Member Since: May 25, 2004
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do? (link)
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wait it out, sorry to day but you should have spoke up, now just be supportive and wait it out!
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Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly (link)
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I understand, i had the same problem, actually i just had the same problem. Truth is, and its not easy, but you need to talk to him about it. I know people might say you could do better but im guessing you dont want to "do better" because you like this kid. You should tell him that you really like him and that you are interested but you dont want to deal with all the other stuff. He then needs to decide whats most important to him. You cant make up his mind for him. You prolly dont want to change him either because thats what attracted you to him. The best thing you can do is communicate with him, thats the best thing to do in any situation. Dont worry about your friends either, if they are friends they will get past themselves and support you in your decision. Most of all, good luck babe!-let me know how it works out!
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I'm a 17 yr old female, and I and my boyfriend of a year and 3 months just ended our relationship about a week ago. It was mutual because we both were fighting a lot over petty things and not acting quite like bf and gf, but more like good friends. Part of this is my fault... I guess maybe a couple month or so ago I started to get this crush on another guy about my age, and I didnt know what to do. Things between me and my boyfriend had been slipping a little bit even then but I still care a lot about him.
Although he said it was mutual hes said he misses me and I think given the chance I think hed want to get back together. I still care about him a lot and I don't want to hurt his feelings. but I and my crush are both interested in each other and I dont know whether we should hook up or even hang out together bc I dont want to hurt my ex. I I realize its too soon now to do anything but how long should I wait and how can I stay friends with him if I decide I want to be with my crush? And would me doing this block out any chances of my ex and I getting back together in the distant future? (link)
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hon i have a sister who is 17 and going through the very same thing. I am 17 as well-(we are twins) and i can relate to. The best advice i can give is that after only a week you havent had a chance for things to settle down yet. Im sure you love or loved your b/f but it prolly just got to a comfortable stage and now thats what you are used to and dont want to give it up. If you have a crush, go for it. It might upset your ex but if it is love then it will come back to you i promise. If you realize thats not what you want and are still in love with the ex the best thing for you to do is tell him. It never hurts to talk about things-i promise. Good luck to you i hope it all works out.
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i am an english major u jackass but that's how i write on the computer (link)
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i really dont like you and i just wanted you to be aware of that. If you know how to write correctly then do so!
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ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB (link)
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everyone says wait till you get older and i know that doesnt help-really. I am 17 and wear a 34A. I have come to realize that boobs are not that important and you will realize that to. If its to get guys- you will find someone better, if its to look better, accent your good features-shoulders,face,hands-trustme. Im sure you are and will be beautiful with or without boobs.
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I am a normal 13 year old girl.I am so not popular and dont want to be.Everyone likes me as a friend and boys who never noticed me want to talk to me.It is all just because I have nice clothes and a kool boyfriend.I really dont want to be popular but I kind of do because I would be a kool, and nice sort of girl.I need help on what to do.So, WHAT??
Signed,
Just Because (link)
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Hon, being popular isnt whats important or not. You say you dont want to be popular because its not who you are but then say that you would like to be so you can popular and nice. The only thing you can do right now is be yourself and thats enough. If you become popular because of it-so be it but dont make that your goal or your worries. There is so much more to worry about, especially at that age!
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See, the truth is that the war really got started over oil . I think that we really should be focused on O'sama Bin Ladan . We as the U.S. have a right to focus on those who are innocent and those who are a threat to us. Before we invaded Iraq, they weren't a threat to us . People just followed Bush's words and beleived him .Last month, over 96 soildiers died , and I know that in a war soldiers die it's just that people are dieing for our freedom and the U.S. government is like screw it . And I hope the commission knows that all these INVESTIGATIONS NEED TO STOP BECAUSE INVESTIGATING ONLY LET THE PROBLEMS PROCEDE . This shouldn't carry on . Oh and them prisoners in Iraq and those photo's are very wrong .How would those U.S . generals like it if we were to strip them naked for their intelligence . The question is am I to obsessed with the war . WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT I HAVE WROTE ? HOW COME OTHERS FEEL THAT THIS ISN'T A IMPORTANT ISSUE TO DISCUSS ?
A.K.K.
A TRUE AND CONCERNED CITIZEN . OR COURTNEY
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It is a very important issue. Problem is, the war wasnt started or is being fought over oil. All the oil they export does not go to the U.S. People should do thier research before making comments about our government.The government also has to list all soldiers who are missing or have died, if you go to a government sponcered website maybe you would be informed on that as well. Iraq has been has a threat for several years-its about time we took action. Be a true and concerned and informed citizen.
Sydney
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