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Question Posted Sunday May 30 2004, 10:32 pm

My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?

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xOo_LiL_LiNzi_oOx answered Tuesday June 1 2004, 4:35 pm:
tell her its better to b upfront with her then keep it from her..bc then she will think ur going behind her bak

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rainbowcherrie answered Tuesday June 1 2004, 1:44 pm:
Don't tell your friend, it'll cause problems and this guy isn't worth it, move on and find a guy who likes you like you like him.

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roxanne answered Tuesday June 1 2004, 11:47 am:
well i think you should sit her down and talk to her luv roxie

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KaRmEL answered Tuesday June 1 2004, 1:04 am:
If you havn't told your friend that you liked him for 3 years yet then there is nothing you can do about it now. You don't want to break up their relationship because that makes you look like a bad person. Don't make conflict about the situation. If you can't stand seeing them together then don't hang out with them while they are together. Hang out with your friend separatly. Don't break them up if they have something special.

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HouseCall3 answered Monday May 31 2004, 5:28 pm:
I don't think you should tell her wait till she has broken up or moved one u might even stop likin him. but breakin them up kuz u failed 2 tell her ur feelinz fa her. how everything works out

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Danielle answered Monday May 31 2004, 4:32 pm:
Tell her it will make u feel much better i know it's hard but she has to know if she's a true friend she'll understand no guy is worth fighting for. tell her ur happy for her and that ur sorry u like him but u cant help ur feelings and that it doesent change anything and u hope u all can still be good friends. i hope it goes well for u email me back to let me know how it went at AskDanni@aol.com

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ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Monday May 31 2004, 1:18 pm:
Well, no offense but I think it's a little late to tell her now. I think you should've thought of it before. Now alls you can do is just be supportive. Maybe they won't last and then you can tell her. Then you should tell him how you've been feeling. I think it'll all work out.

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sydney_borum answered Monday May 31 2004, 12:51 pm:
wait it out, sorry to day but you should have spoke up, now just be supportive and wait it out!
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sp4rklingr4in answered Monday May 31 2004, 3:16 am:
I would postpone your crush on the guy but keep him as an option for later. Telling your friend that you like her boyfriend is only going to bring up conflict between you two. Friendship is more important than guy-girl repationships by far. Don't tell your friend anything. Just wait around for them to break up, and until then look for a different guy. There are many fish in the sea.

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Nicegirl06 answered Monday May 31 2004, 12:00 am:
Hm, do you really want a boy get between u and your freind? think bout it.
maybe see guy and her work out, you talk to her and tell her how you feel.. and see how she think of it.. becouese good freinds care and listen.. and wouldnt let guy runie good friendship

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Kissxme1121 answered Sunday May 30 2004, 11:41 pm:
Well, she has a right to know because it won't be fair to you. I think you should tell her how you feel but word it so she knows you aren't trying to break them up.

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clichedlust answered Sunday May 30 2004, 10:37 pm:
Be blunt(straight out if you dont know) but tel her youre not doing it to mess up their relationship but you feel sucky when you see them together(i know you do, dont lie)

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HollyAnn2282 answered Sunday May 30 2004, 10:18 pm:
Just sit her down and talk to her about it I mean if shes a good friend she'll understand and try and make some changes if shes not then I guess you better start looking for new friends.
*Holly*

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