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do you think its weird. if you stay with your first boyfriend forever
b.c i think thats gonna happen to me
i dont mind. but is it likey to happen (link)
nah not weird, unlikely because high school relationships rarely work out in the end, but not weird. ive heard of it happening. two of my friends who were each otehrs first are currently engaged.


if a girl asks a guy to prom, does she pay for both tickets? does the boy traditionally pay, or does each person pay for their own? (link)
hmmm i would say no, but where i am, the typical style is to go dutch in general. sure i try to pay most of the time, but for dances it was typically each pays for their own. i wouldnt think the girl having to pay for both tickets would be expected, but if its not a finacial problem you might want to offer to remove the unceartainty. then again he might be thinking that he should pay for both tickets. anyway the most liekly case is that youll bothe nd up buying your own tickets


15 f~
K, so, my boyfriends parents were in the front seats of the car driving and me and my bf were in the back. He put his hand on my thigh, then he put his hand all the way down my crotch and pushed up he did a bunch of stuff for a very long time. When we would be in a store, he would stand behind me and press his body up against me. Today, back at school, he didn't do a single thing and he barely even kissed me. He does this kind of stuff every once in a while. He gives me a little and then he pulls away for a while. It drives me (and my body) insane! What should I do? (link)
You should take the initiative. he might not know how comfortable you are with all this stuff, or he might be teasing you. either way the solution is the same. you need to get up on him, most guys like girls who make the move


Hi my name is yousif and i need some advice.Ok here's the thing..i like one of my cousins who is also a twin..they are almost identical but i can know which is who and naturally i like one more than the other..this is probably my biggest crush so far(i hope you dont think its weird to like your cousin)..the problem is i donno if she likes me back..i see her once a week in my granpa's house(we go to different schools and have different friends)..and when we do see each other we r always in the same room with our relatives(including our parents)..i can tell she is the shy kind..sometimes i stare at her(i cant help it) and she knows it but she always looks away or to the floor..im not worried about other guys(especially strangers)because she rejects guys she dont know(im not saying shes a coquette)..u should probably know that we don’t know one another that well..anyway can u plzzz help me know if she likes me back without having to make a move or do something funny in front of my relatives..im running out of people to ask and im more desperate for an answer than ever..she just looks damn good even without makeup(couldnt help writing it)..thank u
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well ill assume this is a distant enough cousin for that not to be an issue. heres your problem, if you get rejected things are gonna be weird. both between you and her, and the rest of the family because they will find. or, if she does like you and you go out for a while, eventualy break up and back to things being really weird. to be honest, i dont think its worth it.


okay, i have a rather small mouth. i mean its not completely tiny but its not huge. so heres my concern, giving a boy oral sex. i'm afraid i wont ever be able to because of my small mouth. do you think that since i have a small mouth i could hurt he penis and like not be able to give oral sex. and how would i know before hand if i would hurt the penis. please help. thanks so much (link)
if your mouth is big enough for you to be able to eat solid foods, then it is big enough for oral sex. in fact the smaller the better. now dont feel like you have to fit the whole thing in your mouth, you dont. its probably better, but not neccessary. also, theres always the use of the throught. again dont feel like you have to do that, especially if it makes you gag, but that too is more pleasureable with a small mouth. so basically you have an advantage over someone with a (literal) big mouth.


does running a mile help keep you from having a kid? (link)
wtf? no


ok theres this mager hot guy in my class and were like best frineds though i love him what should i do? HELP pLEASE!


and should i make the first move? (link)
yeah you should, most guys like it when girls make the first move


what can i get to keep my discharge from getting sll over my underware

i know its a stupid ? but oh well (link)
isnt that what pads are for?


This has been bugging me, for quite some time. (I know that some doctors, and other people say that birth control will most likely kill the baby if you are already pregant.)
My question is this, are there any over-the-counter drugs, not related to abstinence or menstrual cycles, that will help you stop the pregnancy? (link)
as far as i know (quite a bit, but im no expert) there are no over the counter drugs that are both safe an effective. actualy, birth control isnt really that safe or effective at ending a pregnancy, especially if its been more than 5 days since conception. if not, your best bet is plan b. you can get it at planned parenthood, you might even qualify to get it for free. if it has been longer than five days then pretty much if you dont want the baby your only choice is an abortion. withing the first month or two its a relatively simple procedure. in any case, you will want to go to planned parenthood, it is confidential and they wont tell your parents if you dont want them to.


how do you put in the code for tha box (the box says message, add, block, ect.)? any help would be great! thx in advance =] (link)
goto fixmyspace.com they have all sorts of fun codes, including codes you can use to change the box.


