will treat you rite!
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Omg Alicia you have the greatest body i wish i was like you!(hehe) Do u go to the GYM alot or workout? What kind of stuff do u do? (link)
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im not alicia but all you have to do is be active run
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PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO? I BABYSIT A THREE YEAR OLD. BUT I DON'T LIKE BABYSITTING! SOMETIMES MY MOM MAKE ME AND SAY GET THAT MONEY. BUT WHEN HIS MOM CALL I SEND HER TO VOICE AND THEN SHE LEAVE AN MESSAGE SOUNDING SAD. WHAT SOULD I DO? (link)
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if you dont like doing it you should tell your mom and the kids mom straight up she sounds sad because she needs someone to watch her kid i know how it is not wanting to babysit sometimes i have 3 younger brothers so its pretty crazy around here hopefully you work every thing out
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in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.
-confused (link)
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confused is rite lol well if he was the first boy you ever liked and all that stuff hapend between you two yall have defenitly been through alot sence you said no to him and if he did truely like you at the time he asked you back out then he prolly felt as you did a hurt heart because he was rejected but sence you are "friends with benifits" and he likes this other girl that seems to want nothing to do with him if you like him and thank you could trust him again with out him screwing up just remember every one makes mistakes if you like him you should forgive him for what he has done in the past and give it a shot ask him back out or something try to make thangs work but llike i said forgive you may forgive him but you will never forget the pain he put you through its pretty good that you are his neighbor you know keep a close watch on him lol i hope every thing works out for the best between you to
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ive been with my bf for 3 1/2 months and well...i used to be so INTO him.. but soemhow the luv has just FADED away... i DO care about him and love him alot, its just that im not IN love with him anymore. he told me a few days ago that if he ever lost me, he would kill himself. i know he wouldnt really do it, but i still need to worry. ANYWAY, he has NO CLUE about how im feeling. He thinks that i LUV him alot, and i dont know how i can get him not to be into be anymore.
hes just so into me and tells me so many things that he luvs about me... it creeps me out...
what should i do?! can anyone gimme any ideas on how i can get him to STOP LIKING ME... at least bit by bit.... i just want him to get , well, TIRED of being with me... i jstu want him to DUMP ME!!!! (link)
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well if your not into him any more tell him the truth and dont lead him on or he will get even more serious about yall's relation ship and if your not into him any more you defenitly dont want that but like i said just tell him the truth that you just want to be friends with him and not really boyfriend and girlfriend any more hopefully you can work something out..
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your so pretty how do you stay fit (link)
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thank you run alot sports i cheer and play basketball its so much fun playing sports and its an easy way to work out at the same time
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ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB (link)
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your only 13 give it time
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ok ive ben hiliting my hair for about a year now and i really just want to dye it but my mom wont let me till im 18 do u have any suggestions that she will let me dye my hair be4 im 18?! THANKS!!! (link)
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as long as your not dying it like bright pink or anything i dont see what the problem is just keep asking her from time to time eventually she'll give in
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