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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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Ok well there's this kid that I've liked for awhile. We went out before but broke up..and I've bascially liked him on and off since. The only problem is I only like him when I know I don't have a chance...even when we were going out it felt weird. It seems that when I know he likes me I really have no interest but when I know he doesn't like me I get all depressed and I like him soooo much. Don't get me wrong..I don't just want to get attetion because when he likes me i do still have a little thing for him but I like him so much more when he doesn't like me! I really think I should tell him how I feel this time but I don't know how! Pleaseee help me!

14-f

just tell him exactly what you told us! maybe show him this question you posted because you described it pretty well! just give it to him straight up! x0x

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heyy every1
well today wen i went to skewl mi 2 bffs nd i were outside in the parking lot nd evrything was going great until mi one friend (let's call her jill) sorta made fun of mi other friend(lets call her gabby) because gabby likes this boy in my history class. jill kept trying to apologize to gabby because gabby got mad at jill,but jill just made things worse. soo im stuck in the middle while mi 2 bffs are fighting, then gabby sed that she hates jill and never wants to speak to jill again. then in tech. class, jill sed that she "absolutly hates gabby" i dont know what to do and now jill isnt coming to hang out w/ us on halloween just because gabby is going to be there! what should i do!?!
thnx
~i rate

seriously just stay out of it. tell htem if they want to hate each other then thats between them but youre still firends with both of them so dont drag you in. tell them if they wanna talk about each other do it away from you n just stay completely nuetral. untill they get over it (and if theyre real friends then they will) just stay completely out of it bc its between them! x0x0x

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Hey Thanks for all the answeres about the dance question!! but unfortunately it looks like i can't go becuz my mom doesn't want me to she is afraid the girls r gonna take me 2 some alley somewhere and beat me up!! so should i fight with my mother and ask me to go to the dance or should i just stay home?

if you think its a battle worth fighting then do it! if it means alot to u you should at least try to change her mind...because if you dont youre gonne spend the rest of your life wondering "what if" and you'll always regret it! x0x

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ok there is this guy named lets say scott at my school i have had a little crush on him since about.... 4 th grade lmao well anyways i recently just got over him and now all of a sudden he started flirtin with me! it was a coincidence bc i just stopped likin him neawyz today on the bus he was STARING at me and in math he was too!! he smiles at me whenever i look at him!!! please help does he like me or is he givin me mixed signals?? PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS!!! i really need help!!
i rate high!!!!!!!
xo~confused cutie

ask him casually who he likes and if he asks you out or something then say yes!! gl x0x0x

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My gym shoes.. both pairs.. smell really bad.. i wear socks all the time.. and i have tried putting dr. scholls powder in them.. and odor eaters shoe spray.. but they just make them smell worse.. does anyone know a way to TOTALLY get rid of the horrible smell in my shoes?

Thanks!

p.s. I tried 3 different perfumes too.. still didnt help!!

you prolly mixed too many scents. take them home and put them in the washing machine and wash them like you would with clothes and then dry them in the drier. sounds wierd i kno but my bro did it and it worked like a charm! if theres still a problem go 2 the doc and he'll give you this special stuff! x0x

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okay, I didn't really think I'd get any more answers to my previous question, so I'm going to put my addition to my additional answer here.
Here is my question. When you cut yourself, which by the way I'm trying to stop, so I don't really need help there, I was wondering, will the scars ever go away? Because I cut first letter of my first name in my arm, and now I regret it, and it's not that deep. None of the cuts I made had actually bled, they jstu got scabs over them. So will the scars be there forever?

nope!!! you should tan over them in the warmer months and if you dont want to wait that long, try that neosporin scar solution stuff! it looks like regular neosporin but its meant specifically for scars, you can get it anywhere! x0x

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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??

maybe youre putting on too much perfume! less is more hun lol! just try a little bit! x0x

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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do?

tell him that you like him and if he still likes you he should act on it now because if he doesnt then youre not going to waste your time any longer and see what he does1 if he asks you out, great, if not, move on! gl x0x

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okay i'm doing this project and we need to knoe when were ever going to use math like when we grow uo and stuff. well i want to be a professional basketball player and i was wondering what kind of math would i need to know for that? thanx

you would need to know like how much power you should put into your shot, what angle youre at, how fast you can get to a certain point on the floor, stuff like that! x0x0x

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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween!

just go see him! YOU shouldnt be grounded because SHE is!! n hes your boyfriend and how often you see him is entirely up to you! have fun and have a great halloween!!!

