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Long story short, I'm from Los Angeles, went to an amazing school, left the US and moved to the Middle East. I've been backpacking around Europe and the Middle East on and off since August 2013.


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im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do

You were raped. He can go to jail for this, it's statuatory rape. File a police report now!!

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Im in chorus at my school. I love singing and the class is sooo fun..my teacher is the best and i love singing at concerts. We just did The Phantom of the Opera and it was fun! I know that sounds corny but i really like it. I love being on stage. Well we had to sing for the graduates this yr and i felt embarrassed. We had to wear these lame chorus shirts and blue skirts. Everyone was laughing or snickering why we were singing..i felt soo embarrassed. All my friends make fun of me and im tired of it. Should i just quit chorus or what?

Don't quit chorus. Singing is the most magical and enchanting thing you can do with your voice. Nerver, ever give that up. I also sing and love it, so ask more if you need.

xoxo

Amy

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hi, i have no idea what to do about my eyebrows. i tried to pluck, but t hurts too much. i bought once of those eyebrows fixing shaving things, ut they dont work. my mom doesn't let me go to a saloon or anything. what should i do?
thanks in advane!

Ew. Don't shave your eyebrows.

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me and my freind have been talking about perminatelly dying our hair. she wants streaks of bright green, on her black hair. i want the look where you dipped your hair in paint. i want the 2 bottom inches of my hair purple. my hair is a weird combination of chesnut and dark brown. what kin of a haircut should i get under it, or should i get a trim? both of us have a little longer than shoulderlenth hair. will it look creepy if we die our hair these wayz? please give me your opinion on the brand of paint, the style, and the haircut!
-thanks in advance.
-olga

my friend did the green/black thing and it loks freaky. Her hair is much linger than yours seems to be though.

The purple sounds hot.

I'd so do it. Only if I had straigt hair though.

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why is it that guy find girl on girl action so attractive??
ill rate if ur advice is good

Porn is porn.

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do guys like... care about a girls body size... like i have c boobs and a big but and my bellys flat... but im not like 100 % thin... so what are guys' expectation in a girls bodies?

Any guy who cares is shallow.

If you're in middle school that's 99% of all guys.

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I have and always have had really sore breasts, like, people poke me alot in them and it hurts soo bad, and even like if you touch them they'll hurt really bad. Im a really tiny A and im 15..are they growing? How are they growing if there still really small?? My mom's a C..will i eventually be a C, too?? Thanks for neone who helps me!!

Why are people poking your boobs??

You won't necessarily be a C, but you may be a small B.

No problem.

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Okay so, I babysit everyday for 2 hours which some people have told me will burn alot of calories then as soon as I get home I do 2 hours/an hour and a half of dancing then if I have time I do 30 minutes of skipping (rope jumping)
I'm not doing it to lose weight it's just to stay in shape and keep me busy since I have nothing better to do.
Loads of people have told me I'm over excersizing and I know for a fact it's dangerous to over excersize.

Am I over excersizing?

Well, the recommended amount of exercise is now 90 min. per day.

I would say your exercise is excessive, but not dangerous as long as you keep hydrated and don't get TOO out of breath.

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ok my period isnt completely regular..sometimes i would get it on the same day a month later..other times i would get it 5 days after i started it the previous month. (that was the case for this month) I have an important party in exactly a month and i reeeally dont want to be on my period then..i hear stress and weight loss can delay you..should i stress myself out over the upcomng finals and should i start to lose a lot of weight..and will this delay my period?

I think birth control delays your period. That medicine...seasonale maybe also delays it. I wouldn't dramatically lose weight or stress, if I were you though.

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what is it exactly? i am just thats tupid. but i dont know much about it, thanks.

Haha. My specialty.

Ok, when you are hard-to-get, you are almost the opposite of being a slut, but you aren't necessarily prude.

Being hard to get enthralls guys becasue they are competitive and egotistic. They like the challenge of 'winning' you after you play hard-toget.

This doesn't mean you are mean to the guy, it just means you show no romantic feelings toward him whatsoever.

But, if you play hard-to-get for too long, guys give up, so be careful!

xox Amy

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Honestly, do you think its too babyish to have a pinata and play the limbo at my Luau thenned sweet 16?
Any suggestions or websites for decorating? thank you all..fives for decent answers

Yea, I think it is childish.

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ok so my friend is having a lauau sweet 16..so am i but a week later. lets say she has the grass skirt things you put around the table or some other cool decoration. is it tacky for me to ask to use it for mine? we arent best friends and we dont hang out outside school really..but we are friends if that helps

Are you inviting ANY of the same people as she is?

If so, then don't use her decorations. People will think you are mooching off of her and her party, since hers is first!!!

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Ok i get discharge and some times there are theses little colored threads, does anyone know what it is, someone told me once its beacuse i wear colored underwaer is thta true??

THanks

Colored threads are either from colorful undies or colorful pants. Your body cannot make colored thread.

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Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ

Ususally, hair needs to be at least 1/4 inch long to be waxed. If this helps, an Indian (from India) technique called threading is virtually painless, so maybe you could do that!

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I think that i may have an ear infection and i'm wondering do i have to take out the ear rings let it close or can it heal eventually?

An ear infection is inside your head. If your piercing got infected, yes you need to let it close completely, and don't wear whatever type of earrings you wore. Ex: Nickel, gold, silver...you may have just had an allergic reacion.

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its kinda weird but like wen i guy lieks me i start to like them back. i dont want this to happen. wut do i do?

Um. Like someone else?

Sheesh.

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This notification pop up is annoying the crap out of me. I keep clicking OK since there is no other option to choose from. It says "Run time error '26001':

Failed to set registry value Key: '-2147483646', Section, 'SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\RunServices',Key:'View Manager' to value: 'viewmgr.exe' Anyclue what the hell is going on? It keeps popping up and it won't go away. And by the way, I suck at computers. Thanks if you can help!

viiiiiiirrrrrrruuuuuuuus

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can you have unprotected sex with a guy who is sterile???

physically? of course. STD's are still possible, I think...pregnancy is not

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hey .... i was thinking of making a xanga or myspace. which is better in your opinion? also, could i see some of yours to get ideas?(dont worry im not a stalker lol) thanks!

myspace, by far. xanga is out. mine is igotamonopoly.

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I am bored OUT OF MY MIND! what can I do?

Me too. I wanted to ahve a water fight but my mom is being bitchy an dwon't let me. Let me know when you figure something out!!

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