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Clothes so kool;What is going to happen???
I am a normal 13 year old girl.I am so not popular and dont want to be.Everyone likes me as a friend and boys who never noticed me want to talk to me.It is all just because I have nice clothes and a kool boyfriend.I really dont want to be popular but I kind of do because I would be a kool, and nice sort of girl.I need help on what to do.So, WHAT??
Signed,
Just Because
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Dear Just Because,
It's great that people like u 4 u. You have good fashion sense and love taste. So MY answer 2 u is that you can't be better than you are. (otherwise you'd be like Kate from Lizzie McGuire)!!
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being popular isnt bad... if guyz that never noticed u wanna start talkin to u than be happy and let them get to know u !! maybe they will start liking u 4 u !! its worth a try!
**-mOnIcA-**
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I would say go with the flow. You have a rare opportunity that you should definately not turn down. It really doesn't matter if you're popular or not just as long as your friends are nice to you and you don't become obsessed with your popularity. I hope things go well with you and your boyfriend! Good luck.
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Hon, being popular isnt whats important or not. You say you dont want to be popular because its not who you are but then say that you would like to be so you can popular and nice. The only thing you can do right now is be yourself and thats enough. If you become popular because of it-so be it but dont make that your goal or your worries. There is so much more to worry about, especially at that age!
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Popularity isn't always as someone thinks. If many people know you, you're popular. Running with the most popular people in a group of people doesn't necessarily make you "popular" and only that, though. One could be popular, and not even realize it. Also, popularity makes one no cooler than they already are.
But, if they're just acting like that because of your clothes and boyfriend, you shouldn't try to get close to them through your popularity. Be nice to those that are suddenly taking an interest in your companionship. Don't suddenly think of them are friends, but don't shun them from your friendship completely. You could find a friend in them.
Otherwise, just go along things as you normally wourld.
~MissKass
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I sometimes have the same problem. Just be nice to them and everything but don't try to make conversation. It's not a bad thing if you are popular though.
Lizzy
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