so ive been seeng this guy for a little while now and i totally do wanna wait to have sex with him but sometimes i just get so tempted! my morals dont seem near as strong and my promise to myself that id at least wait till im 18 seems harder and harder to wanna keep. (btw im a virgin) so what i wanna know is does anyone regret there first time? like it wasnt special or they wish they waited? any tips or advice is truely appreciated. (link)
i sometimes regret my first time, not so much the person it was with, but where and how it happened. it happened when i was 17, and it wasnt as special as i would have hoped. my current girlfriend and i are waiting, not just because it would be her first time and she isnt ready, but because i want it to be more special than my first time as well. anyways only you can know if its the right time and the right person to do it with.


i was on myspace and my messages stopped working so i logged onto my bestfriends myspace to see if her messages worked. i clicked on a random message and saw that she had told my boyfriend that it was ok w/ her if he looked at her chest. and after i saw that i started crying and felt bad cause my bf asked wat was wrong and i couldnt tell him the truth. i wrote several short stories about how upset i was feeling on my xanga and my bf saw it and gave the link to 2 of my friends and they got really worried but i couldnt tell my friend y i had really gotten upset. should i still be upset at her even tho her bf said my chest was sexy? or should i just forget about it and let it go? (link)
ok the last part of your question confuses me a little... her bf said your chest was sexy? does she have a bf who said that to make you feel better? anyway it doesnt really matter, guys look at girls chests wether or not they have a girlfriend, what important is that they dont touch other girls chests. now he probably should be talking to her about it, but its possible she just caught him sneaking a peak and was mature about it and told him she doesnt mind. so the fact that he looked at anohter girtl doesnt mean he likes you any less, i wouldnt worry about it. also, you really shouldnt be logging into peoples myspaces and reading their messages without their permission, and i find it hard to believe that it was just a random message that just happened to be from your bf. back to your side, im not saying you dont have any right to be upset, but you shouldnt be too upset, just forget about it its not that big a deal


Hey, I need help quickly! I'm sick from school and I'm making cookies. Is 4 tablespoons of butter a cup? Thanks.

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4 Tablespoon [US] = 0.25 cup [US]

http://www.onlineconversion.com/volume.htm


Um i need to know how to pass a urinalysis test or if u call it a pee/piss test
how fast does ur body clean out if you drink 2 gallons of water? (link)
all information and tools you need are on

http://passyourdrugtest.com/


is there any type of excerisce that i can do, to make my breast look smaller. i wear a 36b wha can i do to make them look smaller, and i dnt have a bunch of money so plz dont tell me breast reduction. are there any pills or lotions or something that i can use, plz help asap (link)
well a sports bra pushes them down, but why do you want to make them look smaller? 36 b is the perfect size, and in a few years you are gonna be looking for ways to make them look bigger.


etopic pregnancy...? just curiuos i mean i kno its a dumb question but im just wondering... (link)
Main Entry: ectopic pregnancy
Function: noun
: gestation elsewhere than in the uterus (as in a fallopian tube or in the peritoneal cavity) called also ectopic gestation, extrauterine gestation, extrauterine pregnancy


hey since my school has a half day on friday of this week, and the movies is right down a couple of blocks, my mom is letting me go with my friends. im 15. she wanted to know who was going and i told her all of my friends (they are girls) and i didnt tell her i invited my bf and hes coming too. she said she doesnt want me going on a date alone w/ him because she thinks im too young to date and she doesnt trust him. how do i tell her that my boyfriend is coming too with out her saying something like "oh well he cant go"?
Thanks.
I rate 5s (link)
honestly, honesty is not your best bet. just dont tell her, and if she somehow finds out tell her it was a coincidence. chances are pretty good taht she wont say HE cant go, shell say YOU cant go if you tell her.


ok, well im 5'4" and 101-102 lbs. I'm so sick of people callign me anerexic and bulemic . I feel so low abou myself. I eat SO much and in my eyes, I'm average. What is the average weight for a 14 year old 8th gader whose 5'4"? Am I ok w/ the weight that i am, I mean I eat so much, dont' do sports, and like never exercise, I'm liek naturally fit. Shoudl I gain weight? (link)
according to http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/ your bmi is 17.3 anything less than 18.5 is underweight. 110 poinds puts you at a healthy weight.


what does it mean when during an entire duration of a conversation with a guy, he's staring straight at your lips and occasionally into your eyes? (link)
it means he wants to kiss you


do colleges take your weighted or unweighted GPA. (link)
weighted for most colleges from most high schools.




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