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I want to feel alive.
16/F I don't know how to go about it, but I want to be more outgoing. Once I'm labeled as the "shy one" I can't move past it. How can I become my lovable self and accept hugs and whatnot because I'm totally sick of being distant and shady.
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Dear alive,
I understand how hard it is to be thought of as shy. But thats easy to fix. One day get your hair done, and wear your best outfit to school. This will make people notice you. Then talk to EVERYONE. Say hi to people in the halls, sit with a new group at lunch, and join some clubs. Being involved really helps you meet people. Just be sure to have fun.
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omg i was shy as hell!!!omg id like go RED when a guyd be around me^_^okk well this is what you do...just say whatever is on ur mind nomatter WHAT the outcome is(but not something rearted like HEY YOUR FAT AS HELL EWW GET SOME SLIM FAST!)lool just say whatever you feel i know it may seem hard to come up with the courage to do so but if you dont start now you never will.Itll take time though,start off by socializing with different people.Dont call yourself shy all the time cuz man is what he calls himself.just say..ur ok..ur not shy yet not outgoing.Youll get over it by time TRUST me^_^
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Being labeled the shy one is fine, i don't see anything wrong with it.
I LOVE shy girls, but then again I'm pretty shy myself :S and once unleashed... :D
Well, the only advice I can give you is laughter.
You don't have to become a comedian, but try to use your sense of humor, if you don't really think you have one, try to work on it.
Suppose you could check a couple of stand up shows, and see what kind of humor you like and learn from comedians.
But use the humor mostly to diffuse a situation... like initially, otherwise you'll end up the "funny one", unless you wouldn't mind that.
Goodluck, and send me a email (I DO like timid women)!
Hoji
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