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I'm here to help, and I'll be as honest as possible. I hope I can help give any advice in any way, and I wish the best to everyone I respond to. Thanks!

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About 8 or 9 months ago, I revealed to a boy that I really like him...he said he didn't want to do anything to put our friendship at risk, so we didn't start a relationship...however, we eventually became intimate with eachother from time to time, (not the kind where I would lose my virginity, but still pretty intimate) so it's sort of evolved into a "friendship with bennefits" thing...I am still very much in love with this boy, and the more time I spend with him (intimate or not) I grow to love him even more. I'm not sure exactly how he feels about me, but I desperately want to move forward with him. I'm not sure what to do...

talk to him
tell him what your telling all of us
sit him down and say
how the friends with benefits
is just making you more in love with him
and that maybe it can evolve into a relationship
believe it or not my ex. and i are really
close friends even tho we were together
everyone needs a little risk their lives

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Okey doke so I got a major sunburn on my whole face on saturday, and now it's peeling like crazy on my nose and forehead and it's really noticeable. And tomorrow is school picture day. Any ideas on how to stop the peeling, or at least make it better? And how to make it stop peeling quickly? Thankssss.

aloe =]

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I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
kthanks

tell your mom
but that was stupid
you shouldnt have even had sex
i mean, your only 13
but tell her
cause shes gonna find out eventually

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I am in love with this guy. And he feels the same toward me. However, he is better than me in every way. He's smarter, better-looking, and so on. This makes me feel inferior and insecure. I feel I'm not worthy of his love. I feel extremely small when I'm with him. I wish I could be as intelligent as him in order to be more worthy of his love. I hate myself. I hate my shortcomings. My biggest fear is that he would abandon me because of the fact I'm not as great as him. As a genius, he has every reason to despise me. He outshines me in every area. Whenever I detect a tiny sign that he might ignore/hate me, I feel like dying. Because of these, I'm not myself when I'm with this guy. I care TOO much about how he thinks of me. I appear very nervous, hypersensitive, and stupid. And this makes things worse. I am over-conscious about every word I say to him. I fear something I say would sound silly according to him and that he would despise me. I feel I'm just a silly little girl in his eyes. I know in fact he loves me. But I can never enjoy his love because of my feeling of inadequacy. I feel I need to be a much, much better person to deserve his love. I always try to be smarter so as to be "equal" to him, yet only end up making a fool of myself. This drives me crazy. What can I do now?

dont stress yourself
the guy likes you for who you are
i dont think you acted this way when
he first started liking you
that just proves that he likes you
for you
and you dont have to be
anybody but yourself
because if you act all different
he might stop liking you
because your not the same girl
he liked before

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Can anyone reccomend some GOOD, waterproof eyeliner, that actually stays on for more than 2 hours?

i use NYC
its really easy to use
and it doesnt come off easy
you can buy it at CVS
its only like... 4 bucks
and trust me
you'll love it =]
hope i helped

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Whenever I try to make curls (like ringlet curls) with my curling iron, it just curls the edges a little instead of what i want it to look like. i want it to look kind of like a spring if thatmakes sense. and don't tell me to get a different curling iron because it's the only one i have (and it's about an inch wide). is there a specific way to make your hair look like this?

thank you!

try putting gel in and then doing it

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Whenever I go shopping I'd first plan what I wanna buy. But the thing is, when I've happily picked out the thing that I want, my friends will say, "that's not nice, you should try this one" and then they'll take out some old looking mature tops/bottoms for me to try. And OK, I'll take both my choice and their choice into the fitting room.

After trying my clothes on, I'd feel that what I'd picked looks much better on me but I don't know why do I always end up buying what they tell me to buy. That's cos at that point in time maybe I got brainwashed by what my friends said. And its only after I get home and I try it on again that I regret not buying what i had picked out for myself. This is seriously wasting my money!

