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im surrounded my hypocrites. my cousin was talking shit about me to my best friend. well my "best friend" was "defending " me but in a way, also talking shit, saying that im always wrong and they are always right. they are calling me stupid when in reality, im smarter than both of them combined. Then I see that they are all of a sudden best friends. Im not a mean person and i have a good heart...so i can never tell when someone is being a hypocrite or not...plz help me...cause write now im crying and i have no one to talk to... :(
Well first of all.
Yes you may be a great person, but that never gives you a right to point fingers, (because there are 3 pointing back at you) or call anyone a hypocrite, people who call people hypocrites are usually hypocrites themself. Honestly, life is too short to be angry, hold grudges, or waste time on drama like this. Either talk it out with them, or stop being friends with them. I know your cousin is your cousin, and you're family, but that doesnt mean you have to be friends. If things cant be fixed, move on with life. Obviously they dont care enough about you, if they are talking about you.
Try making new friends, I realize that is WAY easier said than done. But trust me, you dont want to waste your life away over drama, and calling people hypocrites for things that upset you.
alright, i was on the sims 2 website and i am regisered and all and i went to go download a certain lot and it would not let me, a pop up came up saying " Please double-click a custom content package file to install the content"
i had no clue what it was talking about, if i'm doing something wrong can someone please tell me? maybe a step by step walk through on how to download this lot would really help.
i dont know if this will make a difference but this is the lot im trying to download: http://thesims2.ea.com/exchange/lot_detail.php?asset_id=528535&view=new&search=1&asset_type=lot&hideFramework=&languageCode=1&hideFramework=&languageCode=1
I think you have to save it first,
so when you click it to download it click save,
then go find it and double click it,
and something from SIMS 2 should pop up saying that it was installed :)
has anybody recently gone bowling at happy times? lol i know this is a random question but they don't have a website and i was wondering what there prices are like and how many people you can have bowl in one alley?
if it helps i live in PA. thanks :]
Look in your phone book!
It should have a number you can call, and ask the time and prices.
=]
OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?!
Friendship should never be about guys.
Never!
If she says that to you,
tell her that is fine with you,
because you wouldnt want to be in a relationship wiht a guy if he only likes your chest.
Right? I know this could bug me too, I know a person like this too. It is SO annoying. A lot of the time when people call themselfs 'sluts','whores',, etc its because they wish they could be. They wish they had the body, or they do have the body and they like it,
tell her how you feel. Make it clear to her, that you dont want a friendship thats a competition between guys, and tell her you dont care if she has a "bigger chest" looks arent everything. If shes giong to be a slut, what kind of guys do you think she is going to attract right? If she doesnt listen, just end the friendship. I know thats abrupt and rather..frank, but if all else fails, you dont have to be her friend.
Hope I helped
what are things that can make your guy turn on?
what things they like best doing to them?
Hey, I think it really differs with each guy.
Some guys like to be touched, and flirted with in that way. Some really dont like that. So if you know what the guy likes, do that, if you dont, take time to become their friend and figure out first what they like. :) Don't be a slut about flirting though, no one likes a slut.
whats the boys and girls club?? and how can you join??
lol sorry if this sounds stupid
http://www.bgca.org/
Well actually, its a lot about kids,
but its where you help younger kids,
and be a big sister or big brother,
and doing that, you can definitley make friends:)
If you have any other questions, feel free to ask!
15/f
so basically i am stuck at a small private school in socal desperate for friends (my parents aren't letting me switch schools) but theres only 30-40 kids in each grade and most of the girls either complain every second of their lives or else there just straight up gossipy and mean ( i know everyone has their faults) but i don't have any friends at this school (i am even nice) anyway are there any organizations i can join that other teens meet other teens and do activities, etc...please help im desperate
Aww I go to a private school, its not huge, but there is actually a good number of people in each grade. I believe that you are a nice person, and everyone wants friends, I suggest .. trying as many new things at your school as you can, maybe meet other people in different grades? Get a job, you're fifteen you can get a working permit and get a job, and during that you meet TONS of new people. The boys and girls club, is a very nice way to meet people. Good luck!
ummm okaii i guess you can say i am a good girl i dont get n trouble ever..but i want to take ecstasy..it helps you loose weight n tht is the only reason y i wana use it..what do you think i should do?? because i want to loose a little weight without having to diet or exsercise or ne thing physical or nutting like tht..what should i do?
Well, I really do not suggest taking ecstasy. I know it maybe sounds like a short cut to losing weigh. But, did you know that ecstasy basicly hurts the brain. Your moods, and things such like that. It can make you feel confused, depressed, give you insomnia, anxious, and being paranoid. Also, it can cause muscle tension, clenching of the teeth,nausia, high heart rate and blood pressure. It can cause liver damage.
http://www.ecstasy.ws/e-side-effects.htm
You can go there and read more about it.