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Does any body know how to do a half and half bun?

hair origami lol

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Does it look okay to leave part of your hair down and the front half pulled back in a bun?

i think itd be cute. im not a big fan of buns myself but it depends on the person! x0

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okay well theres this one boy who i really like. hes not that good looking lol but hes really nice and funny and i like him a LOT! well anyways he says he likes me too (i dont know if i believe him cuz hes said that to gurls before but he didnt really like them i guess) and in the halls he always touches me and says hi and stuff.. well he has a gf. they have been going out for like months. they recently "did it" even tho shes 13 and hes like 15. well i like him a LOT and cant stop. well what im asking is do u think he likes me if he says hi and we talk online a lot and he flirts with me.. im confused about this. :-\

honestly, i think he might just want some ass lol but i think a part of him likes u 2. but i mean do u really want a guy like that? i mean if hes gunna flirt w. u n touch u n stuff while hes goin out w. sum1 else theres a good chance he might do tht 2 u 2. all i can say is try not 2 get too attached! x0x

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HI!
15/f california :)

ok well see i want to get a job cuz i dont like how i have to get my shitttt aproved by my parents b4 i get it with their money. But most importantly cuz i got my cell phone taken away and it has been said that i wont get another one under their pocket.so i want to get a job but i am only 15 and my birthday isnt untill february 6th. does anyone know of places wheir they know 15yr old can work.
thank you.

im not sure if its the same 4 u but around where i live u can get a job at quiznos at 14, hallmark at 14, grocery stores at 14, and the librery at 14. thts all i kno of! x0x

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Hi,
I've liked this guy((steven)) for around a month now...and my fried Kaitltyn likes him too. Last sunday there was a school dance..i told steven to ask her to dance n he did...but he dont like kaitlyn...he even said that to her face..kaitlyn noes i like him n she was doing everything she could 4 him to dance with me but he said that he didnt wunna look like a pimp..n being a complete jerk...Should i still like him? or should i just give up

i think u should just tell him u like him n if he likes u 2 n if its ok w. ur friend then go 4 it, but if he duznt like u like tht then move on! x0x

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I've noticed lately that a lot of guys have started liking me. It doesn't really faze me, but today this guy came up to me & said that his friend thought I was cute. I said I was flattered & asked to meet him. The poor guy was too shy to talk to me! I feel kind of bad because I could have easily just walked over there & talked to him. Should I ask him out?

if you think you might like him then u should deff. give it a shot! only do it if u want to tho! gl x0x

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-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

ok next time he asks you how to ask a girl out just tell him to say this: "hey i was wondering if you wanna go to a movie with me on saturday night or something, no pressure or anything!" and tell him 2 say it really nicely and stuff, and be relaxed! or if hes scared about being rejected, suggest asking her to group events first, and then start going out solo! that should work! do you like this boy?? haha i deff. think its harder being a girl, i mean yea we get hurt sometimes, but alot of the time we do the hurting! if you need anything else just ask! x0x0x0x!!!

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I really really want to learn guitar. I looked into lessons but their like 20$ a half hour! Its crazy. My friends tell me to just teach myself, but I have no idea how. And my sister told me to get a book or DVD on it to learn from. What do you think? And guitsrists around that could help me? lol. And anyone who taught themselves, how did you and how long did it take?

it takes everyone a diff. amount of time to learn, so dont go by that! im going to start learning soon too, my stepdad is going to teach me! maybe you could go oneline, and search for a website that has all the notes on it and stuff and teaches you how to read music, that way you can just learn the notes and once you do that, you can start finding songs! x0x0x

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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?

well if you're goin for birth control, doesnt your mom kind of already know that youre sexually active? its kinda obvious lol. just tell your mom that you would feel way more comfortable if she wasnt in the room with you, no offense 2 her, its just a comfort thing. she should understand! x0x0x

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i need to reperice my ear does it hurt when u do it ur self?

alot of people do it theirselves...i mean as long as you do it fast i think it'll feel about the same..just dont go slow bc that'll hurt like a bitch! lol. i think it'll hurt less if you do it in the same spot because its already been pierced. x0x0x!

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