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this guy who is a grade above me asked me out, and i said no. the only problum is he still talks to me and flirts with me and smiles at me and crap, and i think hes gonna ask me out 'again'. not only that, but i like 2 of his close friends alot so i dont want to majorly affend him. i dont want to have him ask me out again. its imbarrising. could someone please help me i rate well!

ok i would look at it from his point of view, the guy likes you..and maybe he just wants to be friends? if he asks you out again just tell him no..you want to just be friends and nothing else..i think its more embarassing for him..for now i would just be his friend..and understand he has feelings for you and he cant just not talk to you and ignore those feelings..he will learn that its only going to be a friendship, not a relationship..

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one of my best friends is fading from me. you see,theres this girl. i hate her. shes so mean to me. and one of my best friends, lets call her hannah, anyway, 'hannah' is turning into such a little slut because of this girl. hannahs 12 years old and shes already been to 1st 2nd and 3rd base! this is all because of the girl that i hate. about her, she called me a fuckin bitch and 'hannah' was on the girl that i hate's side because i stood up for myself. and today she was talking to another girl that i really dont like and she told her all the things that she didnt tell me. she used to be one of my best friends. now she likes people who ditch her for more popular friends better. what should i do?thanks.

before totally moving on, talk to her on AIM,call her, talk in person, or write a note saying how you want the real hannah back..if shes still being a bitch and chosing the sluts over you, its the hardest thing ever, but you have to let it go until hannah realizes the mistake shes made. good luck...and if shes a true friend she *will* come back

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Hey whats up ok id appreciate if you all read this it hurt's so much to esplain but it would mean the world to me if you answered it, I will rate evryone a 5just for reading my problem!!! Thanks!


-Ok my name is stephanie I am 15yrs old and I live in jacksonville florida, I have lived here since I was a baby I was born and raised here. Thing is I have a boy im inlove with and I know its hard to find someone that you will love and care for and stuff but I really do! It all started in the 6th grade I had alot of fun and stuff and I met Josh I didn't really liked him and stuff but we were always best freind's and I told him everything and we would always mess around with each other and stuff. But we went out for like a day but I told him he was too much of a friend to me. So then like we were bet friends alll 6th grade, Then round the corner 7th grade came, And I still kept in touch all summer and we got together and I swear he was my first kiss, first serious bf everything (and yes im still a virgin). But yeah we gott into 8th grade and went on with out realtionship so we were like best friends at the same time but like middle school sweethearts if that makes since. We kinda grew up with eachother and changed like with each other and like see the thing is he moved last summer, And I talk to him like occcasionally on the computer and he talks to me and like I called him like few monthes ago to check up on him and we called each other today. And I kno he is coming in 10days to Jacksonville to visit. Thing is its hard to say but I love him alot and like ive only been in like what 2 relationships since me n josh split cause he had to move. And like I dont kno something tells me he wont be stayin here cause he told me he doesnt know if he is gonna move down here yet cause like his mom is poor and stuff and his sis is in college and he doesnt wanna b like in her way cause she is busy and stuff. So like I dont kno what to do honestly im freakin out and I know if he comes back likehe is to visit im gonna get even more attached to him then I already am! But he said he will try n talk to his sis bout it, But I dont kno her so I really cant judge her actions if he wanted to move back! I really wish there was something I could say that is really sweet and will make him come back!! PLEASE ANYONE I LOVE THIS BOY TO DEATH JUST ANSWER ME!!! I have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO so please answer me! I appreciate it all and Ill rate you all a 5!

-stephanie-

ok..when you said your afraid of getting too attached...dont be! i think it will be hard to see him go anyway..so why not live life to the fullest, without regrets..and spend a lot of time with him..build beautiful romantic memories you will always be able to look bak on..becaussee if you dont hang out or hook up with him, you'll hate yourself for not living the moment and you dont want to have regrets right?
You can say all the sweetest things, and im sure he knows how much you care for him...but the fact is his mom is still tight with money and he might not be able to stay because of that...
even if you say how much you love him..how you look at the moon at night , knowing hes looking at the same moon and somehow you feel connected (they use that line in the love movies a lot lol)...it will show your love for him...but it wont help his moms financial situation which is whats holding him back from staying. promise to visit once every 6 months maybe..maybe you can visit next time....or meet someone in the middle of where you guys live.

