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what do you say to people when they talk about weight and always say that youre skinny and how they want to lose weight?? its so annoying
and if these people are chubby or bigger? what do i say when they indirectly ask me if theyre fat or w/e???? (link)
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1) I used to go through this, and now my friend is going through it. Most of the time what I say, which I do mean, is that you don't want to be a stick figure and I wouldn't even mind gaining weight. I think it's better to be healthy, no matter what weight you are -- that's all that matters.
2) I usually say that they aren't fat, they're curvy and beautiful (which I also mean, I don't really believe in using the word "fat" in that way, I hate it), and more women should be that way instead of beanpoles.
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i really want to dye my hair brown. it's sort of a dirty blonde right now. i was just wondering if it would look good on a person with dark blue eyes, medium skin tone, medium/long hair with sidebangs, if you want a picture give me your email and ill send you one, i just don't want the whole site seeing it. thanks so much! (link)
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stevensbaby140@aol.com
The only reason I need to see a picture is because I think it'll help me more, to help you. More than likely, I think it'll look fine by your description, but I just want to be sure.
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I need help! This is about gifts for my boyfriend. I'm not quite sure what to do. I have a very low budget but I'm a very crafty/artsy person. I already made him a teddy bear with wings. But I want to buy him something cheap yet great as the months go on by it increases in value..
UI want something good for Christmas, then for his birthday in Feb and 10 days after that is our 1 year anniversary. I'm not sure what I should get for him since I have no job right now. Any ideas?
I want something very sweet & romantic for our 1 year. But i really don't know what.. I want to make a book and fill it up with things... but I don't know exactly what yet. (link)
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Here are some ideas you may find useful.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
Plus, a scrapbook of pictures of the two of you would be really cute too.
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ok well my 16th b-day is comming up thats right sweet 16. this is gonna be my first party. Im gonna have a small maybe 5-10 people come over. Problem is i dont know what to do when they get here there isnt gonna be much. there will prolly be snow on the ground, i have a hottub and music i can play and video games if things get lame
lol.
please give me ideas of things to do and THEMES!! need both expecially things to do please i dont wanna bore people to death. (link)
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This site should give you TONS of ideas, and you can always gets stuff to substitute the expensive stuff..unless you're rich, unlike me and can afford it, haha.
http://www.mysupersweet16.com/
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Hiya
I am a girl and i am 13 years old. My boyfriends the same age as me. My boyfriend never does anything around me..NEVER. Even when my and his friends ask him to he dosent. He hugged his last girlfriend alot and he kissed one of his girl mates a few weeks ago. Am I parinoyed (sp) or does he not like me?.We have been going out 5months no and we haven't done anything. I am happy to hug, hold hands ect but i dont want to force him. What Should I do? (link)
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Wait, he kissed one of his friends, who's a girl, when the two of you were together? That doesn't sound right. I believe there's definitely something wrong here, I recommend talking to your boyfriend and asking him what's going on. I don't think you're being paranoid, I think you're just being concerned, as I would or anyone else.
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What are the signs of pregnacy I need all of them because I might be pregnate (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://pregnancy.about.com/od/signssymptoms/
http://www.surebaby.com/
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What happened to the anime show Bleach? They didn't show it last Saturday, and I checked the tv guide listings for this Saturday, and I didn't see it, I just saw the anime show Deathnote. Did they change the time or something? I know they show some re-runs on weekdays, but they don't show the new episodes, unless I didn't know. They usually show the new episodes every Saturday at 11:00, on Adult Swim (channel 63) =\ :'[ (link)
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I see it on Adult Swim a lot, I heard they were taking it off temporarily for some reason or other. But they may have some updated info here... http://www.adultswim.com/shows/bleach/
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do you guys know any good movies i cann download thatll be good to watch on halloween?i want some really good horror movies that actually scare you cuz they never seem to scare me.i also woud luv it if you mentioned some funny ones^_^
thanks^_^ (link)
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*Halloween (And any of its sequels)
*Texas Chainsaw Massacre
*Psycho (And any of its sequels)
*The Frighteners
*Hellraiser
*Chilren of the Corn
*Disturbia
*Friday the 13th
*The Exorcist (And any of its sequels)
*Creepshow
*The Exorcism of Emily Rose
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Me and this girl are bset friends, i love her and she knows it, she goes out with this asshole who treats her like shit and tells me she only used him to get over her ex, she asks me what to do and i tell her that the question hurts me to much to answer, now we are not talking and i am crying constantly. She told me to wait for her to break up with her bf, i did and she rips my heart out and throws it in a blender by not telling me she didnt have feelings for me... plz help me i dont know what to do and i cant sleep....
