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This is a very long question! So if you even READ the whole thing, THANK YOU!
Lets say my boyfriend's name is Randy. Me and Randy have been going out for.. 3 1/2 weeks or so. I love to hear from him, we can talk on the phone for hours. He's.. a partier.. I sometimes do stuff like that, but only on RARE occasions. After about 5 days of dating, a girl that hangs around with him tells me that she likes him, a lot. I'm not the jealous type, believe me. Now she's starting to say stuff like "Oh the stuff I'd do with Randy" Today he told me that he thought that she was hot, but he likes me better. So now I'm stressing out over that because both of them are partiers and stuff MIGHT happen if they are together at a party and I'm not. Randy tells me that he loves me and stuff, but both of them (him and that girl that likes him) seem very attracted to eachother.
How do I talk to him about it without seeming like I don't want him to be around her anymore. I don't want to be a control freak, and I don't want to seem like I don't have any trust in him, but he does have a history of cheating, and I don't want to be hurt. Thanks in advance if you answer my question (link)
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Well I wuold never date a player! Neways...I would dump him if he says this girls hot and all to your face thats mean. And once a cheater, always a cheater. And maybe you could talk to them both about it.*Hope I helped*
-Emily
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I was wondering if it was ok to go shopping with your mom every now and then. Cause i go up to Pennsylvania every summer and Christmas to see my mom and i am 14. We always go shopping together because i dont have friends up in Penn. cause im only staying there for just a few weeks, so i was wondering if its strange or immature or something just cause you go shoppin with your mom for clothes and coffee, please, i really want peoples opinions! thanks so much! (link)
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No it isn't strange at all!! I love my mom to death and I shop with her all the time[I am also 14]! _Hope I helped!_
*Emily*
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OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE! (link)
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No- I don't think you should go to her house, because then you will be in that kind of environment and you will be really really tempted to do that stuff! - Hope I helped! -
[Em]
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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl- (link)
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Ok, I dont have a step by step thingy. But, my friend says to pretend their penis is a lollipop[haha] and do what you want. I would use a flavored condom if you don't want to get any diseases ;) -Hope I helped!-
*Emily*
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does toothpaste really work on pimples? what is the best thing to do to ur pimples, or what is the best product to use? please hellp! (link)
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No- I doubt toothpaste really works. Try something like Clean and Clear Facial Wash or if your acne is really, really bad, you might want to go to the dermotologist! -Hope I helped-
*Ems
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my gf and i have been together for nearly 2 and a half years, she cheated on me with a guy from her school and lied to my face about her flirting and teasing and getting with him when i knew what was going on,
she would not tell me the truth till i forced her to by providing evidence that i knew she had. i logged a few of her chats to find out the truth and she was slagging me off to him and flirting with him still after she promised me nothing was going on, i love her more than anything, but trust is something a relationship needs otherwise u have nothing.. what should i do? Thanks (link)
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I really think that this girl is a loser. You should move on and get over her. Find some nice, honest chics to hang out with!! And maybe you could start a new loyal relationship.
-Hope I helped-
[Emily]
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Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do?? (link)
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if she ignores you when you try to say your sorry about everything, then she really doesn't want to be your friend. You'll just have to get over it and let her go :/ But for the time being hang out with some different people and try to find someone cool to be friends with. -Hope I helped!-
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15.f.california
ok see i want to move away from cali and to florida cuz my life here sucks, my mom doesnt care about me and she hurts me physicaly and emotionaly and i have been doing stuff i probly shouldnt have and if i go to florida to live with my aunt i feel this would be better and i would feel like comming sucide every minute or so. but i my mom says she would be happy to get rid of me but she thinks i am doing it cuz i want to get over a hard break up and she has this knew name for me which is coward and like i feel there is nothing for me here but my dog who i love so0o much. my dog has like been the only thing that has loved me ever since i got him. he is quite cute and small but he is the only reasion why i havent commited sucide or have gone to florida uhhh any ideas or advise anyone might want to share i am open to everything
thanks a bunch Lisa (link)
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I think that if your mom hurts you, then you need to tell someone!! And I would take my dog and move to Florida with my aunt. You shouldn't let your mom or anything else cause you to do bad things! Please don't commit suicide- that isn't an answer. Just tell an adult and/or move to Florida.
*Good Luck Sweetie!!*
-IM me on AIM: GirlNextDoor908-
-Emily-
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Hi there, I'm a 15 year old girl falling for a guy... I met him over the summer on the Internet (we go to the same school but never met before) and I fell for him fast. He's basically all I could ever ask for in a guy. We talk constantly all the time on the Internet, but at school he is very shy around me. I'm not a very shy person, so I try to talk to him as much as possible. On the Internet, we talk like we're best friends. But at school he acts sort of mean to me (I think he is just kidding and just tries to act 'cool' in front of his friends :P) But yeah, I can tell that he never really means it to act that way around me because he always glances at me and smiles :) Is this a sign that he could like me? Please help!!! Thanks so much (link)
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I think that this is a good sign of him liking you ;) Just keep on flirting/talking!!
*Hope I helped ya out!*
~Emster~
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Two Questions: How can you tell if a guy likes you??
