Ok so i just cant stop i just cant i like need to like die or something i just dont know what to do and btw im talkin about me masterbating plz help me
What is this I don't even...
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Do you think love is real? Because i think it is made up and never really lasts it is just a momentary illusion....
True love is real; the line between true love and any other kind of love is blurred at best. Most people who go through life without knowing true love. Being married throughout life doesn't necessarily translate into it either. Sometimes people only stay together for the kids, or financial convienience.
Even then, most people who experience it don't realize it until the person they share it with dies. So yes, true love is real, and rare. Too many people mistake what they have for true love and are burned by it. I assume this is the sort of thing that leads to the pessimistic viewpoint you're displaying.
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would want to marry?
Title says it, really. Why would God, who knows all about us before He gives us life, let someone who will inevitably, truly, with all their heart want to raise a family be so ugly that no man would want them?
Have you not noticed? Ugly people find each other and breed. Even people with severe appearance deficits get laid. After all, look at your mother OH MY GOD I JUST WENT THERE. High five? Don't leave me hanging.
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I started dating this guy freshman year (last year) when I was fourteen. He was a sophomore and sixteen. Well, we had a pretty good relationship in the begining. We had fun and laughs and he made me feel special and all that jazz... Well after about two months of dating, while we would be making out, he would slip his hand down my pants. And I'd pull it out... He'd put it back, and I'd pull it out... and it just kinda went like taht. We never really talked about it... then one night I don't know what happened but I just let him finger me... And I dunno, it didn't feel like a big deal at the time. After that things in our relationship started changing. He got a lot more possessive and mean and I became a whipped little puppy dog to him. I would do whatever he said and that's NOT the kind of person I am... I really really liked him though for some reason. To the point where I fell in love with the guy. It was a strange love but I DID care deeply about him... He continued to finger me when we'd hook up and eventually around month four he started asking for handjobs. And I'd keep saying no becuase I dont know, I was fourteen and I just wasn't ready for that. Well.. One day he basically just pulled down his pants, grabbed my hand and started making me rub his dick. I tried to pull my hand away, at least I think I did, but I couldn't. Either because his grip was too hard or because I was just so shocked that he did that. Then I started crying... and he let go but we didn't even talk abotu it! I just let him get away with it, I don't knwo why I was such a stupid stupid idiot. Month six rolls around he wants a bj... No, no, no. I kept saying no but he would aslmost try and perseude me. He'd say things like "If you loved me you'd want to make me happy. And I make you feel good but it's completely one sided." I started to just feel so guilty (and he had me so whipped) that I just did it... God you have no idea how much I wish I coudl take it back. I was sooo stupid! He dumped me four days later. He said he didn't even like me anymore but he wanted the bj before we split. He said he only stayed with me for the last three months cuz he liked the physical part of me. He told all his friends and basically the entire school, "she put out. We'd make out aaall the time and she gave me head". And I guess I deserved that... I was stupid for believing him. And letting him just used me like that. I just can't over this... I'm still hurting and I don't know how to make it go away. All of that physical stuff made me SO connected to him. And I was so owned by him that I don't even feel like my own person anymore and it's been like five months since we've broken up... I like this new guy but now that we've started kissing and stuff I feel so... Ugh I don't know. I just can't get over what happened and I don't want to trust guys... or myself. And as crazy as it is... I still like my ex... Whats wrong with me?! Can anyone please talk some sense into me. I don't even know what I'm asking withthis question I'm just lost and I don't know what to do... Please help. (I'm fifteen, sophomore)
The best you can take out of this is a learning experience. Guys, typically, are assholes. I'd like to apologize on behalf of gender. Your best bet is to distance yourself from this guy, and all the shit he seems to talk. When he started out with "if you loved me..." that's a control freak. He was clearly using you, and once he got what he wanted, he dropped you like a bad habit.
All I can say is, be more aware of your status in a relationship. He showed many signs of a dominant personality, which it seems you don't want to be compatible with. You don't need to feel so whipped. You should feel the urge to be more assertive. IF, when he had forced your hand on his penis, you had slapped him in the face and stormed out, I bet this would have resolved itself in a better way. You'd have kept some dignity, and he'd have learned a lesson the hard way.
You're young. You're bound to make many mistakes, maybe even some that people point out to you before you make them. Any shit talking that goes around will eventually dissolve. This will not define you for the rest of your life. Even if they try and hound you for it later, remember that this is high school. Ask anyone who is older than you: what happens in high school doesn't translate at all into later life. The only time that high school reputations tend to resurface are at reunions; and those are typically inaccurate.
In short, yes, you fucked up. It happens to the best of us. The thing to do now is learn from it, and never make that mistake again.
