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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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OK so I've shaved down 'there' for a couple of months. I still have those red bumps. Is that normal? I know usually you get it in the beginning...but does it continue to do that? Why does that happen?
It's probably because you're getting razor burn; this happens to a lot of people, so don't think this is only happening to you, because it isn't.
When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)
Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥
okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
You don't sound like you're obsessed with him, you're just seriously crushing on this guy and there's nothing wrong with that. You can't help what you're feeling, nor can you make it go away, just like that. You can only get to know him better and see if this feeling for him leads you into a relationship.
Since you're shy, that might stand in your way just a little bit. However, I do have a great site that make let you come out of your shyness. I highly suggest looking at this website; http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/Tips.HTM I'm pretty sure it'll help you out, a lot. It's not going to work, just like that. But since you're not able to see him for 2 week, you should be able to work on this. Then when you're do see him, you'll be comfortable around him and will be able to talk, without being shy.
About the problem of only being able to see him for 2hours a day, change that. Once you read that website, maybe you'll get some ideas from it. Then you'll be able to go up to this boy and actually have a conversation with him. You just have to get a little confidant in yourself and believe you can get this boy. If you put your mind to it, you'll be able to do it. Be confidant. Be out spoken. Be out going. Be friendly. (This will shine through when you're talking to him.) Most importantly, be yourself. If you aren't yourself, he'll never know the 'real' you. ♥
For english we have to get verses from songs from other people and try to figure out what we think the song is trying to say. So could anyone who wants to send me their favorite verse from their favorite song? Or just your favorite verse from any song you like? Thanks so much. I need them by tonight.♥
Here is my favorite verse from my favorite song, as of right now.
- - "Some say love is not for sinners
I believe that isn't true
Cause when I was finished sinning
Love came down and showed me you
And you told me how to get there
So I tried to find a way
Then I ran into your garden
But I tripped out the gate." ♥
Hey Guys. This Question Isn't Gonna Be Long, But I Really want a boyfriend. I havent like went out with anyone in like 4 years. Yea I know..Loner. But No one (guys) likes me. I'm Ugly, Fat. You Name it. Everything About me is messed up. Whats wrong with me Guys?
Nothing is wrong with you, nothing at all. Guys are low when it comes to looks. MOST of them want that "perfect" girl; the one that is skinny and doesn't have anything wrong with her. I guess you could say you haven't met a decent guy, yet. (Yes, they are out there.) You just have to give it some time. There's a guy out there for you, one that will treat you right and will love you for who you are, not what you look like. Just keep looking for him, he'll come. Hangout with your friends, go out, meet new people.
Also, don't think of yourself that way. You're beautiful inside AND out. You should never be putting yourself down like that, ever. Let your personality shine through, it'll always win over anything else. Let people know you're happy with yourself and you're happy with what you look like. Be confident. Be out spoken. Be out going. Be friendly. Once people see that you're happy with yourself and you are confident, people will start coming to you. They will realize what a great person you are and it doesn't matter about the outside, it's the inside that means the most. ♥
He's my favorite singer and I have three of his albums. He only has 4 altogether, right?
Yes, you're right. ♥
when people say word what are they replacing ? what does it mean ? yes I know im kind of slow when it comes to these. I'll rate
It's when you agree with something. Instead of saying "yes", you say "word". ♥
i was at my freinds house at a sleepover, and my freind confessed that she prefers girls body's to boys. i started remembering the many times i changed in the same room with her ect. i completely blanked out and was speechless. she reasured the 5 of us that she would never hit on us. i have to see her in school tommorow. what should i do/say? i am 13 f
Your friend isn't going to come up to you and just start hitting on you, just like that. People aren't like that, especially if they know you're not gay.
Don't act any differently around her then you usually do. You're still her friend and just because she's a lesbain, doesn't mean you have to be scared around her. Just stick to being normal. I'm sure she needs some support with all this. It's hard to actually tell someone you're gay. So just be her friend and be there for her. ♥
Ive been going with this guy. Its been on and off every week or so. And a little later we always go out again. I always end up crying. Hes so overprotected i hate it. He controls me. But hes so sweet. I love him so much. We recently had an arguement about 'flirting'. We broke up. I ended up crying again. If i were giving myself advice i would say get over him, i admit it. But i cant. I try, but everytime he asks for a second chance i say yes. I cant get enough of him. Love is hell. I dont know what to do anymore. What do i do?? Im crying and miserable. I would kill myself right now =( please dont be mean or tell me to get over him because i just cant =( i wish i could but no matter what i always end up getting back together with him. If you tell me to forget about him i wont rate you high Sorry but ive tried everyway to get over him. If you say it tell me how :S Anything else would be great like what to say to him =( Im really sad right now What do i do? PLEASE HELP, Im desperate ='(
I seriously know how you feel right now. When I was in grade 8, me and this guy were going out, on and off again until the end of grade 10. He sounds like your boyfriend that you have now. He was controling, but then he'd be so sweet to me and I'd forget about everything he did to me. He must have cheated on me 100 times, but that didn't matter. Everytime he asked me back out, I had to say yes. It's like he pulled me in and I just kept getting hurt over and over. The sad thing about that was, I was doing it to myself. It wasn't him hurting me anymore, it was me hurting myself because I kept taking him back. That's what you're doing right now, hurting yourself.