#2- Okay I like this boi Richard. He my friends talk to him alot and they say he says he likes me, but he's shy and he won't tell me, so and I am one of those pplz who are need to be reassured all the time. So it's like my friends are constantly asking him and I know that can push him away. But today my friend Taja asked him if he liked me (and I didn't tell her to) and he said no. And then she was like "Right.....look me in the face and say that" and he couldn't look at her and he didn't say anything....cause he was lying she said. So then I saw him after school today and he had the biggest smile on his face and he was waving at meeh. And also the same morning, he was watching everything I did when I wasn't looking....so how I can tell if he likes me.... (link)
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It sounds like this dude is definitely into you honey! I think you should just be really straight-forward and just go up to him and ask him yourself. :) -Hope I helped!-
[Ems]
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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt (link)
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I think you should keep trying, tell her that she should only care about what SHE wants, not her family!! And maybe you could talk to her family about what their deal is. A really, really romantic way to git her back:
Drive down their and go to her house and have flowers and everything and be like baby I want you back, I love you! And then kiss her--> unrealistic, but sweet :)
-Hope I helped!-
*Emily*
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo (link)
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I think you should definitely celebrate your best friends B-day!! There will be plenty more parties.
*Hope I helped!! :)*
XoXo Em xOxO
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it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much. (link)
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I think that you should talk to him and see what's up. If he still has feelings for you, then invite him to go with ya'll to the haunted house!!
-Ems
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Alright there is this boy in our school(i've had questions before hez the one who got stung by a bee) Well I really really really like him! More reallys but I wouldn't get this posted if I said them all but anyways he is truly my best friend out of anybody he is my best friend! And all my friends like him but nobody knows i like him(except you guyz)! All my friends like him too which is a huge problem but I tell them I like this other boy which i kinda do so they won't know but this boy got a bee sting n nobody cared but me! NO BODY DID! And I was confused why they didn't if they like him! But anywayz I just don't know how to tell him like i'm not that kinda of girl who would ask a boy out or what his s/n is...now if i talk to him on the phone i would ask him what his s/n is...But how do I get him to ask me out or call my house? (link)
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Well- you could always call him!! Or ask him to call you- to "help/give you with homework"
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okay..theres this boy i like, and he and i are getting pretty close, and i think he likes me..and we were hanging out..and he told me one time he puked his food up on purpose..cause he wrestles and he wants to be in a littler weight class...but he told one of his bestfriends...that he does it often..and im mad that he lied to me and im sad cause he could get sick..but he doesnt know i know...and i dont want to say sumthing to a counsler or hed get kicked off the wrestling team for cheating, and im afraid if i say sumthing...he will get mad! and i really like him alot and i dont want him mad, but im prolly gunna talk to him about it what should i say? (link)
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I think that you should say something to him about this!! Tell him that you know he likes wrestling , but you really care about him and don't want him to get hurt!! Be his friend and let him know that you're there for him. *Hope I helped!*
-Emily-
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i have STARIGHT eyelashes..and i use a eyelash curler everyday and then use hella mascara and then i have to curl them again jus to make em pretty...anyone have any easier techniques? whatdo other gurls do with super straight eyelashes? and mascara that works great for this? (link)
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You should definitely be using a mascara with a curled brush!! Some really really great mascara is Maybelline Volum Express
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I have this friend and we hang out a lot. The problem is that he has a girlfriend 2 years older than him and im only one year older than him. They have been going out for about 3 weeks but he hangs out with me more then her. He always asks me to hang out on a day and then he asks me to walk to her house with him and hang out. He is always him self around me but he doesnt really be himself around her. What do u think is goin to happen between them and me and him. I would hate to ruin ne thing between them but he is always with me atleast a lot more than with her. and when he is with her, he always asks someone to go with him, usually me. What is this all about do u think? (link)
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I think that either this dude likes you or he's really, really nervous around his girlfriend. I think that you should talk to him about it and ask him why he always wants to hang out with you when he's going to his girlfrirnds house. -Hope I helped!!-
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ok, i dont want to come off like slutty or anything...but my b/f and i have been together for about 2 months now & all he's done is given me like lil kisses(no tongue). like he's pretty touchy feely and all but i mean its been 2 months & we love each other so much and its been nice, but i'd like there to be more..like we've talked about moving further and stuff but when we're alone 2gether nothing happens! he's only had like 2 g/fs & he's only kissed and got head b4..which he knows i will NOT give him head..but anyways lol, how do i get him to losen up and like actually make out with me & relax .. i love him so much & i know he loves me, but sometimes itd be a lil nice to have a lil more physical in the relationship..know what i mean?
thanks,jessica (link)
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Jessica-
I think that you should make the moves on this guy!! Like when ya'll are kissing you should iniciate a make-out session!! You can play some romantic/relaxing music to ease the tension.You could always tell him what you want! :)
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One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust? (link)
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I would leave this guy in the dust!! It's like he just used you! If he truly liked you I doubt he would've done that and then acted as if nothing had happened. Forget him! [Hope I helped]
E.m.m.y.B.o.o.
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last year i gotinto this huge fight with my best friend in the whole world and its too long to explain but to fill you in the fight caused us to not be friends anymore. Now this year , out of the blue she apologizes and she confessed how she really feels and how she regrets how she stopped being my friend and stuff and i started to miss being friends with her. Should i be friends with her again...i mean theres always room to start over...right? (link)
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Well, the same thing happened to me last year. Chances are that if ya'll were best friends, then you won't be that close again. But I would try to be friends with her again! :) -Hope I helped!-
[Emily]
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