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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]
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can i download movies on limewire? like full movies so i can watch it ? if not, what are some places to watch movies for free?
yeah you can, i downloaded some great movies there. have fun watching them!
how do you style side-swept bangs? like would you straighten them, or what. i don't have them, but i want them. and would it look bad if you didn't style them?
I don't have them and never have but you most likely have to blow dry them out and straighten them w/ a straightener. Good Luck!
hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks
If your in love and you want her to be your first then go for it. Just remember to be safe. Have fun with that!
my column was great..like, it had marquee of pictures and colors and all the codes and today i went online to look at it and it was all messed up. only words were there and none of the codes and none of my pictures showed up. i went to my profile settings to see if everything was there, and it was exactly the same. i tried copying everything in there and then deleting it and then going back and putting it in there but it didnt work! does anyone know whats wrong? is it happening to other people too? and if its just me, how can i notify the site to see if somethings up? i will rate 5 if i have an honest answer for all of my questions! thanks!!
That hasn't happened to me because I don't even know the codes and all that lol. But I would suggest going to 'Contacting Advicenators' or something like that. I know I didn't answer all your questions but good luck! Tell me what happens!
I dont really know what category this goes as so I guess I will put it under "spirituality".
I'm getting older, and I dont want to turn into those kind of brats who think their parents are nitties, and are trying to ruin their fun and that they dont understand them. I really dont. Though I just dont understand why they dont understand sometimes. I try to be good, but being the middle child is tough. I have a older sister, that can be a good friend and sometimes annoying, and a younger brother, that is 13 years younger than me. I dont know if Im jelous of him getting all the attention, but Im sick of being misunderstood and, well.. the middle child! I try not to act like Im upset, even though I am, by trying to be optimistic, but I am just upset about things I dont even know, and I try to act normal for others benefit. Sympathy bothers me, kind of. Also, if Im told to do something, and I was about to do it without being told, it just makes me not want to do it anymore. Sometimes I still wonder who I am, and I just dont know how to express it into words here. I always have fantasies of things that would by far come true, some involving magic (which I believe in) By the way, I dont take drugs, or smoke, etc. Also sometimes I get extremely.. well I cant think of a word for it. Cautious? Like when I turn off the light, I get scared and make sure that the light is turned off all the way, because I fear fires. And so on. I dont mean to blab, but, I just dont know. I SO do NOT want to be a pessimistic, and a depressed person, that gets so depressed that they kill themselves with a needle or something (which I think is extremely nasty and not worth it) and I will try to see the cup half full.
Er, Im not sure how you are supposed to answer this, since its not exactly some sort of question, but if you have any advice that may help me, then please, please, type away! :D
I know how you feel exactly, Im the middle child and my little brother is 10 years younger and he gets almost all the attention and Im JUST the built in babysitter. And I have my older brother who most of the time is a cool person to hang out with but sometimes he can be REALLY annoying and I wish I wasn't his sister. It is just part of being a teenager.
Parents arn't perfect and niether are you. No one is. So sometimes your parents are gonna get on your nerves and your gonna feel like they don't even know you anymore. And vica verca for you parents towards you. Once you are older you will get along with your parents and they will understand you better, (once you are past these teenage years.)
Its good that you are trying to be optimistic because some kids get frustrated and mad when this type of stuff happens and it makes it worse and that is how they end up on drugs.
I hope I helped you out! and just remember that it is all part of being a teenager and that it will pass up sooner or later. Good Luck with everything!
Okay..have any of you Advicenators actually bought anything from the "Advicenators line of Misc. Crap?" Juuuust wonderin!
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No I havn't, I didn't even know they had a store or whatever it is lol.
My friend that I have known for four years has a cousin who likes me and I kind of like him the only problem is my friend has just told me that he likes me. What should I do I don't want to come between them?
Okay, you have 3 choices...
1. Go out with the person you like more.
2. Go out with your friend because you will most likely see him more then his cousin and become closer.
3. Go out with his cousin, but you most likely see your friend a lot because its his cousin so that might not be such a good idea.
Its up to you just think about if this was happening to your friend and you were gonna give her advice then take your own advice. Good Luck!
what does HTML mean
how do i use it
when should i use it
ill rate 5s to good answers
It means 'HyperText Mark Up Language'. Its a code that you use for maybe layouts, music videos, cursors, etc. Just copy the code and paste it in your website or wherever you are using it. Good Luck!
has anyone tried the veet rasera bladeless kit? does it really work? is it worth it? thanks
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I don't think it is worth it because, first off it smells really gross when you use it. Second, whats the point, its the same thing as NAIR with a towel but bladeless razor. Third, it takes way more time then just a regular razor. Its up to you but I think you should stick to regular shaving.
