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Okay, two of my best friendsare really good friends between themselves too, but they fight ALOT!! i try to just sit them down and talk to them, and sometimes i'm the go-between, but right now im caught in the middle. Like, at lunch today, they were in the middle of a fight, and not even sitting at the same table, and both wanted me to sit with them, but i didn't wanna choose a side, so i sat with some of my other friends, and they both got mad at me for that!! What can i do? they wont even listen to me!!
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Tell them that you hate what they're doing, and you won't be putting up with it (nicely). You don't need to put up with them, or choose sides. They should at least not fight while you're around. If it gets too out of hand, spend time with other people until they stop.
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Yes, I know what your talking about!!! Dont get in the middle of it!! Just let them work it out.. If your like how my friend can be somtimes they will be with me and start talking about eachother! The best thing to do is if they do that is to just tell them to stop.
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Sit them both down and talk about it, Them tell them about dinner and how you wanted to sit with them both but if you sat with one of them you would upset the other so you sat someware different
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try to tell them that you like both of them as friends... and you dont want to lose either. Good job not choosing a table.. that was the best thing to do. any time that they are mad at eachother, you should do that. if they wont even give you a chance to say that, then you could try writing it in a note. if they still wont even try to understand.. maybe neither of them are good friend material, and you should hang out with some other people until they stop fighting.. and then join the friendship again. hope i helped <3
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Sitting with someone else was the best choice you could make. Talk to both of them, that's really all you can do. If they are immature enough to where they won't hear you out, then they aren't very good friends, are they?
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You did the right thing by not sitting with either of them. Talk to them, and if that doesn't work, just tell them you're sick of them fighting, and wont talk to either of them untill they make up, and just hang w/ your other friends untill they do. If that doesn't work, write a note to each of them pretending to be the other person, and "apologize" lol, that might be a little harsh, especially if they find out, but then you can explain it to them. hope i could help!
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There isn't much you can do. You can go up to each person and say..."You two are in a fued and I know that you want me to side with you but I can't. I can't choose sides and I will not chose sides. YOu need to work this out for your self and learn to get along. Whether you like it or not, this is not my problem. I'm sorry." I've said that to my friends a lot and it normally ALWAYS works. Hope I helped! Let things roll.
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u have to have tell each girl indivually to meet in a place like the girls bathroom or something?! and when they both get there you have to say something like... i dont wanna fight any more we've always been friends and i want it to stay that way. and just say im sorry if i did anything to hurt or turn you guyz off. and just say what youre really feeling. they will prob. understand what your saying and appoligize to. hope this helps :)- good luck- amanda1291
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My advice on this is..get out of this fuss as quickly as possible! I know you wanna be the peacemaker of them two..but its not worth losing two good friends. Just stay out of it..and wen one of them wonders why you're not choosing sides and not getting into this..then hopefully theyll stop this dumb fuss.
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