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ok...this question is not for people who will say dont give this guy a note for asking him out...ok...would making a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? _____" or something be...a bad idea? cuz i want to try that but will *he* get mad or something?? He doesn't get mad easily...:-p well, thats about it.

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i dont think he will get mad but he might show his friends the note,..so i would think about that before doing it..if hes not that type of guy sure go ahead

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What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy.

the IM thing is fine! just if you see her away message and it says shes hangin with her friends..i would hold off and tell her when her friends arent there. i would also not mention the fact your at your friends house because it might intimidate her or something. ,

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ok soo i have 2 weeeks left of school and we get our year books preety soon. so i like this guy named shane but i dont want to ask himm out. what should i write in his year book to lethim know that i like him?

if your feeling confident write
'call me...i would love to get to know you better, if you know what i mean'

'my summer wont be complete unless we hang out..call me , sexy'

'call me, it will make my day!
love, (your name)'

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Whats the best way to look busy at work when actually you are doing nothing at all?! Apart from the internet!

maybe pretend your having an important business convo on the phone...have a bunch of papers scattered on your desk and look like your very involved in reading them or writing something..but really your writing a funny story or something.

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my friend is having a dance party and she is turning 14. Does anyone know of great dance songs..preferably rap, but little or no cussing. Also, a theme and maybe even some games to keep us busy, or contests.Thank you!

party411.com really helped me plan my party..they have a whole section on party games and ideas ..maybe they can give you an idea for a theme..here are just a few ideas for a theme:
-luau
-western
-fiesta
-Texas Hold 'Em and Saloon
BBQ
Country Western Buckaroo Party
South of the Border Fiesta
60s/70s Flashback: Retro Meets Disco
Magic
Barbeque Express
sports
-hollywood
-casino
-mardi gras
-50's
-under the sea
-summer
-beach
-horror

contests (maybe the winner can receive a free rental at blockbuster or whereever..?)
-dance contest
-breakdancing contest

contests depend on your theme..if its a summer theme maybe the best bathing suit wins something..

or best beach towel wins something.

50's theme..best dressed wins something

luau- best luau dancer wins..
play the limbo and the winner of that wins something, etc



Its kind of hard to find rap songs with no cursing, i tried and failed lol. Maybe get the edited version. heres a huge list i found online..
i know its not all hip hop but there are some good ones in there
SONG LIST:


HIP HOP/URBAN/RAP-- VARIOUS
Read Your Mind-- Avant
Stand Up-- Ludacris Feat Shawnna
Step in the Name of Love-- R. Kelly
Girl I'm a Bad Boy-- Fat Joe & P. Diddy Feat. Dre
Ooh!-- Mary J. Blige
Knock Knock-- Monica
Holidae In-- Chingy Feat. Ludacris & Snoop Dogg
We Still-- Frankie J.
This is How We Do-- Big Tymers
dy-na-mi-tee-- Ms. Dynamite Feat. Nas
Love You More-- Ginuwine
Got Some Teeth-- Obie Trice
Get Low-- Lil John & The East Side Boys Feat. Busta Rhymes, Beenie Man and Elephant Man
More & More-- Joe
Down for Me-- Loon Feat. Mario Winans
Party to Damascus-- Wyclef Jean Feat. Missy Elliott
If I Can't-- 50 Cent
Who Will I Run To?-- Kiley Dean
Hot & Wet-- 112 Feat. Ludacris
Thoia Thoing-- R. Kelly
International Affair-- Mark Ronson Feat. Sean Paul & Tweet
Pass That Dutch-- Missy Elliott
Show Me Your Soul-- Lenny Kravitz, P. Diddy, Loon & Pharrell Williams
Gigolo-- Nick Cannon Feat. R. Kelly
Pon De River, Pon De Bank-- Elephant Man
Bad Boy This, Bad Boy That-- Bad Boy's Da Band
Iz U-- Nelly
Roc Ya Body -- M.V.P. Feat. Stagga Lee
My Baby-- Bow Wow Feat. Jagged Edge
Runnin-- Tupac Feat. The Notorious B.I.G.
Love Angel-- JS
Clap Back-- Ja Rule
One More Chance-- Michael Jackson
Indian Flute-- Timbaland & Magoo Feat. Sebastian and Raje Shwari
Up Against All Odds-- Tarralyn Ramsey
Milkshake-- Kelis
Stunt 101-- G-Unit
Me, Myself & I-- Beyonce
Supastar-- Montell Jordan
I'm Still In Love With You-- Sean Paul Feat. Sasha
forthenight (For The Night)-- Musiq
Gangsta Nation-- Westside Connection
You Don't Know My Name-- Alicia Keys
Salt Shaker-- Ying Yang Twins Feat. Lil' John & The East Side Boys
Fallen-- Mya
Change Clothes-- Jay-Z
Be Easy-- T.I.
Think About You-- Luther Vandross
The Set Up-- Obie Trice
AND MANY OTHER HIP HOP/URBAN/RAP SONGS AVAIL.-- OLDER AND NEWER
MODERN POP SONGS-- VARIOUS ARTISTS
I'm With You-- Avril Lavigne
Picture-- Kid Rock Feat. Sheryl Crow
All I Have-- Jennifer Lopez Feat. LL Cool J
Your Body is a Wonderland-- John Mayer
Cry Me A River-- Justin Timberlake
Complicated-- Avril Lavigne
Lifestyles of the Rich and the Famous-- Good Charlotte
I'd Do Anything-- Simple Plan
Blowin' Me Up (With Her Love)-- J.C. Chasez
Rock Your Body-- Justin Timberlake
Girl All the Bad Guys Want-- Bowling for Soup
If You're Not The One-- Daniel Beddingfield
Unwell-- Matchbox 20
The Anthem-- Good Charlotte
Losing Grip-- Avril Lavigne
Fighter-- Christina Aguilera
I'm Glad-- Jennifer Lopez
Miss Independent-- Kelly Clarkson
Intuition-- Jewel
Stuck-- Stacie Orrico
Are You Happy Now?-- Michelle Branch
Drift Away-- Uncle Kracker
Feel Good Time-- Pink Feat. William Orbit
Addicted-- Simple Plan
Beautiful You-- Rick Springfield
The Closest Thing to Crazy-- Katie Melua
All Nite (Don't Stop)-- Janet Jackson
Summer Sunshine-- Corrs
'Til I See You Again-- Jim Brickman Feat. Mark Shultz
I Pray-- Amanda Perez
You're The Only One-- Maria Mena
Walking On Thin Ice-- Sophie B. Hawkins
Go Your Own Way-- Wilson Phillips
Light in Your Eyes-- Sheryl Crow
Girl on The Verge-- Sarah Hudson
Accidentally In Love-- Counting Crows
Everytime-- Britney Spears
Penny & Me-- Hanson
Left Outside Alone-- Anastacia
Red Blooded Woman-- Kylie Minogue
Solitaire-- Clay Aiken
Will I?-- Rick Springfield
I Don't Want To Be-- Gavin Degraw
Leave (Get Out)-- JoJo
Our Lives-- Calling
Everything-- Alanis Morrissette
I Wish You-- Gloria Estefan
Drama Queen (That Girl)-- Lindsay Lohan
Heaven-- Los Lonely Boys
Runaway-- Live with Shelby Lynne
It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing (Pop Version)-- Shania Twain
Don't Wanna Think About You-- Simple Plan
Don't Leave Home-- Dido
Stay-- Cyndi Lauper
Everybody Wants You-- Josh Kelley
Just For You-- Lionel Richie
F.U.R.B.-- Frankee
Take My Breathe Away-- Jessica Simpson
Good Boys-- Blondie
Count on Me-- Katrina Carlson
Don't Tell Me-- Avril Lavigne
Come On-- Ben Jelen
Sway-- Michael Buble
Time After Time-- Rod Stewart
Buy Me A Rose-- Luther Vandross
No Way Out-- Phil Collins
Downfall-- Matchbox Twenty
Testing 1, 2, 3-- Barenaked Ladies
Stupid-- Sarah McLachlan