But from what I see there, its definitly not worth taking, just to lose weight.
Even if you lose weight, you could be damaging your body so much more.
I know it sounds easier, because who likes dieting or exercising? Not me, but I think you would rather be safe than sorry. A skinny person isnt always "healthy". I HIGHLY suggest, taking a walk, doing jumpropes, the weather is getting nicer, maybe roller blading or bike riding, try googling some quick exercise tips.
Control your portions when you eat food, try to eat a lot of protiene, just eat healthy, and exerscise. I know you dont want to do that, but its really the only way.
Good luck! If you have any more questions,
feel free to ask.
okayy im 15 and im in love with my boyfriend. so we had sex. and i think i might be pregnant.i had protected sex its just i havent had my period for like almost 3 months and i throw up a lot on random mornings. and i eat so much more than usual latley. and on top of that i cant see my abs anymore! i think im pregnant and im deatly afraid of what to do.! i dont know how to tell anyone. and i dont want to take a test cuz i know ill be right. i just dont wanna know the truthh. i cant handle a baby; things are too rough for me already. what WHAT SHOUD I DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!!!
-DESPERATE.
Well.. you are only fifteen. And I'm sure you realize if you are pregnant, your whole life is changed. College, dreams... need to put them on hold for quite a long while. Maybe forever?
Anyways I highly SUGGEST you go to a planned pregnancy place, or buy a pregnancy test. It is the only way to tell.
I hate to tell you this, because I know you dont want to hear it, but you shouldnt have had sex until you were ready to be able to take care for another human being.
I'd tell your parents, or atleast your mother.
Tell her you know she is going to be angry, but its done now, and you need to focus on what you are going to do about it.
Good luck
How can i loose weight!!?? Without working out because i have noo time right now because of homework and everything. Like what should i eat? Everyday should i just stop eating? Eat alittle less please tell me what kind of ffoods i should eat to loose weight.
Thanks,
15/f
Don't stop eating! That is so harmful to your body! I suggest eating fruits and vegitables, salmon, fish, boiled chicken, eggs, eat balanced meals, have big breakfasts, not huge lunchs, and a good dinner. But you really cant lose weight without exercising. Those two things go hand in hand.
Should soft drinks be sold in schools?
What are the pros & what are the cons?
PLEASE don't tell me to Google it-I have.
I just need people's opinions. :)
Thank you in advance!*
In my opinion, its not healthy.
But I dont care, I like soda.
But I dont drink it EVERY day ALL the time, like some people do. And I think that is a choice they make, you know?
Hi i'm a sophomore and my boyfriend is also a sophomore and we've been dating for a year and a half. Only juniors and seniors are allowed to go to prom, but they can take freshman or sophomores as dates. This girl who is my friend and is also my boyfriends friend asked him to go to prom with her, but he didn't know what to say. So he asked me if he should or not. And I dont really want him to go with her because she always flirts with him. And I just don't feel comfortable with him going with her. So I guess my question is... Is it okay to tell him that I don't want him to go or is that too controlling? Because i don't want to be a mean girlfriend who won't let her boyfriend do anything, but I just feel bad if I don't let him go. Thanks!
Yes it is OKAY to tell him.
There is a reason he asked your opinion in the first place, most likely because he feels awkward about it too. And hello he is your boyfriend not hers. You arent being controlling, controlling girlfriends wouldnt even let him talk to another girl. So you are just fine feeling the way you are, go ahead and be honest tell him and I'm sure he will understand :)
my girlfriends mom caught me and her daughter having sex last weekend and totally went mad but now she wants to talk to me about it or i should write a letter the choice is mine...what should i say and what should i do
Well if she wants to talk to you, I would talk to her. I know it will be VERY awkward, but it could be something that could lead to good. But if you arent comfortable with that, then I would write a letter.
HELP ME!!! I am very needy and extremly dependant on other people, and i get really nervous before presentations or sometiems even before school and i even get stomachaches all my life and they affect me in a bad way. I feel as if people dont think im good enough and I have low confidence in public and i feel like its holding me back. Is there any books i can read, or things i can do to gain confidence, and STOP caring what other people think?
Its that simple, stop caring what people think.
I know sometimes people say thats 'easier said than done' but in my honest opinion, just do what you feel like - and dont worry what people think. Think positive about yourself! And about everything, try to depend on yourself more. Because its sad, but sometimes, the only person you can rely on is yourself. Everyone gets nervous before presentations, it gets better with practice, believe me. And also, if you practice what you are going to say a couple nights before, you will be a pro in no time! Just practice :] As for the stomaches, I suggest maybe going to see your doctor and getting an anzxiety pill or somethimg, my friend takes those, and they seem to help. And sometimes, its just because you are shy, so make sure you know whats going on.
