My name is Kassandra, and I come from Tennessee (no, I'm not a hillbilly). I suffer from depression, yet slip in and out of it. I gain happiness from helping others. Many say my advice is good, and I try to help in any given situation. My thoughts are often to mature(not in the.. perverted way) for a 13 year old girl who acts as immature as I do, but my thoughts are often influenced by books I read, and anime I watch. For the better, though. I hope to help some people while I'm here, because that's my main purpose - HELPING!
E-mail: kassness@yahoo.co.uk
Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee, United States
Occupation: Student, Artist, Poet, etc.
Age: 13
AIM: PlushKasBunny
Yahoo: kassness
MSN: AnimeGirl_11@hotmail.com
Member Since: May 25, 2004
Answers: 15
Last Update: July 29, 2004
Visitors: 1436
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ok, well, before i go to school i want to look really good for the first day, and im scared because lately i have been gettin pimples on my face (not for the first time) and i want to know if anybody has any tips on how to clear your face, or products that work over night (and actually work) plz tell me!
second, i want my teeth to be white, but the white strips are like 20 dollars, does anybody know tips about that too! thanx alot! bye!
>>I RATE (link)
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Don't worry about the pimples. Everyone gets those at some point. Just go with what the others said. Something will work, just try out different things until you find something that works for you as something may not work the same for everyone. If nothing you try works, don't worry too much about it. All I have to stay is take good care of your face.
About your tetth. White isn't all you want to worry about. Think about your teeth's health factor, too. I really suggest you just stick to brushing your teeth well. The white strips are expensive and a waste of time and money. Toothpaste can do the job just as well and is cheaper. Good luck! :)
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I've seen a bunch of people who have layouts for their Xanga or LiveJournals and I was wondering where can I get those?? The places I've looked at cost $25 and I was hoping to get one for free. So does anyone know where can i get a cute layout for my Live Journal??
thanx for the help (link)
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Try a search on Google for something like "free livejournal layouts". You'll probably end up with a pre-made layout, but those are usually very cute, too. :3
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does anyone know where i can publish my poetry besides poetry.com? i really want to get some published because i have so many poems...thanks. (link)
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Try asking an English teacher, they'll probably have a good idea. Or do some online searches, you can find most websites with Google nowadays. Depending on the website, getting your poetry published could be easy or difficult. I wish you luck!
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everytime i go to go and sleep.. i always have a hard time getting to bed because my mind wrestles all lifes stupid problems.. and its so bad.. b/c ill be up 1-2 hours just battling with my mind when i just want to be at peace and get some rest... ne tips on how to fall STRAIGHT to sleep? thx much appreciated (link)
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Deja vu. I have the same problem. There are a couple of different things you can do.
- You could write out all the problems on a piece of paper, and extra little details about them. Get thoughts out of your head and onto paper.
- Do an activity that takes a lot of energy. Don't do something that'll stress your body out too much, just to kind of make yourself weary so sleeping is easier.
- Listen to a CD or radio station that you can really 'get in to' so you don't think about life's dismays and think about the music so you can fall asleep. I don't suggest something loud and heavy metal-ish, though ;).
I wish you luck with falling asleep easily! :)
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my sisters and me are fighting alot and they are herting me like big bleading scarches what do i do (link)
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First, you need to consider who starts the fights. If you do, then you're just chasing danger and deserve what's coming to you.
Second, if you cause them just as much damage, then you shouldn't complain (if not, ignore this).
You should tell your parents, though. They'll do what's needed to be done. If they don't, though, and ignore it, tell another trusted adult. A teacher, another family member, a police officer.. Someone who you know will do something to help you.
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i was just sitting at the computer and i had my webcam on and i didnt notice it but with how i was sitting u could see down my shirt and when my mom told me she told me to turn the webcam off. i did. then i fixed my positioning and check to make sure no one could see anything then i turned it back on and she took it!!!! how can i get it back without sneaking it back then getting caught and getting into even bigger trouble??? (link)
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Explain to your mother in a calm manner what had happened. Let her know you didn't realize what could be seen. Also explain to her that you had fixed your positioning when you turned it back on, and they you would like to have the webcam back if you may. (Though, I think you should have asked permission to have the camera back on).
Then, if she still won't let you have it back, ask her if you two can perhaps make a deal of some sort. You could suggest something like her being around when you're using it, or let her suggest something.