Not In Love-- Enrique Iglesias Feat. Kelis
Try-- Nelly Furtado
'Til I Get Over You-- Michelle Branch
Just A Little While-- Janet Jackson
AND MANY MORE POP HITS AVAIL.-- NEWER AND OLDER
MODERN COUNTRY HITS-- VARIOUS
I'm Gonna Take The Mountain-- Reba McEntire
I Wanna Do It All-- Terri Clark
I Wish-- Jo Dee Messina
Strictly Business-- Brad Wolf
I Think You're Beautiful-- Amy Dalley
Little Moments-- Brad Paisley
Heaven Help Me-- Wynonna
Perfect-- Sara Evans
Hot Mama-- Trace Atkins
You Can't Take the Honky Tonk Out of the Girl-- Brooks & Dunn
You're In My Head-- Brian McComas
Cool to Be a Fool-- Joe Nichols
Young Man's Town-- Vince Gill
Wrinkles-- Diamond Rio
She's Not Just a Pretty Face-- Shania Twain
In My Dreams-- Rick Trevino
I'm One of You-- Hank Williams Jr.
Handprints on the Wall-- Kenny Rogers
Good Little Girls-- Blue Country
Texas Plates-- Kellie Coffey
Sweet Southern Comfort-- Buddy Jewell
A Year At a Time-- Kevin Denney
Days of Our Lives-- James Otto
Spend My Time-- Clint Black
There Goes My Life-- Kenny Chesney
I'm In Love With You-- Billy Dean
Watch the Wind Blow By-- Tim McGraw
Remember When-- Alan Jackson
My Last Name-- Dierks Bentley
The First Cut is the Deepest (Country Version)-- Sheryl Crow
Paint Me a Birmingham-- Tracy Lawrence
I Need A Vacation-- Rebecca Lynn Howard
In My Daughter's Eyes-- Martina McBride
On Your Way Home-- Patty Loveless
That's A Woman-- Mark Wills
American Soldier-- Toby Keith
No Regrets Yet-- Sonya Isaacs
Songs About Rain-- Gary Allan
This Love-- LeAnn Rimes
I Can't Sleep-- Clay Walker
You'll Think of Me-- Keith Urban
Simple Life-- Carolyn Dawn Johnson
Too Much Month (At the End of the Money)-- Marty Stuart and his Fabulous Superlatives
Gone From Love Too Long-- Amanda Wilkinson
Didn't I-- Rachel Proctor
Constantly-- Cross Canadian Ragweed
Guy Like Me-- Pat Green
I Got A Feelin'-- Billy Currington
Wild West Show-- Big & Rich
Mayberry-- Rascal Flatts
Somebody-- Reba McEntire
Flies on the Butter (You Can't Go Home Again)-- Wynonna Feat. Naomi Judd
We All Fall Down-- Diamond Rio
Desperately-- George Strait
I'd Be Lying-- Chris Cagle
I Wanna Make You Cry-- Jeff Bates
Letters From Home-- John Michael Montgomery
Loco-- David Lee Murphy
Passenger Seat-- SHeDAISY
When the Sun Goes Down-- Kenny Chesney and Uncle Kracker
It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing (Country Version)-- Shania Twain
If You Ever Stop Loving Me-- Montgomery Gentry
Men Don't Change-- Amy Dalley
I Won't Go On and On-- Colt Prather
That's What She Gets for Loving Me-- Brooks & Dunn
The Wrong Girl-- LeeAnn Womack
Let's Be Us Again-- Lonestar
Sick and Tired-- Cross Canadian Ragweed
She Thinks She Needs Me-- Andy Griggs
Drivin' Into the Sun-- Sherrie Austin
Break Down Here-- Julie Roberts
Whiskey Girl-- Toby Keith
In These Last Few Days-- Vince Gill
How'd I Wind Up In Jamaica-- Tracy Byrd
Let's Kill Saturday Night-- Pinmonkey
I Want To Live-- Josh Gracin
Why Can't We All Just Get a Longneck?-- Hank Williams Jr.
When Somebody Knows You That Well-- Blake Shelton
Redneck Woman-- Gretchen Wilson
If Nobody Believed In You-- Joe Nichols
Me and Emily-- Rachel Proctor
Blame it On Mama-- Jenkins
What it Ain't-- Josh Turner
How Far-- Martina McBride
Tougher Than Nails-- Joe Diffie
You Are-- Jimmy Wayne
Look At Us-- Craig Morgan
Girls Lie Too-- Terri Clark
Rough & Ready-- Trace Adkins
Sweet Summer Rain-- Rushlow
The Boogie Man-- Clint Black
In A Real Love-- Phil Vassar
Save a House (Ride a Cowboy)-- Big & Rich
Suds in the Bucket-- Sara Evans
Thank God I'm A Country Boy-- Billy Dean
High Lonesome-- Jedd Hughes
I Go Back-- Kenny Chesney
AND MANY MORE COUNTRY HITS AVAIL.-- OLDER AND NEWER
MODERN ROCK HITS-- VARIOUS ARTISTS
Ch-Check it Out-- Beastie Boys
Growing On Me-- Darkness
Broken-- Seether Feat. Amy Lee
Somebody Told Me-- Killers
Feelin' Way Too Damn Good-- Nickelback
So Cold-- Breaking Benjamin
Wait-- Earshot
Followed The Waves-- Auf Der Maur
Anthem of Our Dying Day-- Story of the Year
Duality-- Slipknot
House Of Doom-- Black Label Society
Everything I've Known-- Korn

