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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

Much love, Teza

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14/f. me and my bf have been going out for 10 months. and he is 14 also, he hasnt forced me to do much, hes felt me up, but lately weve been talking and he asked me if i wanted to give him a handjob and im going too, but im just not sure how to do it, i cant google it cause my parents check what i google, so can you please help me!

I'm not sure if this is something I can help you with. I can't google it for you but it's not hard. Hm.. well, do you know how guys jerk off? Like when they masturbate? It's basiclly just rubbing and "massging" (sp) the penis. I don't really know how to explain it but hopefully it helped at least a little.

Hey. Well I need a new screen name and I don`t know what to make it. I don`t really feel like typing things about me. But anything you think is cute will help! :]

Sorry but I don't do screen name ideas.

it seems to me like everyone wears black eyeliner. i mean itlooks so cute on everyone i see, and when i try to it looks like crap! do you know any make up tips you can offer? i always feel so ugly. and do you also no how to keep such things like coverup longer lasting?

thanks.

If it doesn't look right on you then black isn't your color. Try brown. There are a lot of make up tips and I honestly don't know what kind of tips you need. For eyes, face, lips?? Just let me know on that and then I will help you. When you use foundation, it's important to use powder after. Don't apply it with the sponge thing it comes with, but take a make up brush and apply it to your face. That will hold the foundation together so it lasts longer.

would it be ok to wear flats with shorts?

With dressy shorts, yes it will look fine. Also with a skirt, jeans or capris but anyways, they're really cute so it will look fine.

Is coffee fattening or have a lot of calories without milk, cream, or sugar?

Black coffee isn't that fattening and doesn't have much calories but when you add sugar and milk and what ever else, it has more calories. So if you drink coffee, you can add sugar sweetner which is 0 calories and get skim milk (pink cap) and you won't be drinking tons of calories.

yesterday me and my best friend started going out. i was so happy when he asked me out. i waited for him to like me again fr 9 months. but i dont want it to ruin mine and his friendship. me and him are so close. would it be good for really good friends to go out? or bad?

Most people think that when you go out with your best friends that the friendship will never be the same again. That's not true. If you guys feel comftrable around each other and you guys are close, this relationship will work out. The only way things could get ruined is if both of you let it get that way.

Yesterday I started giving my boyfriend a handjob, but he didn't cum. I think there was just a little pre-cum. A few minutes later, he got me to finger myself. So, would the pre-cum still be there and what are the chances of me getting pregnant from this?

I am stressing out like crazy.
Thanks.

There is a possibility that you could be pregnant but that is very rare. If you're really worried just buy a pregnancy test but just relax. I'm sure you have nothing to be worried about.

Is DDR a good way to exercise? lol thankss.

Any type of dancing or moving around is an exercise so yes. It's not as good as running or something, but it's a good exercise. :)

Hi,

uhm
i have zits, pimples they look like red small dots but it is not on my head..lol..Its on my cheast and on my beast..(how gross is that) maybe i get them cuz of the hot weather/ do u know anything i can use to make those pimples dissaper??

I hate them so much!
PLZ HELP

A lot of girls have it and it's completly normal. You can get it for a lot of different reasons. Like sweat, hair, dirt and make up. Just wash your face regularly and don't pop them. You will have more if you keep popping them. You can buy this body wash from Neutrogena acne wash and it works really good. They will go away though so don't worry too much.

I saw in a lot of the movies these days, I was just wondering...

If you have a sexual pleasure by using a vibrator, do you consider that as a virgin or no?

Also, do you have to have sex with a guy to lose your virginity?

Masturbating in any sort of way doesn't mean loosing your virginity unless a real penis goes up there.

Which hair straightener would be best out of the three:

Sedu.
Chi.
Coloriss [Sp?]

Price isn't a big deal, I`m just looking for quality.

Chi is really good & Sedu works really good also and it doesn't damage your hair that much.

i just started my period today :[
as some of yall know.
and i was wondering if anyone could give me tips.
it would mean alot to me.

There really aren't tips for periods but start of with pads. Change your tampon or pad every 3-4 huors. When you get cramps, take a warm bath, take Midol or Advil or just move around so they go away. You might get your period irregulary. Sometimes you will be late so don't worry about it much. You might feel bloated and cravings for certain foods. It's nothing scary though.

Are smoothies with strawberries and bananas and milk bad for you? I heard they were, but I dont get how they would be.

No. If you put sugar and other bad stuff then yes, but other than that, no.

Is it Pet Smart or Pets Mart?

Seriously that has been making me think all day and I can't find anywhere they tells.

Pets mart, and when you put it together you get petsmart.

14/f
idk if any other bfs and gfs do this, but me and my bf do this thing like sex w/ clothes on and we like move up and down, and i get this feeling like i cant feel my legs, is that normal?

It's dry sex. Sex with clothes on.

I think I might be pregnant.. I had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom..about 2 weeks ago..He was supposed to pull out in time and he claims he did.. but "down there" was wet like "his stuff" was all over it... as if he pulled out as going ...!
I know this was a STUPID thing.. to not use a condom and whatnot.. but its too late.. and i want to know if you guys think im pregnant!?
Im like paranoid now.. and feel dizzy all the time.. ! My periods not supposed to come for a while either.. so I dont know.. plus, its realllly irregular and I dont even know when to expect it!
HELP!!!

Just because you're feeling dizzy and such doesn't mean you're pregnant. Stress causes late and irregular periods, headaches, dizzyness. The best thing to do is to get a pregnacy test. Then you will know for sure. Just relax and try not to worry too much.

I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?

Since she doesn't want a long distance relationship, there is nothing you can do. Accept it and move on. Be friends. Talk but don't pressure her.

what is a good type of bronzer and a good brush to apply it?

If you want a less expensive bronzer, buy Cover Girl, Maybeline or Nutrogena. They work really good and they come with a small brush. I never use those though but here's a picture of a bronzer brush.

http://www.beautifullybaremineralcosmetics.com/bronzer%20brush%20Mauve%201.jpg

Well, you see, I'm really scared about IT. You know, the category. I mean, I don't know why?

It's normal to be scared but once you find that person you feel comftrable around, you won't be as scared. It's going to be special to you. When you're ready, you won't feel scared.

Which do you prefer, iPod or MP3 Players?

iPod. :)

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