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how do i make my penis grow naturally?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_enlargement#Self-applied_methods
Every single one of those comes with a disclaimer at the end that says "it doesn't work," "it's dangerous and can rip your dick in two," or "is only recommended under strict rehabilitative or theraputic supervision for those with extremely small penises." In other words, don't try this at home.
Despite what women shout out during porn, the majority of them don't put too much stock in size. If it's at least 4 inches long, you're physically equipped to please a woman, because that's typically how far in their g-spot is. If it's shorter than that, get really good at oral and buy a penis extension at the sex shop. Other than that, you can spring for surgery. Alternatively, learn to live with it like the rest of us. My girlfriend may not look at my junk and call it "The Behemoth: Destroyer of Cervixes" like I do, but it gets the job done.
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How do you know which hole the penis should be inserted in?
Well, like they say in the Navy, "there is no wrong hole." I don't know if they actually say that, but George Carlin said they do. That's good enough for me.
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I have always dated men but I have always liked women like boobs and kissing them...I have dreamed of them both. I love guys but I like women..am I bisexual?
More bicurious, sounds like. But those words are simply labels. If you don't have sex with women because you're not THAT into them, I wouldn't say you're bisexual. If you could stand a threesome with a man and another woman, and interact with both equally, then I would say you're bisexual.
Until that point, I'd just say you're a straight female; unless you're male, then you're gay.
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The bar showing the URL of websites/stories selected with my Firefox 3.6 browser no longer appears at the top of my screen. How do I restore/install it?
If you mean what I think you mean, right click at the top of your browser by File, Edit, View, etc. Your navigation toolbar is turned off, click to turn it back on. Voila.
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Please help! So there is this guy I met off a site and he was really nice in person. But , he wanted me to go over to his place the first time we met and I wanted to in public so we did. So then ,after that we talked and stuff. And he started talking about his ex gf died and he wanted to marry her and he kept repeating it and said they had sex the first night and everything. So , he was wondering if I would be just as fast, but I told him no right? So like he said he does not want to wait forever... he says it makes no sense and everything. He kept asking to hang out , but I kept making up excuses...because he seems like he wants sex , but he keeps asking me to come over to his place and cuddle? I mean im the girl shouldn't he be coming to me? is he worth my time? he keeps saying that he really wants us to work and its not the sex that makes love and everything he wants something serious , but i don't know.. he even said he shaved his downstairs for me.... ah and he said if i came over he would half my shirt off in a bra. So I have no idea what I should do?
he also , he tells me im beautiful and he talks to me non stop , but is it a scam?
Thank you betty!
I'm 4000% sure he's full of shit. He's feeding you BS to pressure you into sex. From the looks of things, you're not the only one he's trying to play. I bet when he sends you an enticing text, it's being sent to 4 other girls as well. Drop this guy like a bad habit and try to find something real. From the looks of things, even in the best case scenario you aren't losing much.
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Is it a good idea to pursue a high school relationship during senior year? I can't predict the future of this relationship, whether or not it will last, but in all likelihood we will be separated by college. I'm going on to college and the girl is still going to be in high school. Is it worth it?
I'm pretty pessimistic about young relationships, so I would typically say it's a waste of time. However, I'm 23 and still dating my high school sweetheart. In the end, if you're willing to give it a shot, even a long-distance relationship can last. The biggest issue is trust. If you can 100% trust each other to stay faithful, your biggest problem is solved. In the end, I say go for it.
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As a gamer I noticed that most video games don't have children in them. Are game developers not allowed to include them for certain reasons? Is there a reason why? There are games like the Grand Theft Auto franchise and the Assassin's Creed franchise where they have cities and towns completely populated with people, but all of them are adults and no sight of any children, not even a baby. Like in the Grand Theft Auto games, the player is able to free roam and kill people if they ever felt like it. So, what's wrong with killing a child in a video game? Does it disturb people greatly? If so, then what's the difference of the level of disturbance between a child being killed in a video game and an adult being killed in a most horrific manner in a video game? Wouldn't it add a bit more realism to the game and relate it more to real life? I know it sounds immoral but is there like a legit reason behind all this? I'm planning to become a game designer and before I start sketching out ideas and a plot for a game, I'd like to know this small detail where most games, usually the Mature rated ones, don't have children in them?
The ability to kill children in the game takes it from Mature to Adults Only, a rating game companies avoid because it kills sales. Not to mention, the amount of negative press it would receive, and the attacks from everyone involved in politics, means you couldn't buy the game anywhere because no one would put it on their shelf. This means you could only order it direct from the manufacturer. They also wouldn't be able to advertise. This means lost money overall, because very few people would go to all that trouble, and few would have even heard about it in any medium other than Fox News.