And last, just love yourself ! :] In public, be who you are, be the best you can be. Smile when you look in the mirror, you are beautiful.
Just be you.
take care hun!
Hey, you answered my question about that song on "The Lake House" commercial and said it's by Keane... so I decided to download the song and a bunch of other Keane songs and I absolutely love the band! So I've decided that I'm gonna buy a Keane CD but I know there's like 3... so I'm just wondering, if you've ever heard their CDs, what is their best CD? Thanks!
I've only really heard 2 of their cds out,
the "Hopes and Fears" and "Under the iron sea" and I liked both of them. They are worth buying :)
The one I like the most is the new one right now the "Hopes and fears"
but yes my all time favorite song by them is "Somewhere only we know" its so ahhalfajdlkf ji dont know how to explain it, but you like it as much as I do :)
so enjoy!
any more questions, feel freee to ask :))
so i had downloaded Corel PSPXI and i loved it!! but my trial ended. i got advice that if i set the date back on my computer to before it ended, i could continue using it for as long as i wanted. this worked for a couple weeks, but now its stopped! ive set the date back 3 times today, earlier and earlier, but it still pops up saying that i have 0 days left in the trial. is there anything else i can do? i cant buy the program.
if not is there another photoshop i can get a free trial of that has the blemish fixer and teeth whitener effect?
thanks.
I think if you redownload it but under a differnt account name it will give you 15 extra days.
It will say your trial has ended but do you need more? 15 days.
Atleast thats what it did for me, hope it works!
i love the blemish fixer and teeth whitener ahhaha
is it bad to say 'i love you' for the first time through msn ? because that happened to me and i'm not sure if he quite meant it...as opposed to if he were to have said it in person...
I would say it is.
It doesnt mean NEAR as much, than saying it face to face. Face to face, you can see the actual reaction on his face, and if he truly means it.
Oh this world & technology.. =/
Earlier today my dad was yelling at me because I forgot to mention my depression at the Doctor's when I was going there mainly for my ear infection. He yelled at me, and I started to cry because I felt horrible, and then he yelled at me saying that I am just a big cry baby and I am always crying over something stupid! But I can't help it.. I seriously can't. If someone yells at me, or scolds me I cry because I feel so guilty. But I don't want to easily cry anymore! I wanna feel stronger than that (since I am NOW 16!! And I should be acting like an adult) As my dad thinks, I really need to grow up!
But it's hard to not cry since I am sensitive and very emotional, and I am really depressed, so when I am in a sad or depressed state I cry over anything. Maybe it's normal for a teenager girl like me, but some times I feel I am just 'over-doing' it. How can I fix this?
Thanks.
Well teenage girls, cry easily, we are over emotional, plus the weight of your depression, you have the right to cry. But you should only give yourself a period of time to cry, and then stop. I know that sounds bad, but you need to heal, and to heal you need to allow yourself to let your feelings out, but there is a point where you just need to stop, and be like "there that was my crying for today". Also, I think your dad should understand that you are depressed and you are SUPER emotional. He should be more sensetive to this. Find a support group, your friends, talk to them about this, let them comfort you, talk to a counsular (i do) and it works wonders, its like letting everything off your chest, and you feel so much better.
I hope you start to feel better,
You can win this.
okay well . i know that im pretty, alot of people tell me that i am pretty. but i just cant like myself. i always negative about myself. i feel like im not good enough for anyone. i dont know what to do. im alwatys depressed. i mean, i have alot of friends and all, but i dont know. life just isnt going great now. what should i do.
Well I've felt like this before. I really have, and what I've found works, is look at things positively. It sounds hard, but really its not, when you find yourself thinking negatively, stop yourself, and say something good about yourself. Talk to friends, tell them how you are feeling. Talking to people helps A LOT!
The important thing to realize is that we are ALL human, and none of us are perfect, sometimes thats hard for me to deal with to. I can be a perfectionist. But just keep in mind, we all make mistakes, get nervous, feel selfconsious atleast a million times in life, it gets better with practice, and learning to be yourself.
God Bless!
I know song lyric questions are annoying, but I've been searching for this song and I STILL haven't had any luck. So, you know the commerical for the movie "The Lake House"? Okay well in the background of the commerical, there's this really pretty piano-like song playing and I really want to know what song it is and who the artist is. I know they play this song for the movie previews for "The Lake House" on InDemand but I'm pretty sure this song is on every Lake House commerical. If anybody knows what song it is, that'd be great! Oh yeah and please don't refer me to google.com because I've tried it already lol.
Oh! I love that song too :)
Its called
Somewhere only we know by Keane
if you want me to send you the song
I can just send a message to the inbox!