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every morning when i wake up, my eyes are sooo puffy!! i cant take it! does anyone have an idea about what to do to prevent or treat them?

bags under your eyes...try getting more sleep..try going to bed a couple hours earlier and see if they go away...

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hey alright me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time and well we have sex and well everything else to go with it and i was just wondering if you had any ideas of what we could do cause he is coming over this weekend.. i just want some ideas to know of to do to him to "Please" him if that makes since....

guys are easy to please in that way..lolz
try something fun like whipped cream, hot fudge, strawberries, stuff like that ..he will love it!
you could also play "dress up" lol..like dress up as a policewomen and be like "you've been a very bad boy.." haha or maybe go to a sex store and buy something interesting for the two of you. ..handcuffsm , etc
set candles for a romantic scene..maybe go swimming in a pool if you have one at your house..or have a camp out with a fire under the stars..i dont know where you live so that could be good if you live in a woods area like me.

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i don't understand how people could be anti-gay!! they are born like that..they can't help it! some people think that they choose that, but why the heck would anybody choose to be gay when they are all so discriminated against! in fact, why shouldn't they be allowed to make that choice! the constitution says that it's a free country, oh no but not for gays! and that goes the same for racists, sexists, etc... why can't we just let gays marry! they love each other, and you are keeping them away! just because they are different and might freak you out doesn't mean they have no feelings!! i'm not gay but i just can't believe this!! my friend was recently killed by an anti-gay group because she was lesbian!! oh my god can somebody PLEASE tell me why people are like this!!!???

people are hateful and there will always be hateful people around..its a shame because gays are people just like us..except they have a different sexual preference...i dont know why people make such a big deal about other people's sexual preferance like that..its none of their business. i dont understand it either and i wish i had an answer of why people are so hateful like that. im very sorry for the loss of your friend.

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ok so i met this kid on the internet (same grade as me... 10th) and we hung out a couple times and i kinda started to like him but then i noticed he was liking this other girl(9th grade) and i didnt really care that much cuz we were good friends... but he goes to a different school and she goes to mine and she has a bad reputation that he knows nothing about... i mean shes cheated on boys many times before and i think he really likes her and i dont want him to get hurt but i dont kno how to tell him with out him gettin mad at me and possibly runing out friendship.... please help!

i rate for good replys!!

thanx so much!!


brOk3n h3art3d xO

i would tell him about her reputation...just tell him..dont tell him he should break up with her or anything bc thats where the fights can begin. just let him know so if he suspects anything suspicous...he can act on it. i dont know if this is a dumb idea or not but you could bring a tape recorder to school and have ppl talk into it...saying what shes done..what they thinkk of her

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okay well one of my friends was in a very bad car accident last night...she swerved off the road, the car flipped and she was thrwn from the car and stoped breathin so they put her into a coma. Right now she is suffering from a fractured skull, broken ankle, broken eye socket, broken nose, and many bruises.. Im not really sure what a coma is, and i dont really understand what the doctors are gonna do to her, so could somebody please explain to me ablout it?! thanks in advance!!

the person cannot respond to you ..its kind of like being in a deep sleep, only you cannot wake them out of it. the doctors do no put you in a comma, you have a coma from head injury or illness...and its something that can last a couple weeks. hopefully your friend will recover!