I know you didn't want me to tell you this, but you have to get over this boy. You're just hurting yourself and if you stay with him, you're just going to be heart broken. I know it's hard to get over a guy, especially when you love him. But just think of all the shit he put you through and all the bullshit you put up with because of him. I suggest making a pros (all the good things about him) and cons (all the bad things about him). This might help you out a bit. I can see just by how you talk about him, you're going to have more things that are bad about him, then the ones that are good. This might change your mind on things and it'll probably help out with your anger a bit.
It's going to be awhile before you actually get over him. But I know if you set your mind to it and you give it some time, you'll forget about him. Just think about it this way, there's guys out there who would love to treat you like the amazing person you are. This guy doesn't know what he has, so he has no right to treat you like shit. Find a guy that respects you and loves you for who you are. You should never let a guy walk over you like this, ever. You gotta go through some wrong ones, before you find the right one. ♥
I bought my boyfriend of two months, an Ecko tshirt, an earring, & a 10 dollar gift card @ Barnes and Nobles. I didn't want to go overboard since we've literally only known each other 2 months, but do you think that seems like enough?
Thanks.
Yeah, I think that's enough, since you guys only been together for 2 months. I'm sure he'll love everything you got him, and he'll be more then happy. ♥
Okay, I need your opinion. I'm writing a song and I need a title first according to my vocalist. Please pick your fave out of the choices below:
a) Hollywood Heartbreak
b) Generation Change (sounds 70's right?)
c) Beautiful Heartbreak
d) Broken change/ promise
(On d, change or promise? if you chose d.)
Any other suggestions on titles? Or anything else about songwriting in general? I'll rate high.
I like the song title "Beautiful Heartbreak".
For D, I think "Broken Promise" would be a better title. :) ♥
What are some really good songs?
Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Mindless Self Indulgence - Straight To Video.
Sean Paul - Never Gonna Be THe Same.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Fall Out Boy - Dance, Dance.
Eminem & Nate Dawg - Shake That.
Coldplay - Talk.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
I hope you enjoy these songs as much as I do. ♥
ill give 5's for this!
who sings this song:
im lookin for attention
not another question
a girl sings this song and thats all i know about it so ya. thanks
The song is called "Walk Away" and it is by Kelly Clarkson. ♥
Hey Guys!!
Can you give me some songs about **LOVE yea i want stuff bout like how my boyfriend is good and how i feel about him.. I wouldn`t like any mariah carey or anyting new please.. nothin about breaking up either.. Thanks
Lifehouse - Hanging By A Moment.
Starting Line - Last Impressions.
Areosmith - Angel.
Goo Goo Dolls - Iris.
Keith Urban - Making Memories Of Us.
The Afters - Beautiful Love.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Young Rome & Marques Houston - For Your Love.
Rascal Flatts - God Bless The Broken Road.
Josh Kelley - Home To Me.
Death Cab For Cutie - Passengers Seat.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwithu.
Lifehouse - You And Me.
Shawn Desman - Butterflies.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
Howie Day - Collide.
Chingy & Janet Jackson - Don't Worry.
I hope you enjoy these songs. They're pretty lovely-dovey. ♥
How can I improve my adult life? I am a handman.
I don't really understand what you mean by this? Sorry. ♥
i wish i had a penis.
That's very interesting. ♥
I LOVE music but i need something new to listen to what are some good bands??
i like mostly rock and altenative music.
5's for anything.
Atreyu.
Taking Back Sunday.
The Ataris.
Brand New.
From Autumn To Ashes.
Saosin.
Death Cab For Cutie.
Evergreen Terrace.
Underoath.
Silverstein.
Mae.
Daphne Loves Derby.
Armor For Sleep.
The Cure.
Mindless Self Indulgence.
Hawthorne Heights.
Scary Kids Scaring Kids.
Eighteen Visions.
Dashboard Confessional.
The Killers.
As I Lay Dying.
Throwdown.
It Dies Today.
Winter Solstice.
The Postal Service.
Rilo Kiley.
The Juliana Theory.
Matchbook Romance.
Senses Fail.
The Faint.
Spitalfield.
The Western Front.
The Appleseed Cast.
The Hurt Process.
I Killed The Prom Queen.
Hot Hot Heat.
Bedlight For Blue Eyes.
Brown Eyed Deception.
Fordirelifesake.
Straylight Run.
The Used.
Coldplay.
Sevendust.
Pearl Jam.
Candlebox.
Shinedown.
Thornley.
Finch.
Live.
Dope.
Everlast.
The Dandy Warhols.
Hope you find something you like. ♥
How do you change your display name?
When you log into MySpace, go to your homepage. Here you'll see your picture and beside it will be some things to click on. Click on "Edit My Profile". Once you're there, go to "Name", then click on "Edit" and change your display name where it says "Display Name." ♥
when you put ur face under warm water, will it make my face smoother or what?
If you put your face under warm water it'll help open up your pores.
To actually make your face smoother, just apply cream or lotion. Or wash your face daily with soap and water. ♥
whats the difference between fraternity and sorority?
"Sorority" is for girls, and "Fraternity" is for guys. ♥
i see my picture BIG but someone said my picture was TINY. can anyone help & tell me what they see?? juss answer this & ill give my column.
thanks!!
There could be something wrong with the file size, I don't know. It could also be the person's computer settings. Maybe they have everything on big, so the picture is huge. ♥