In short, it would make a game tank in profitability, and marketability.
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Hey everyone i was just wondering is anyone knew any sites that would give me a blog like a url and like a basic template to help me make a blog please help ty
www.blogger.com
It used to be Blogspot, which I used quite a few years ago. Very reliable.
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I swear I'm not a freak but ever since, well, for a long time now I've been humping on this teddy bear I have. Today I was thinking about it and I was wondering if this is safe or if it's going to affect my health badly? I hump on his nose, usually, and I wash the bear like once a week or 2 weeks at the very longest. Do you think this is dangerous?
http://en.wikifur.com/wiki/Plushophile
You're not alone, apparently.
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Ok so i work at a resturant the pays its employees under the tabel. we do have some shifts where we clock in but the majority i get in cash. I was told that my boss is commiting tax fruad by doing this is it true?
Yes. There's a reason it's "under" the table.
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ive given a lot of head but recently i took a break and didnt really party for a while, then i had a crazy night and got drunk and wtvr and blew this boy.
we were both drunk and it was taking him so long to come like he actually colddnt and i was doing it for a while then i had to go and left before he cud finish...
i feel like i lost my touch.
can someone give me good tips?
guys?
thanks
and was it my foult that the boy couldnt come?
he just kept pre-cmming
He was drunk, that doesn't count. Most guys can't even get it up while drunk, let alone enjoy anything going on.
For tips, visit a previous answer of mine at http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=506393
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okay i am a 38 d and i have this really cute shirt that i want to wear but i need a strapless bra. Everyone i find doesnt support me enough to wear it. Do you know of any brand or any store that i could find a strapless bra to support my huge boobs lol.
Do you have a Lane Bryant in your area? It's not just for plus size women, it's also for smaller women with disproportionate chests. Tits too huge? Go to Lane Bryant!
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I'm hungry. What should i eat?
It's a day later, you must be REALLY hungry now. I suggest a Chinese buffet. No really, the whole thing. Don't stop eating until they ask you to pay for two meals.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
Facebook has become the bane of many relationships. Many unscrupulous men (and women) use it to persue possible one night stands while already being in a relationship. When one catches the other flirting with people, they spin it as "it's over the internet, it's not real." The fact that your boyfriend made a public facebook group, then blocked you from it, means he is an idiot. There is no such thing as privacy on facebook.
I won't go as far to say you need to find out his password and look at the stuff yourself. Chances are, you already know what you're gonna find, or at least that you will not like it. Even if what he is hiding is innocent, the fact that he is hiding it from you means he is not honest with you, which will build into much larger problems later.
Short version: Confront him, then punch him in the dick.
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Me and my boyfriend seem happy with each other. Like he always talks about us being together forever and is always making future plans. I like that bc that is that the kind of realationship that i want, but he lives about 40 min. away from me and the seeing him thing isnt really a problem (i dont want to see someone everyday, i get kind of annoyed by that) so that isnt the issue. I am just worried about him doing stuff behind my back... like he checks out other girls INFRONT of me and talks about them near me too. He says wow their hot and stares them down.. stuff like that. So that kinda scares me. I talk to him about this, but he says that he isnt gonna ever do this to me and that he likes me too much to go for any other girl. Should i belive him?
I like Razhie's answer. Let it be known that I too am this guy, and will point out hotties to my girlfriend. She's a good sport about it and we'll both give them a 1-10 rating. Of course, in the interest of fairness, this means I must rate any guys she points out. I think under different circumstances, I'd make a great wingman for her, and vice versa.
At any rate, I wouldn't read into it. I'd be more worried if he were silent about it. That could entail built-in guilt about the cheating he actually is doing.
Probably not though.
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I know sugar is real bad for you and can make you fat and sluggish. I am trying to lose weight and been using SPLENDA sweetener. I like the sweetner personally. My Mom told me today she won't buy me any more Splenda though because it is artificial or something and it is toxic. I don't know what she's talking about. THE STORE SELLS IT. If it was bad it wouldn't be on shelves right? Is it bad or not? I want to show my mom it isn't harmful so she will buy it for me for my diet.
Your mother is lumping all artificial sweeteners together. The "big bad" she is likely thinking of is aspartame, the sweetener used in diet drinks and many other artifical sweeteners. "Research" has "proved" on both sides of the argument on whether aspartame has any bad side health effects or not. It's hard to say, but many err on the side of caution and avoid it. Hell, some say it even gives you cancer. Diet drinks taste like shit so I personally just drink the normal stuff less often. Now my mom tells me high-fructose corn syrup is killing me. Can't a man enjoy a soda? Maybe I'll start drinking straight liquor only; at least I know what effects it'll have on me!
In short, Splenda doesn't contain the stuff and should be fine.
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