mrs_radcliffe's advice column

hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?

thanks,
rob

Mabe, you should get a pregnance test to see if she pregant but girls miss periods all the time
some even longer than 5 days
roxie
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ok, i'm not ugly, but i'm not exactly beautiful. does anyone know if there's a way to make me look and FEEL prettier? and by "pretty" i dont mean "slutty"

Just wear different type of clothes and feel more comfortable in your own skin if you like make up wear it but not to bright colours

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i was a week late on period, i took several pregancy test that came back negative. the last one i took came back positivebut the next day i started bleeding, is there a chance that i am or was the test possibly wrong?

Go to the doctors in private but you probley just late i was late for a week and i wasnt pregnant

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Is it okay if you have little hairs on your boobs? I think its sort of gross and I'm not about to shave my boobs but does everyone have it or am I the unfortunate one?

No dont worry about it

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My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?

Why dont you talk to her about it and explain that you dont mind her making new friend but you miss spending time with her and your will to stay with her

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I was invited to a black tie event for the first time my escort is wearing black and white so what should i wear im 5'5 132 pounds should i go with a short dress or long one please help.

Short and wear a gold necklace you will look very pretty
roxie
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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?!

Well if you want to go ahead if you dont tell her you dont and its going to far

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ok here is the thing. i lost like 10 pounds and now i have alot of extra skin on my elbow-neck-and hand well how do i get rid of that?
thanks

Try doing some exercise that are based on arms
and neck
roxie
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my dog bites alot, we can not stop him. sometimes he is good somtimes he is bad. how do i cure his problem?

Get your dog trained and he should stop biting
roxie

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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!!

Leave her and make some new friends then she will see what shes missing out on you shouldnt let her push you around and be mean to you stand your ground and go around with some other friends
roxie
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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

Why not one week stay with your dad and the week after stay with your mum so then there not both alone
and that they have you to care for them
roxie
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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?

Its your chooce do what you feel right because under your arms is not so noticable if you havent got them showing and the same with your legs but if you wear short skirts mabe you should shave it doesnt take that long and it will be you feel a whole lot better just dont cut yourself
and you could always wax
but thats painful well hope all goes well
roxie
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Okay, two of my best friendsare really good friends between themselves too, but they fight ALOT!! i try to just sit them down and talk to them, and sometimes i'm the go-between, but right now im caught in the middle. Like, at lunch today, they were in the middle of a fight, and not even sitting at the same table, and both wanted me to sit with them, but i didn't wanna choose a side, so i sat with some of my other friends, and they both got mad at me for that!! What can i do? they wont even listen to me!!

Sit them both down and talk about it, Them tell them about dinner and how you wanted to sit with them both but if you sat with one of them you would upset the other so you sat someware different
roxie
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I have a friend who is SO not over her ex but really pretends to be. They both really like each other and flirt all the time and they still act like they are going out. What should she do, or what should I tell her to do???

Ask her to ask him out again it obiovous that they still like each other
help them out
roxie
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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..

Theres nothing wrong with been a bi, You cant change your self its your chose
roxie
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I have really really wavy hair and I was wondering how to straighten it and keep it straight for the day without drying it out or causing it to break or start dandriff. Any suggestions?

Use ghds there ment to be really good and use hair cream and wax

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this guy likes me, hes nice, but i dont like him and he thinks i do? how do i give him a hint?

Let him down gentally and tell him your not ready to go out with anyone and that hes not your type
roxie
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I have dark hair on my arms and I wanna bleach it. Do I sue regualr bleach like the stuff for clothes or what?

NO! dont that will burn your skin really bad idea go to a doctor or ask your family or some one you trust
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What is the process of getting a wax down there? From the point you go in from the point you walk out. What do the people do? Or do you do it? How does it work? hurt?

they put waxing strips on and it will hurt alot
you will be in a lot of pain
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