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Question Posted Tuesday May 31 2005, 7:37 pm

i don't understand how people could be anti-gay!! they are born like that..they can't help it! some people think that they choose that, but why the heck would anybody choose to be gay when they are all so discriminated against! in fact, why shouldn't they be allowed to make that choice! the constitution says that it's a free country, oh no but not for gays! and that goes the same for racists, sexists, etc... why can't we just let gays marry! they love each other, and you are keeping them away! just because they are different and might freak you out doesn't mean they have no feelings!! i'm not gay but i just can't believe this!! my friend was recently killed by an anti-gay group because she was lesbian!! oh my god can somebody PLEASE tell me why people are like this!!!???

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Crizma answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 9:30 pm:
People are just stupid and ignorant.
The topic of gays is something most straight people do not understand. The thing that makes people lash out is because I personally think they are afraid of the topic, or just homophobic.
I am also hetro, straight up girl. Never gonna change my preference for men only.
Like you I have friends that are gay. People would never choose to go against the entire world intentionally. I agree it is from birth that the genes, dna, whatever it is it has been selected by someone up in the sky. Who really has the right to question him? Not me.
Push up on the question. Well worded!

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LAUGHINGMYASSOFF answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 9:02 pm:
theyre jealous of the gays

im sorry about your friend

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AquamarineRose answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 8:58 pm:
Because people are ignorant. They believe the lies that are fed to them. It's easier that way, you don't have to think for yourself, but isn't that the problem with this country? And I mean puh-lease look at the asshole that's in office. He doesn't know how to separate government from the Bible. Oh, did I mention I am democratic?

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 8:20 pm:
Get over it. I'm not anti-gay, some people don't think they should get married, that doesn't mean we are discrminating, its an opinion, just like if I were to hate pink. Some people are racists, yes, that suck too, but life goes on. You can't stop it, and theres no point in asking about it. People are rude, and they don't like gays or certain races, end of story.




-TheTeenGirl

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 8:10 pm:
Because people are ignorant assholes. If they see something that isn't "normal" to them or "normal" to the way they were raised, they get grossed out and hate it. I completely agree with everything you say. They love eachother, they're just like a heterosexual couple, they love eachother and they want to make their love a legal bond through marriage. People are honestly sick these days. Being in love is the most beautiful thing whether it's between man and woman, man and man, or woman and woman- It's beautiful. Homophobics and racist people are two people I wish would honestly just fall over and die, or at least get hit by a bus and have every bone in their bodies broken and have to be on life support for the rest of their lives and get brain damage and turn into fucking VEGGIES! Sorry, they anger me. One of my really good friends named Frankie is gay. Kids tourment him in school all the time because of it. Just because he likes guys doesn't mean he's a bad person! Grrrrrrrrrrawrr I hope they all die. But it's just because they're stupid and assholes. I completely agree with you 10000000000000 + infinity %. I'm really sorry about your friend =/ that's gotta be hard. Screw you damn homophobes!!!!

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icey0990 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 8:07 pm:
people are hateful and there will always be hateful people around..its a shame because gays are people just like us..except they have a different sexual preference...i dont know why people make such a big deal about other people's sexual preferance like that..its none of their business. i dont understand it either and i wish i had an answer of why people are so hateful like that. im very sorry for the loss of your friend.

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shortiebebe021 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 7:52 pm:
babe i totally understand. i feel the same way. and i'm so sorry about your friend...that's horrible :( but some people are frightened by different people, they think that they are weird and don't belong in the world. they find it disturbing whenever they kiss or whatever...and they don't believe in gay rights at all. and it is sad, but some people do believe it's a choice. like WHY would they make that choice!!? this does go against the constitution. no clue but some people just can't understand these things and go against it. hopefully in the future, all gays will be allowed to marry. such as in the 1960s and such, blacks and whites were segregated, and now they aren't. in fact, many black people hang out with whites and it's going pretty well, evne if there are still racists out there. just hope that in the future, it'll all change. but i agree with you 100%. once again, i'm really sorry about your friend and hope i helped..

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2cute4words answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 7:47 pm:
i feel the same way i mean i dont like the thought of gay ppl but i think its REALLY unfair that they cant get married. i mean....some ppl!!! right?!?! well i cant tell you y ppl r like that but i can tell you that im with you.....Im sry about your friend. :(

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