Hey Everyone!! Well ever since I can remember I've always biten my nails, its a really bad habit. Usually I bite them when I'm nervous about something or when im pondering a serious question. I really need to stop because my hands look like they don't have nails left on them anymore. My ? is How do I stop biting my nails and what can I do to prevent starting up again?? Thanks for your help in advance!
There is this nail polish sorta stuff, and you put it on your nails and on the tips of your fingers. Its clear so you can't see it. It has a nasty taste so everytime you try to bite your nails you get the taste and stop. Im not sure what it is called cause I used it a while ago but you can find it in your local drug store. Good Luck!
my friends house is realy dirty > and ii hate going over her house ... there are alays bugs and dust and just dirt all over ... i hate it but ii dont know what to do should i tell her or wat should i do ... like we always have sleep overs at her house and go over but i realy dont want to go over there but she is one of my good friends ... so PLEASE HELP ME !! i dont know what to do >o and should i tell her about ? help please ! thankx always .::* marie [ 14 female ]
You I have a couple ideas to help you out.
1. Just suggest having sleepovers at your house or another friends, and if they ask why just say well they have a pool. or something else that the girl with the dirty house doesn't have.
2. Jokingly tell her that her house is gross. Be like 'Ew dust, haha jk. sorry I'm such a neat freak i can't help it. then be like i need it to be perfect and clean it for her.' (just and idea, not calling you a neatfreak.)
3. Just plain out tell her.
4. Don't go to her house anymore and make up and excuse.
Well I hope one of these ideas sounds good to you just drop one in my inbox if you need more. Good Luck!
hey im a 14 year old girl and im redecorating my room and i want it to be fun and cool my favorit colors are hot pink and blue im open to any fun colors thx
Try making the room hott pink and orange and all those bright colors. Those two are really cute together and I got this site that has a bunch of ideas.
http://www.bhg.com/bhg/category.jhtml?categoryid=/templatedata/bhg/category/data/Decorating_Rooms_Bedrooms.xml
Good Luck!
Hi i need to teach a dog not to dig. Does anyone here have any suggestions? Please help. I rate 5's 4 good answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Buy your dog their favorite treat. Then when they don't dig say good dog and pet him and give him the treats. But if he starts digging then yell and say bad dog. Sorry if your dog is a girl, i didn't know.
ok, my mom said no i couldnt go to the movies but i really really need to go. I mean, i haven't seen my boyfriend since the 22 of June. I really need to go to the movies to do SOMETHING with him. But my mom wont drive me, so i want somehow to get to the movies and back and then i want to get money to pay. I only need like 5.50. But i need to go at 7:20 (Eastern Time) Tonight! Please help!!!
Okay, this might just be me but my boyfriend offers to drive me there and home and pay for me. Try asking him if he could at least pay for you if you got a ride. Just ask a friend for a ride if he won't.
me and my boyfriend are going to be going out for 1 year tommorw is there anything i can do thats supersweet?
Plan a romantic night, unless he remembered he might've planned something already. Just buy him something that is romantic/sweet that you know he will like and most likely he planned a special night for you two.
this year i was in 9th grade and i had to go to summer school because of my grades what suggestions do u have to keep my grades up for next year so this wont happen?
The student
Well yeah you have to keep your grades grades up to not have to do summer school again. Just pay attention in class, take notes, study at night, do your homework right when you get home and dont stall, just do whatever you can to keep your grades up so you won't have to go back.
my boyfriend and i have been dating for long than a month and couple weeks and he hasnt even kissed me yet. i kissed him once on the cheek but that doesnt matter. what is he doing????
He is probably just shy and scared. So try making the first move.
Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something.
They wouldn't kick you out of the house for something like that. Just send them an email or write them a letter. It would be much easier then saying it to their faces. Believe me, if they love you, they will accept you. 99.9% parents would accept their kids for being lesbian/gay. Good Luck!
I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.
There is nothing wrong with that. You just relate to boys better. So maybe your a tomboy or something? Well there is nothing wrong with that.
how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks
Cause they are horny and think it turns you on. Just tell him if you don't like it, but if it doesn't bother you, don't worry about it just play along. Good Luck!