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how can you tell if a guy likes you? are there any specific signs? what if... he has a girlfriend? what's a good way to tell him you like him without screwing things up..... because he has a girlfriend? (link)
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There's never a real way to tell. All people are different, therefore act different towards people they like. Heck, I act different towards who I like, according to my current status with them. The closer the friends I am with them, the meaner I am (yet in a oddly kind way).
If there's a guy you suspect may like you, that has a girlfriend, think about this : Are you two already good friends? If so, then I think you should friend think about whether or not it will effect your friendship, and if you're willing to let that happen. If it will, and you're willing to take the chances, just tell him sometime when you're hanging out and can bring it in to the conversation. Don't TRY to bring it up, just if there opens a chance, or you two aren't talking about some significant thing so you can change the topic. If he doesn't feel the same way, just try to shrug it off. If he's smart he won't mention it to the girlfriend, if he doesn't feel the same way (especially), because she'll get suspicious.
If he does like you.. Perhaps you two should have a little talk.
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Chatspeak burns my eyes. How can I jump through my computer and kill people who use it? (link)
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Heh, I'd like to know how to just through the computer and kill chatspeakers, too, but sadly.. We never shall be able to.
I suggest saying something like "Could you please type our things completely? It would make reading your messages easier for me." - Something along those lines. Unless you're speaking to a really troublesome person that should solve the problem. Maybe even offer to teach them how to type correctly (I know many people I need to teach to type, hehe).
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Is it better to dance and look really stupid or not dance at all? Should I try taking danceing lessons? (link)
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If you're having fun, I say dance however you want to. But if you really want to dance 'well', dancing lessons aren't terrible.
Unless you're being harassed over your dancing, or just really want to learn to dance, I say dance how you do. It makes you more of an individual, ne?
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Today my imaginary friend ran away. I've been crying ever since. Sometimes I lick my friend's house to cheer me up. IS THERE ANY WAY TO GET MY IMAGINARY FRIEND BACK??!?!! (link)
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No. Maybe a new imaginary friend? Or how about making friends with a therapist? I'm sure that would help your forget about this imaginary friend.
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I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run? (link)
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It depends if you like running or not. If you're a fast runner, I don't see why you shouldn't. I'm sure there are slower people running the turkeytrot, and as long as you remember to pace yourself, I'm sure you'll do fine.
Even though it may seem bad, coming in last place in front of the whole school, its not that bad. If you run and do, just think of it as telling you to try harder next time. I think that if you like running you should go for it. What doesn't hurt you, might make you stronger, right? If you decide to run, I say good luck and be sure to have fun!
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I am a normal 13 year old girl.I am so not popular and dont want to be.Everyone likes me as a friend and boys who never noticed me want to talk to me.It is all just because I have nice clothes and a kool boyfriend.I really dont want to be popular but I kind of do because I would be a kool, and nice sort of girl.I need help on what to do.So, WHAT??
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Just Because (link)
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Popularity isn't always as someone thinks. If many people know you, you're popular. Running with the most popular people in a group of people doesn't necessarily make you "popular" and only that, though. One could be popular, and not even realize it. Also, popularity makes one no cooler than they already are.
But, if they're just acting like that because of your clothes and boyfriend, you shouldn't try to get close to them through your popularity. Be nice to those that are suddenly taking an interest in your companionship. Don't suddenly think of them are friends, but don't shun them from your friendship completely. You could find a friend in them.
Otherwise, just go along things as you normally wourld.
~MissKass
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I'm a feminist but none of the women in my family seem to be catching on. My grandmother says I don't wear enough dresses and my mother thinks all the women's literature I read is worthless. What's wrong with these people? (link)
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Technically, there's nothing wrong with them. I applaud you being a feminist, and support it, but if your grandmother and mother don't agree, there's not much you can do. You could do as spacefem does, or just drop it. I'm a feminist, but no one else in my family is. I know it can be annoying, but sometimes you just have to accept it and do your thing. Perhaps they're happy with the way things are, if they are, then you shouldn't try to change them. They might not be as happy as feminists. Let them decide what they think, and don't try to push this on them.
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See I like this boy, but my only problem is iI think he likes me, but I don't know. I asked him out once, but he said he has a G/F, but I think he is to shy. WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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If he says he has a girlfriend, you should trust him. If you ever wish to have a relationship other than friendship with him, then you have to TRUST him. Get to know him better, so you can find out if he's shy and has a girlfriend, or just a shy liar.
As earlier stated, keywords: "I think". You can't know for sure. If you asked him if he did, he'd probably reply no, since he says he has a girlfriend. If you really like him, wait it out, see what happens and just be a good friend in the meantime. Otherwise, I suggest you move on.
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