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Im Falling apart with my relationship
Me and this girl are bset friends, i love her and she knows it, she goes out with this asshole who treats her like shit and tells me she only used him to get over her ex, she asks me what to do and i tell her that the question hurts me to much to answer, now we are not talking and i am crying constantly. She told me to wait for her to break up with her bf, i did and she rips my heart out and throws it in a blender by not telling me she didnt have feelings for me... plz help me i dont know what to do and i cant sleep....
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I'm very sorry, I don't even think she deserves you, after what she's done to you. If you want my advice, I wouldn't try to date her or even be friends with her anymore, she completely betrayed you. I know it's hard, but maybe you should take some time and try to get over her and move on -- I've been there and I know it hurts (except mine being my best guy friend), but I think you'll honestly be better in the long run without her.
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From what I understand, the only thing I can think of is to tell her everything you just explained... Yeah, I know, might feel weird, but she couldn't've meant or wanted to hurt you if you're best friends, and she can't possibly be mad at you if you explain that everything about this mess hurts you because of her. She has to understand, there's no reason to be mad at you, and if anything, she should be glad she has you.
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Ok so i see you really like this girl but once you become best friends it will be really weird for you to date but it depends you can tell her how you feel and did she get mad at you for you saying that you can't answer and if so she wouldn't be a true friend and maybe the more you do for her she might notice that she feels the same way about you. Try it and tell me how it goes.
Good,Luck
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That is the worst thing a girl could do to someone.
I am sorry, I know you cannot help your feelings, but this girl is definitely not worth your time. Not only is she hurting you, but she is hurting this other guy who she is using to get over someone else. You don't want to be used either! You will never know what she actually feels if she is with you because she seems to be so fake and likes the attention.
I think you should for right now, stop contact with her. It could be the only way to actually get over her. Take her screename off your buddy list, her number out of your phone, the whole deal. I'm not saying be mean to her, you can still be nice to her. But I don't think you should consider her your "best friend" anymore. You seem like a really sweet guy for caring about her so much, but she doesn't seem worth it. You'll find someone eventually.
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