Question Posted Saturday October 27 2007, 12:58 am
Well she's 14 and she had sex with a 21 year old man 3 times with a condom and about 4 times w/o a condom and she wanted to know if she is going to be peragnate or not she's super scared and her mom will put her boyfriend in jail if she finds out I want to help her but I don't know anything about this kind of stuff at all I really need help and also a week after she had sex she started bleeding but she already had her period tho what's going on
I know it will be hard to tell her mom because yes, he will probably go to jail, but you need to be the smart one. This is like if a friend is going to kill herself, tell an adult!! You never know, this man could be planning a kidnapping or murder of your friend. I'm not trying to just plain scare you, I need you to see possibilites.
dancedance42 answered Saturday October 27 2007, 5:38 pm: i hope this is your friend and not you, because she made a huge mistake.
A. thats rape. its illegal, he SHOULD be in jail.
B. you can get your period in the earliest stages of pregnancy.
I agree with the person below me, tell her mom, and FAST. There is a good chance shes pregnant.
LagunaBabe answered Saturday October 27 2007, 3:57 pm: This guy should be put in jail, he's 21 and messing around with someone who's 14. I recomemend telling her parents, yes, she'll end up hating you probably for a long time, but look at what he's doing to her. He's taking complete advantage of her. And if she comes up pregnant, which is ALWAYS possible (which people fail to understand for some odd reason) if you have sex without or even with a condom. There is always going to be that chance. Plus, this guy could have diseases. Your friend needs to tell her parents, or you do, and she needs to get checked out to see if she really is pregnant and if she's got an diseases. Soon too, so that way if she does, they can try to catch it as early as possible. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
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