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I love guys but I like women..am I bisexual?
I have always dated men but I have always liked women like boobs and kissing them...I have dreamed of them both. I love guys but I like women..am I bisexual?
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Let me start by saying I'm old enough to be your grandfather and I have been married to the same women for almost 40 years. I believe in calling a spade a spade so you may find what I have written a little shocking coming from someone my age. My wife and I believe that it is best to tell it like it is and this is what I have tried to do for you and what we have done for our child.
You did not include your age so I am going to assume you are in your early teens. If I am correct it is a little early to start putting labels on your sexuality.
There is nothing wrong exploring ones sexuality, it is part of puberty. Exploring ones sexuality with a same sex partner is a safe way to find out likes and dislikes about sex. It is also a safe way to explore your own body with the aid of a friend. In a sense you learn about yourself by seeing the effect on your friend or partner.
You have more than enough time to explore and learn before putting labels on things. Labels can come with unfortunate side effects. My advice is to allow yourself time to explore your sexuality, to learn about yourself. Do not let any one rush you into do anything you don't want to do or are not ready for. When you are older; when you are finished with High School then you can decide if you want to put a label on sexuality. Until then just enjoy being you.
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More bicurious, sounds like. But those words are simply labels. If you don't have sex with women because you're not THAT into them, I wouldn't say you're bisexual. If you could stand a threesome with a man and another woman, and interact with both equally, then I would say you're bisexual.
Until that point, I'd just say you're a straight female; unless you're male, then you're gay.
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