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My friend wants to hook me up with this guy....
My friend wants to hook me up with this guy that I hardly even know! I know his name and that I am a few days older than him... but that is it. She asks me if I get to know him better of I would go out with him? I told her I don't know because I dont know him yet. She and her friend keep asking me if I think he is hot. I say "Umm sorta". What should I do?
PS he is my EX-Boyfriend's Best friend!
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It seems like your "friends" are pressuring you to do too much. I think they should just, at least, give you more time to get to KNOW this guy, rather than to rush you in an undecided relationship with him. And second of all, they shouldn't care about how you feel about him. If you like him, then go for it :] but if not, then they shouldn't care.
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Well, you really shouldn't be forced. Tell your friends that if you really wanted to, then you could make the decision for yourself. And considering that it's your ex-boyfriends best friend, I think you may need to think about it. Do you think that it'll maybe ruin their friendship?
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well you can't be forced into doing this. if you are your ex are still friends, this might make things a bit rocky. i'm disgusted, really. who is your friend to tell you who to be with?
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Tell your friends to back off and if you want to have a relationship with this guy then you will do it at your time that is the only way you can get them to stop. But if he seems like a good guy, i would def. get to know him ;-)
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I think you should talk to your ex-bestfriend(if you can) then see what she thinks about this whole thing ask her questions about him. But if you cant talk to ur ex-bestfriend then try to get to know him like at a party or something talk to him or on the phone. then if hes a nice guy you should date him, but if he's a jerk then blow him off!!! Good Luck!!
~hope I helped~
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I don't think you should do much of anything. Like you said, you don't know him. Don't worry about hurting his feelings, since he doesn't even really know you, he can't be more than physically attracted to you. Just let things play out, and if you eventually get to know him, then so be it.
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