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my guy friend is dating a slut
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ok so i met this kid on the internet (same grade as me... 10th) and we hung out a couple times and i kinda started to like him but then i noticed he was liking this other girl(9th grade) and i didnt really care that much cuz we were good friends... but he goes to a different school and she goes to mine and she has a bad reputation that he knows nothing about... i mean shes cheated on boys many times before and i think he really likes her and i dont want him to get hurt but i dont kno how to tell him with out him gettin mad at me and possibly runing out friendship.... please help!
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thanx so much!!
brOk3n h3art3d xO
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well, first off, guys you meet online can never be as good as the ones you meet in real life.i dont exactly understand how you can say that you like this guy, when al you have between you is emails and IMs. it doesnt seem to make too much sense to me. also- let him do his thing, girl. if he wants a nasty girl in his life, then let him. he'll learn eventually. hope i helped, hon.
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i think you should invite him and a friend or something that knows about her rep and just tell the boy "you need to know something" and take it from there.
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Hmm, If you say anything he may think you're jealous or something. Just tell him you do have information that he may want to know and leave the decision to hear it or not up to him. :)
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Hey~ Well, I wouldn't just come off the bat and tell him, because you may come off as jealous (whether you are or not) But you certainly don't want to seem that way. So start a convo with him asking him how things are going. Then say something to the effect of "You know I've heard some things about "kasey" and I was just letting you know so you didn't get hurt. I didn't want you to find out the hard way." I mean you can personalize it to fit the situation. But if you're lucky and you still have feelings for him, he'll realize that what he was missing was right in front of him the whole time. I hope things work out....good luck...and if you have time please put feedback, I would love to hear it.
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i would tell him about her reputation...just tell him..dont tell him he should break up with her or anything bc thats where the fights can begin. just let him know so if he suspects anything suspicous...he can act on it. i dont know if this is a dumb idea or not but you could bring a tape recorder to school and have ppl talk into it...saying what shes done..what they thinkk of her
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tell him, but not to make her look bad, just to warn her, dont be all snobby or stuck up about it, do it in an adult, mature, fashion!
thanks for letting me help you! and i sure hope that i did help!
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Dear brOk3n h3art3d x0
you should tell him if you don't you might ruin a good friendship so tell him this happened to me before and
didn't tell him because I was afraid he would get mad at me but he didn't he thanked me and broke up with her so take advice from someone who knows about it and has gone through it.
write again
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Alright, it seems that you might be into your guy friend and maybe your a little jealous that he now has a girlfriend. And of course you care about him getting hurt. But how well do you really know this girl? Rumors spread so quickly and most of the time they aren't even true. Here's a real life example. Last year I kissed my (then) boyfriend by the coke machine near the gym during lunch. By the end of the week everyone was talking about me having "sex with him" in the bleachers. I was like wtf! All I'm saying is, just becuase you've heard she is some big cheating slut doesn't mean she is. I suggest you lay low and don't mention the rumors that you've heard. Becuase they might not even be true. Try to be-friend his new gf if you want and that way if she ends up cheating on him, or she is planning on it you will know for sure. Plus, when you confront you guy friend about what you discovered he will have more reason to believe you. ~Sherah
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