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shes fading away........
one of my best friends is fading from me. you see,theres this girl. i hate her. shes so mean to me. and one of my best friends, lets call her hannah, anyway, 'hannah' is turning into such a little slut because of this girl. hannahs 12 years old and shes already been to 1st 2nd and 3rd base! this is all because of the girl that i hate. about her, she called me a fuckin bitch and 'hannah' was on the girl that i hate's side because i stood up for myself. and today she was talking to another girl that i really dont like and she told her all the things that she didnt tell me. she used to be one of my best friends. now she likes people who ditch her for more popular friends better. what should i do?thanks.
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i think you should confront your friend and talk to her about how you feel she has changed and the harm it is causing you, her and others around her. Tell her exactly how you feel. If she starts to get all upset or whatever, don't fight back. Just show her that you still want to be her friend. If she doesn't accept what you're saying, then don't push it. It's her choice to do what she is doing, and hopefully, if it didn't click when you talked to her, then she will find out on her own the damage she is/was causing. One thing you don't want to do is be mean to her. Show her that you are there for her and be very nice and caring. She might turn to you when her other "friends" ditch her. When this happens you can comfort her and maybe she will see the kind of friend she has in you.
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i hear these kinds of questions all the time,and all i can say to you and everyone else that is going through this same thing is to NOT GET INVOLVED. let her do her own thing. if she wants to be a slut, then let her. as long as you know what you want in life, then she's losing out by not following along. if and when she realizes that she's lost a great friend (which, it sounds like you are)- then its her loss, not yours. dont blame her mistakes on you. it's not your problem. it's hers. hope i helped.
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i say go up to her and tell her about how she is acting and if that dosen't work out mess her face up nah im just messin just tell her how you feel
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tell your friend how you feels...n if she doesn't listen thn mayb you 2 shouldn't b friends because if she let that mean gurl call you a fuckin bitch thn she isn't a very good friend...but jus talk to her n tell how you feel...if that doesn't work thn mayb you should find another friend that won't ditch you like 'hannah' did
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before totally moving on, talk to her on AIM,call her, talk in person, or write a note saying how you want the real hannah back..if shes still being a bitch and chosing the sluts over you, its the hardest thing ever, but you have to let it go until hannah realizes the mistake shes made. good luck...and if shes a true friend she *will* come back
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Aww!! Ouch; I know how this is, Sweetie. It's tough to watch a fRiend go thRough haRsh stages and possible even slip away. The best thing you can do is talk to heR.. openly and honestly. Sit heR down, and make youR best EVER attempt to hold a matuRe, undeRstating, calm yet opionated coveRsation with heR. Just be bold and let it flow. Tell heR how she makes you feel, and what you feel FOR heR, and tRy to find out what's changed and why. You have to accept the fact that you simply CAN NOT MAKE heR change, so just do youR best at finding out whateveR is in heR head. I'm soRRie I can't do moRe foR you. I wish you the best of luck!!
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