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going to the movies with my friends...and BF
hey since my school has a half day on friday of this week, and the movies is right down a couple of blocks, my mom is letting me go with my friends. im 15. she wanted to know who was going and i told her all of my friends (they are girls) and i didnt tell her i invited my bf and hes coming too. she said she doesnt want me going on a date alone w/ him because she thinks im too young to date and she doesnt trust him. how do i tell her that my boyfriend is coming too with out her saying something like "oh well he cant go"?
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this happened to me 2 weeks ago..
i just finally told my mom caz i didn't wanna do it and get caught.. and im glad i did it cause now my parents trust me more with him. if she has never met him then tell her about him. my mom let me cause even if shes never met him, she liked how he sounded and he wasn't "a punk ass kid who calls at 10 and doesnt say who it is". if your mom still doesnt give in, don't go with him, because if you get caught then that could ruin the trust with your mom and at least for me i wouldnt be able to go out at all. keep on talking to her about it.
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i think you should be honest (even if it means that she won't let you go)! think about it... she doesn't want you going on dates alone because she thinks you are too young and irresponsible! if you lie to her and she finds out, you will be proving her point, and she will begin to treat you even more like a little kid. by telling her the truth you will be showing her that you can be responsible and honest, and that will help build her trust over time. anyway, just tell her that a couple of girls are going (maybe even give her names) and then tell her that your bf is coming and he MIGHT bring one friend. this makes it sound more like a couple of people getting together to hang out, and not a date. plus, maybe she will feel better if your bf DOES bring a friend, because that way she will know that all his focus won't be just on you, but it will be shared between you and his friend! hope that helps!
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Well you said that you're going with a group of friends, and you said that your mom wouldn't mind if you went with a group of friends. You can also say that your bf is someone elses bf. Or lie and say he's a friend.
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You're mainly going with a group of girlfriends, so I wouldn't say anything. If you feel you have to, or she finds out, say that he was there with a group of guy friends. I don't think you're really doing anything sneaky, as long as you really keep it a group fun thing.
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if you tell your mom then she probably will tell you he cant go. so if she finds out just be like "oh i seen him there with his friends and they asked if we wanted to sit with them.i didnt want to be mean and say no." im not saying you should start lying to your mom..im just saying that if she hasnt asked you, then you dont have to tell her. thats not lying cause she never actually asked you. =p
hope i helped ya.
brittney =)
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honestly, honesty is not your best bet. just dont tell her, and if she somehow finds out tell her it was a coincidence. chances are pretty good taht she wont say HE cant go, shell say YOU cant go if you tell her.
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