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I've always wondered this...
Why do teens think that they "need" a boyfriend or girlfriend? What's so great about it?
I follow that at least in high school and college it's kind of a time to experiment with relationships and all, but I just don't really follow why teens think they "need" someone, especially since a lot of it seems to end kind of painfully for people.
Anyway, long story short, I'm confused about why people think it's something they need, why they seem to look so hard for it at a young age, and what's so great about having a boy/girlfriend.
Thanks.

its because there is a need to feel liked and wanted in that way...to be close to someone and have a great connection..i think they see that around them and want it very badly for ourselves....

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Alright soo I have this fiend, she realllllly geeky lets call her emily, and i have this other friend who is really popular lets call her SArah, wel i wanan be friends with sarah and not emily. How do i tell emily i dont wanna be friends with her and not even be seen around he ranymore NICELY?!?

fuk u

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i'm 15 and my last serious bf was when i was in the 7th grade. i'm not shy, i talk a lot, i get along with everyone,i have a good sense of humor, i don't want to sound stuck up but i'm not ugly. my two best friends have bfs one of them has many pimples on her face, my other friend has been know as the ugly duckie. their bfs are really cute. is there something wrong with me, that i can't get a bf? i feel so alone and behind my smile there is a girl depressed that has a problem with self harm, and has no one to talk to, and feels unloved!

Dont worry, your time will come. i KNOW how hard it is to keeep waiting for the perfect guy...its been a long time for me too. just be patient...you dont need a guy to make you happy! enjoy hangin out with friends, going to teen dance parties, flirting with guys at the movies or at the mall..just having fun...you'll meet someone when you least expect it ..and the wait will be worth it! im in the same boat as you with the waiting..but dont let it ruin your life.
as for the self harm issue you mentioned..its a serious thing and you should stop...no guy will want to date a girl with slit wrists and big emotional problems...
please dont say you have nobody to talk to...you have us here at advicenators, guidance conselor, hopefully your friends (or at least one close one?) a trusted teacher,..etc.
you sound like a great person..just hang in there, live life to the fullest, and when that guy comes along ..it will be worth the wait.

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Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now.

asking you how far you would go is inappropriate...even if he didnt have a gf ..its just not classy to ask someone that. Tell him you have feelings for him but he has a gf right now. Immagine if you were his gf and he was talking to other girls..asking them how far they would go with him. it sounds like hes seeing who will go the farthest with him ; you or his current gf. Once a creep always a creep...if he dumps his girl for you, he could turn around and do the same thing to you...find another girl to talk to..ask how far she will go..etc..just be careful not to break them up...i know if a guy asked me how far i would go before we went out...i would def not go out with him (thats just me)
-melissa-

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hey all i asked a question about my arm before and i don't know what to do about when i try to turn my shoudler hurts and my arm is shaking thanks :(

go to the hospital for x rays..dont wait any longer

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hey all today i was skateboarding with my brother and his friend and my one friend made a ramp out of wood and i went to skateboard like go up the ramp and well i fell and the bad part is i landed on my arm i mean on my arm and when i got home my arm started shaking and my hand to and know it hurts alot i think i twisted it when i fell to so what should i do should go to the hopspital or go to get it x-rayed or should i just leave it alone. i will rate 5's for reasonable answers thanks kindly.

definately go to the hospital annd get an x ray..the pros are the best people to go to for your arm to heal the right way..if you just leave it you can cause further damage which wont be good

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How many smirnoff ices about would u have to drink to get drunk?

it really depends on how much liquor you call hold. if you drink a lot, you build up tolerance, which means it takes more drinks to get drunk.
if your like me, and you dont drink a lot, it will take very little to get drunk.

ps..my cousin is a big drinker and hher experience with smirnoff was that she threw up..a lot

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