Aim: gameshark7777 (link)
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I'm very sorry, I don't even think she deserves you, after what she's done to you. If you want my advice, I wouldn't try to date her or even be friends with her anymore, she completely betrayed you. I know it's hard, but maybe you should take some time and try to get over her and move on -- I've been there and I know it hurts (except mine being my best guy friend), but I think you'll honestly be better in the long run without her.
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there's this movie called "the blair witch project" and i have it and i watched it, but i don't understand it.
was it real? what happened to that guy that was missing, did they find him dead when that guy was staring in the corner and she was screaming?
Also, is there a blair witch project 2?
thanks! (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.blairwitch.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Blair_Witch_Project
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Does anyone know any stores that sells skinney jeans in Canada Ontario? Thanks (link)
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*Forever 21
*Macy's
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So for halloween
i want to be a simple princess with a tiara and a ballet tutu!
but i cant find tu-tu's anywhere!!
any help?
stores that sell tu-tus?
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*Wal-Mart
*K-Mart
*Kohl's
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I am a 15 girl.
I have this bigish bumps on my nipples
what is it?
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No worries, just about all of us get them. They're supposed to help you produce milk, if you get pregnant, I've heard.
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I was wondering if there was someway to tell if a person is sleeping...like if there was a way to maybe count their breaths they take per minute or something? I've been looking it up on google but no such luck.
thanks! (link)
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Sometimes people pretend to snore when they're trying to fake sleeping. Or they may continue to blink, or open their eyes a little bit.
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16/F I don't know how to go about it, but I want to be more outgoing. Once I'm labeled as the "shy one" I can't move past it. How can I become my lovable self and accept hugs and whatnot because I'm totally sick of being distant and shady. (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing-Outside-of-School
http://www.ehow.com/how_2090260_be-outgoing.html
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all right, my friend doesnt have an advicenators so she has to ask a question on mine...
ther this guy i like and he likes me back . but at school we've got to act like we hate each other!!!!. what should i do? (link)
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This should help you out, it isn't exactly the same concept, but it has useful information there.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
If the two of you like each other, you shouldn't have to hide it. If you do, my best guess is that one of you is ashamed of being seen with the other. And if that's it (forgive me if it isn't), then I don't believe you should be together.
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http://www.buycostumes.com/Category/0/Pr...
I got that costume for halloween. It looks good on me, i'm wearing black tights under the leg warmers and i'm wearing black flats with like a half a quarter inch heel. I tried to put a tank top under it but it ruins the whole look.
So I think i'm going to wear a cardgigan over it thats tight fitting. If this is a good idea should I wear a black or pink 1? Imagine the costume with the black tights. If I shouldnt wear a cardigan than what should I wear that will cover my up a little but not cover half of the dress? (link)
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Very cute costume!
I recommend a cardigan in black, or the pink would work if you want a splash of color. I like the black better though. And if you don't want to wear the cardigan, I suggest a cute shrug in black. Either one should look really cute with your costume.
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OK, my question is simple. is that song "crank dat soujla boy" really as dirty as the lyrics make it sound. especially with the superman thing. some people say everything is a dance move, yet at the same time they can all be taken as sexual. if it is, then i can't believe someone would actually write a song as trashy as that. (link)
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The lyrics are dirty, they have different versions, however, either way you look at it, some of it is dirty. I personally, like the song, but pay no attention to the meaning of the lyrics -- as most people don't. Some people find that a bad thing, but it doesn't bother me. Some it does, some it doesn't, but yes, the song is dirty.
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http://www.besttshirtblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/01/rock-for-aids-stone.jpg
Can anyone tell me where I can find a T-shirt like that (chances are its online). I want it, but the site doesn't have a link. (link)
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I've researched, but I can only find this one link. Sorry I couldn't find any others.
http://www.rockaids.com/
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Does anyone know of some sad easy classical songs?
Some examples are:
Prelude in E minor by Chopin
Moonlight Sonata by Beethoven
5th Movement by Beethoven (That was isn't really easy, but still.)
I don't know why but I enjoy playing songs in minor rather then major haha.
thank you so much! (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.classicalarchives.com/aspire/e.html
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