about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

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Can anybody give me some things or ideas for my profile... it is pretty blah right now and I need to spice it up... I will rate you!!

For your profile on advicenators or instant messaging? put down what you like to do like if you like to dance or whatever and just add in things about yourself, not necessarily what you look like, but what your favourite topics and sports are, you can also put in something like your favourite quote or something
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how do u get a better voice?

It's not really getting a better voice, but training it right, make sure you breathe through your diaphram instead of your chest, and also, learn the basics. You can't sing pop, or rock or punk without the basics. Make sure you practice no more than an hour and no less than a half hour everyday so you don't strain your voice.
Singers Rock
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ok my boyfriend nelly thinks im mad at him because he called my bestfriend and talked about hot girls. i guess im not mad at him and im trying to explain to him that im not and hes all like uhhh yeah u r and im like omg im not mad at you mg cant u just believe me??? and im realy depressed like an old woman eatin icecream and cake. please help me!! what should i do!??!!??

You should tell him you really don't care if he talks and looks at hot girls, tell him he can look, but not touch. That sounds fair, and it doesn't sound like you don't really care about him doing that. Or you can pretend like it never happened and just talk about other things
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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ?

Well, you have two directions to look at, maybe your friends can be good for you. A prep and a punk are actually the best kind of friends there can be, one to keep things happy and upbeat, and the other to keep things more chilled off. If you do want to leave her, don't break off the friendship completely, just sort of hang out with her when you want, but don't forget, it would be unfair not to not tell her because this is a mutual friendship of two years.
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Where are good places to meet nice wholesome friendly guys besides school..cuz all the guys at my school like the sluts

Its good that you aren't a slut because in later high skewl, guys will appreciate that more, and you would be less cheap (in other words, guys would think more about you in a gross way, since they can't see it) a great place to meet guys is in church groups if you go to church, at a teen club, or at a military camp, which are really fun to go to
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I'm miserable.See over spring break i met this kid lets say his name is Jake..and over the past 4 months we've been talking every day.I most likely wont be able to see him again until next summer.The real problem is i like everything about Jake* and he likes me too..we're like perfect together.But he's at camp right now so i haven't been able to talk to him and i miss him like crazy.ne ideas on how to pass the time..n also could u help me try n get over him..ive tried but no guy ever compares.please help asap.

admin. plz don't delete. ;-(..

thankz guys.

The way to make time pass is going to be easy. Just have fun. Don't think about him, don't worry about getting over him, flirt with guys, since you aren't really dating him, and you know, blow him out of your mind. I know that sounds really immature, but it should work
Good Luck
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?

you are just trying to look out for him and that is fine, I think you are acting like a good friend trying to help not only a friend, but your love, and i think that is the most mature thing, and the most brave thing a person can do
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What are some things you can do while kissing someone...like to spice things up?

really intimate hand gestures along the face, that will do just fine
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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?

You can actually get it straightened, which is like a straight perm. The you straighten it, Also there is a shampoo and conditioner called sexy-and-straight, it works wonders
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HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!

SIGNED,
**NEEDS HELP**

Let her know that you care about her, and that you won't be leaving her anytime soon, Just make sure she knows that you love her a lot. Also, spend time with her, ask her to go to a movie or something
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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do?

Tell her you think her idea was so much better then yours and that you would have liked to do her project. Tell her you didn't mean to hurt her feelings but it just happened that way
Good Luck
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what does cybering mean?

Cybering has two different meanings, either searching the web or if someone asks you they want to cyber, it means they want to have Instant messaging sex with you
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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't.

It all really depends on what you look like. Some people look terrible under 120lbs, but guys do like girls with big thighs, they also like girl with big calves to, so it you want to have big calves (not fat, but real muscly) continuasly stand on your toes and off and stuff. I personally don't think that 120 is fat for anyone over 5 feet
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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help!

You probably want to get tested for it if you don't know the guy that well, because sometimes, people have HIV for five years before realizing it and it gets worse and worse. So i recomend you should go get it tested
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i dunno what a yeast infection is! its probably a stupid question, but what is it?

It is this white stuff that comes out of your genital areas, usually on girls, and it's a thick gross texture, when you want to fix it, take the pill, not the cream
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im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way?

The reason you probably feel so hurt is because you don't respond to their bullying. Say something equally back to them, like if they call you a loser, just say this (you might wanna practice) Oh yeah, well your a two-faced, wanna be barrymannalo, couvanist pig
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!

Call the police, don't hesitate, that is so against the law if you aren't hitting him back. Just make sure you don't touch him and call the police, show them your bruises, no one should treat you like that
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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free?

AIM.com people rate pictures and stuff, or you could make your own homepage on yahoo. One thing though, make sure you put you are born before 1985, otherwise it will cost money.
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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how? I also have to say that she doesn't know how to drive, and only earns $14 dollars per hour at her new job! And my dad only married her bcus he was alone at the house (I was with my mom) and was afraid if something happened to him, no1 would call the police.

Maybe you should try to see your stepmother in a different light, like try seeing her as an older sister then a stepmom. Also, do something together like that, like if you watch stepmom with her, she might even be nicer. Movies have a big effect on people like that
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Am i considered fat if i am 5 foot 4 and i weigh 195 lbs? i know i dont look it and i do have a lot of muscle in ym arms and legs from playing sports. Am i considered over wieght or not?

poundage doesn't really determine whether you are fat or not, neither does body fat percentage because that also counts muscles. If you don't feel fat, you probably aren't, and muscle weighs about twice as much as fat, so if you are muscular, the weight is totally normal, or even good.
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