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My name is Seirra and I'm an average fifteen year old girl...okay...I'll stop lying--I'm one of the most interesting people you will ever meet. I like to draw tattoos..but I'm scared to death to come near another human with a needle. I write poetry and songs all the time...mostly what I feel. Having fun is my thing--I'm probally the most fun person you will ever hang out with...or so I'm told. I love to spend time with my boyfriend and I am not shy to answer anything. My hair is three feet long and still growing-Cherry black. Anything else you want to know? Ask.
E-mail: Seirraprather@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Bristol, Virginia
Occupation: I'm with Daniel right now
ICQ: What's this?
AIM: XxDiamondxdustxX
Yahoo: Seirraprather
MSN: X_xSabors_Valentinex_X
Member Since: May 30, 2004
Answers: 12
Last Update: May 31, 2004
Visitors: 975


i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!

--troubled (link)
Tell them that you can't choose between your friends and him because it's not right. You want both of them in your life and you have to spend time with him sometime...if he is taking ALL of your time away from your friends...talk to him about it. Some days why don't all of you hang out? Try to get some of his friends hooked up with some of your friends and that should help a lot. Just let them know how you feel.


How come everybody at school has to learn ?I mean we don't HAVE to right..we have our rights it says so in the Bill of Rights. (link)
Well you don't have to learn-But you do have to attend class. Sure the teachers get mad if you don't do your work or if you make disturbing noises while they are teaching...and of course you get in trouble because your 'not listening' but that's not the reason...the reason is because of disturbing everyone else that is trying to learn. They do get strict on you not listening though...they say they want you to do your best in life...but that's not the reason either---they're just trying to keep thier job.


17/f
Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
Wow--Quite a story there--Okay...Just tell him how you feel about him getting in to fights and getting hurt and shxt. I mean...I know you like him alot and your friends say you can do better...but you just do with what you want. If he cares enough about you--He'll cut down a little bit...Thats the best I can think of right now...if there's more...I'll get back to you on that.


you like to write what your feeling? me too this is one of the poems i have wrote tell me if you think its goood



Giving Up


I want to get a razor,
And rip it through my arm.
It never hurt anyone.
Its just causes me harm.
I sit here in my bathtub,
And rip it through my skin.
It helps me to get out,
All my pain from within.
I'm tired of being tired.
I'm tired of being sad.
I'm tired of being unhappy,
And tired of being mad.
I'm giving up on hope,
Giving up on life.
I've givin up on everything,
Ready to grab a knife.
Everyone has left me.
I only have two friends.
Why can't I be happy?
This is where it ends.
I should do life a favor.
Go into my hell hole and die.
It's either that or sit here.
In the dark, alone, and cry. (link)
I've written all kinds of things like that--It's very interesting and I really do like it.


I want to dye my hair blue... no... I MUST dye my hair blue! bright blue! the problem is that I have dark hair and I've never dyed it before and I think I have to bleach it blonde first then dye it blue for the color to show up. Is that going to ruin my hair and make it all crackly and nasty? (link)
Do NOT dye it twice the same day. Don't even bother going to blonde. Dye it blue right off the bat. Wait about a week and dye it again. Keep dying it every week to two weeks until you get it to the blue you want. My hair is Cherry Black and when I put blue streaks in it--It turned an interesting dark blue at first...then I did it again and it kept getting bluer and bluer until I got my desired blue. Don't even bother going blonde. Bad mistake.


in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.

-confused (link)
What I would do is give him one last chance...sure they say third time's a charm...but looks like that didnt' work with you. What I would do is give him one last chance...be the best you could be to him but don't be controlling. Show him how much you care about him. If he hurts you again--Don't let it show. Make him think that it's nothing to you. Soon he will find out what he is doing is stupid and childish and he will stop.


if your grades were behind what would you do. how would u get help.
(link)
Well-I would talk to the teacher-Ask what I could do to bring up my grade, I'd do alot of extra-credit when it was avaliable and I'd try my best from then on.


Do u think psychics can really tell the future or anything before it happens? (link)
No...I don't. I think it's just all make believe. If you will notice on those hot-lines...they ask you alot of questions before you actually get to it...they just make up things and you end up makeing them happen on your own.


Whos your favorite band and why...and who is your idol... (link)
My favorite band is ICP because they are just funny as hell...but somethings are disturbing.

My idol is Amy-Lee. She is a beautiful woman with a beautiful voice. She's very lucky to be in the spot she's in today.


If u had a crush on someone who would it b and why...anyone? (link)
Well...If I had to have a crush on someone...(besides my boyfriend) it'd be on...well if it was someone famous...it'd be Paul McCoy because he is so dxmn fine...no...not because of his looks-I could care less about looks...It'd be Paul McCoy because When I see him on T.V. He sounds like the sweetest person ever. But if it wasn't famous...I don't know who It would be...I guess someone away from here that is really sweet...I don't care if they are the ugliest ever...But they'd have to be clean.


Whats most important to you in a friendship? (link)
The most important thing to me in a friendship is trust. If I can't trust someone, I can't even call them my friend...just my aquantince. I respect every friend that I have and they can trust me with thier life...I expect the same from them.


Ok i got a serious question....is my cock big enough if it is size 8 inches... (link)
LMAO...Sure is baby--just don't get near my dog.




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