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Um, yeah.. I'm a 15/f
This is a very long question! So if you even READ the whole thing, THANK YOU!
Lets say my boyfriend's name is Randy. Me and Randy have been going out for.. 3 1/2 weeks or so. I love to hear from him, we can talk on the phone for hours. He's.. a partier.. I sometimes do stuff like that, but only on RARE occasions. After about 5 days of dating, a girl that hangs around with him tells me that she likes him, a lot. I'm not the jealous type, believe me. Now she's starting to say stuff like "Oh the stuff I'd do with Randy" Today he told me that he thought that she was hot, but he likes me better. So now I'm stressing out over that because both of them are partiers and stuff MIGHT happen if they are together at a party and I'm not. Randy tells me that he loves me and stuff, but both of them (him and that girl that likes him) seem very attracted to eachother.
How do I talk to him about it without seeming like I don't want him to be around her anymore. I don't want to be a control freak, and I don't want to seem like I don't have any trust in him, but he does have a history of cheating, and I don't want to be hurt. Thanks in advance if you answer my question
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You need to tell him that she makes u uncomfortable. That you trust him but you dont trust her. And that you wouldnt want to lose him over someone like her. But make sure you tell him that ur not trying to control his life. Just that you dont like this chick.
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like the old quote goes, "once a cheater, always a cheater" .. not not really but lol guys can change, but i think you should trust him for now but keep watching them or have people you know watch them at parties and stuff, i mean thats pretty asshole-ish lol of him to tell you he thinks shes hot .. just watch out so you dont get hurt...
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What was he thinking telling you he thinks shes hot??!!? Anyway, I would just sit down with him when no one else is around and just tell him what you're thinking, ask him if he ever is going to do anything with her and if hes like OMGOSH NO HOW CAN YOU NOT TRUST ME!! Just tell him you can trust him but you really like him and you don't wanna loose him to this other girl. I know it might be hard to talk to him about it since you've only been going out for 3 1/2 weeks, but you'll feel more comfortable around him if he knows how you feel. He might get really mad tho so just make sure you don't yell or anything =/ You can also try talking to the girl, not being mean but telling her how much you like Randy and how much he likes you and stuff like taht so she knows you have no intention of breaking up
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Well I wuold never date a player! Neways...I would dump him if he says this girls hot and all to your face thats mean. And once a cheater, always a cheater. And maybe you could talk to them both about it.*Hope I helped*
-Emily
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