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hello! i'm abby. october is my birth month! i am a cheerleader on competition this year. i got hurt at one of the camps over the summer and now i am in a leg brace because of it. i tore a ligament and chipped a bone, all because i twisted my ankle. haha, i'm a klutz. and i am also a self-proclaimed helpless romantic, i've read too many fairytales. i am a non-cusser, and i hate hearing cuss words. love me or hate me, it's your choice.

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OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me. And he doesnt just like "spank" me he usually uses a hard stick and hits me a few times and ive gotten a couple of bruises
plz answer
thanks

How could you not see this? This is total ABUSE! This is bad...very bad. Call either your neightbor, the cops, or a friend. Please talk to me later and tell me what happens! Hope the bruises go away, too!

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alright on friday i'm going to my boyfriend's house with my best friend and her boyfriend .. his parents i think are gonna be home but i don't think we're gonna be by them or whatever but i guess my boyfriend wants to make-out with me and i wanna make-out with him too its just that .. i've never made-out before and neither has he lol .. so umm can you give me some tips on how to ? i don't really know if we are going to at his house .. but if we do .. i kinda wanna be prepared so-to-speak .. and my best friend and her boyfriend have never made-out either and i think if me and my boyfriend do her and he will too .. so we need some "tips" or whatever lol .. please no smartass answers .. thanks! =)

Well personaly I have never made out. There is probably no exact way that peopleshould make out. It comes to you narturaly so I have heard. Have fun!!!

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Hey my hair right now is black with brown streaks i want to change the black to blonde and the streaks to streaks of light brown, white blonde, and blonde.
Here is what i look like. http://myspace-738.vo.llnwd.net/00254/83/76/254976738_m.gif Do you think i should do it?

No, I have my hair dyed and I don't really like it. Once you get it you want it get rid of it.

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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me...

Don't do it. BAD! I know it sounds like fun but it is not worth it. Trust me.

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Ok well this is gonna need ot be answered really quick. There is a popular girl on AIM right now and sheis nice to me, should i say hi? She doesnt know I have her sn, I got it iff her myspace...

Sure, you should always be up for new things!

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Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?

Okay...This is sounding extreme. I wouldn't really go near him. Only if it is a SAFE movie or maybe even a little dinner at Denny's or something. Please try not to get hurt. To him you PROBABLY " another girl." Don't go off and "stay a night" with him. Try not to look at him all you can. Please if you need to talk to me more drop a note in my box!!

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Okay, I'm having this Halloween party and I don't know what to do, I told them to ware their costumes, and to bring some warm clothes incase it is cold, but I don't know what to do! There are going to boys and girls, along with my parents, little sis, and my boyfriend;) I don't know what we should do that would be fun for kids our age. We are all 13/14 and we want to just have fun, do you know what we could do? ( please don't make it expensive, my family doesn't have verymuch money right now.) thanks!

You could always get a boombox. Play scary or party music. Have a table of food like snacks, chex mix, chips, celery and carrots with ranch, ect. Ask me for more info!

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My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks!

If you are a girl it could be cramps. If so, scrunch your legs next to your body. That is what I do. If you are a boy, bring a sweater. Set that next to your back. Cushion. Even if you are a girl you might what to also use a sweatshirt. Good Luck! Ask me more if any other difficulties!

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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(





Just ask him if he likes you. ( Not there yet? ) If not just go with the flow, *Dylan* might be annoying but that might be his way oh saying "I like you." ♥

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Okay well I'm a freshman in high school and I need to do a science fair project again. I'm not sure what I should do because I want something easy. This project has to be an experiment and I have to work on it for the next 4 months so anyone got some ideas? Please and thank you!

Yeah I got a great one! Butter and Margrine. Simple, right? Leave butter and margrine in a plastic container outside or in the garage. Butter will attract flies but margrine won't. Margrine is onw molecule away from being plastic...creepy. I don't eat margrine ever since I heard that one! ♥

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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?

Since I am a girl I think that that is very nice. I would like it. See same thing with my boyfriend and I. It is my birthday on Wednesday and I hope her gets me something nice. ♥

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ok my brother keeps saying "lick em" that something in german but i'm not quite sure. Lick em is what it sounds like but i dunno what how to spell it in german please tell me wht he's saying will rate 5's!

I have no clue what he is saying. I bet it isn't very nice though. It might just be plain english.

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i was wondering whats a good eye shadow that REALLY shows up with some bright colors like pink and lime green that i can get at wallgreens or the mall.thanks!

There is this really vibrant at Walmart ( no joke ) I have it and I love it! It shows up really really good! &heart;

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ok im a huge germophob lol & i was wondering like could you get any type of diseases er anything from public bathrooms? i dont like using them but sometimes you juss have to, so does anyone know anything??

thanks!!!!!

Okay. Did you know that a telephone it dirtier than a toilet? Yeah, pretty nasty. I don't think you could get a diseases or anything. I hope not or I would be afraid of them too.! ♥

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I just got my hair cut only an inch and now my dad is like " I dont think you have the right to get it cut!" Its really cute too but what do you think I should do?

Go with the flow! It is your hair! P.S. I bet it is pretty. ♥

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Hey hey hye My dad hates my hair waht do I do?
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Hi.
Well if you jsut got it cut then there is nothing you can do about. My advice it to tell him you are old enough to make thoughs desisions. Heart ---> ♥

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i was just wondering where you can find someone to be with (as in girlfriend and boyfriend) like online or something. cuz i mean there is no one at school that im really into. i just want a good site to meet single teens ready for a relationship. btw, im 13/f. THANKS A BUNCH!!!

There is a great website called VMK.com, there you can make your own person! It rocks. People get hooked up a lot on that website!

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i want really blonde hair and i want to dye it im already quite blonde but more caramell than blonde im too scared to dye it, will it really ruin the texture and what if it goes wrong?

I have dyed my have quiet a few times. Lately i have been missing my old hair. I wouldn't do it if I wear you. Blonds aren't everything! I am sure the carmel color looks fine! It is up to you though, good luck. ♥

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ok so i went to a My Chemical Romance concert yesterday and got this hoodie that says "REVENGE" on the front and on the back has an army helmet on top of a rifle then it says My Chemical Romance... you can't really make out that it's a rifle... but still, so for an 8th grader do you think i could wear it to school? we have a new principal and theres been girls wearing spagetti straps and shirts with guns on them and those shirts that say I've go snow man or w/e...

I probably think you could wear it. When ever a teacher comes bye just hide it. Lol. ♥

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well for halloween this year i was gonna put together cute little accesories and stuff for halloween together to wear to school but nothing drastic i was thinking beads and halloween socks and like a strand hair with temporary hair color dye stuff in it if you have any more ideas please help thanks!!

I donno, maybe a lil' bit more hair dye. Try standing out. That is always fun. Maybe some black eyeliner. Fake fangs maybe? I donno but I hope I help! ♥

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