This always happens and I HATE IT!! I'd always tell myself - next time don't do it again- but I just KEEP DOING IT AGAIN!! ARGH!! someone pls help me !

try shopping with different ppl.
or you can ask them not to tell you their opinion.
or just to make everything easier ,
go by yourself
you can still have fun =]
hope i helpedd

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well me and my friend

we arnt sure if we are going out anymore
well his name is eric
and he isnt a virgin but i am and i feel like i am ready to you know...with him
but i am 14 and i dont know i like him a lot an u know he os cool but i think whenever i am with him all we do is kiss or makeout we dont ever get to talk only on the phone and myspace. buti am gonna go see him on sunday and i think that is when we are gonna do it help me an I making the right decision?!?!

yes your making a bad decision !
you could ruin your whole entire life
one, your 14
two, you barely no the guy
three, you dont no if your even going out
four, your asking on an advice column if you should or shouldnt do it
and five, because you should really love the person
and when i say love i mean
you feel like you can spend the rest of your life with him

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Okay..lets say I'm weird.. I like practically every guy..well okay, not really..but when i do.. once i get them to like me.. i dont like them anymore.. ):..and i feel really bad. but then once i tell them..then i want them back...
ahhhhhh idk what to do! haha. There is this one boy..who moved away thats coming back..that I love. And I really don't want to do that to him..And I know I won't..but I'm still afraid.. But being in a relationship is not suppose to please me.. Aren't we suppose to be in it because we love them? and we want to help them out? So my crazyness shouldnt matter, right? ahh.. any advice?

dont worry about what you've done
if you truly love this guy,
you wont hurt him
hope i helped

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Background information:
My age: 13/f
My boyfriend's age: 13/m
His mother's age: 32/f

Yesterday I found out that my boyfriend'd mom got pregnant around christmas but lost the baby in march-may. This came as a complete shock to me because she'd never seem like the kind of woman that would try again after 2 children (little brother is 10). She is going through a really hard time and so is my boyfriend. I tried to be supportive but I can't help feeling horrible. I feel horrible because I think it was a stupid idea that she tried again. My boyfriend says that they are trying again, and that he will have a baby brother or sister by July. Again I got mad because miscarriges run very deep in his family. I just have a bad feeling that this is going to end badly. I don't think their family can take another blow. He's basically bouning off the walls with joy because he's getting a new baby. I, on the other hand have a deep hollow feeling in my gut. I can't talk to his mom because I'm not supposed to know. I'm so sad, mad, and confused. huh. I need help.
Love Kateri.

dont worry about it
they most likely no that they might not have a baby
but they are determined
i would just relax and give them their space
if they end up not having a baby,
confort your bf
but just wish for the best

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okay soo a couple of nites ago i kindda ditched mi freind. i didnt want her to get hurt but the result came out to be that she did get hurt. i feel bad now and i think she hates me. wut should i do becus i rele couldn't imagine mi life without her. help

this is chelsea, isnt it

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i like this boy, and i think he likes me back, but im not sure. should i ask him out?

go for it
i bet you'll do great
update me !
x0xqtpiex0

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on a girl, which side looks better for a cartlidge pearcing?

right

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So, I like this kid, but I don't know him entirely welll.. but my brother is like best friends with him. [my brother hangs out with older guys, that are my age.. which is great for me :D] anywayys, i don't know him all that well, but i think he likes me. well, tell me if he does.. but some of this..

*he trys to impress me. ex. - he was like trying to do this trick, with his soccer ball & then he messed up & smiled at me.
*he sat down like right next to me.
*he constantlyyy looks at me, constantly.
*when he was taking a picture for something, he was looking at me.

& such.

moving on, do you think he likes me first off?
if you think he does, what shall i say to him? i see him every week. because my brother & him are on the same soccer team, so i see him at soccer, & then at dances & at football games.. do i go up to him & just talk to him? or likee what?
what do i talk to him about?

oh right, i rate.



kthankyou a ton.

i agree with the girl below me
try talking to him
after a game be like
i saw you out there
you were great
and flirt with him too.
after you talk for a while
casually ask him if he has a sn or email
then you can try hanging out with him
hope i helped =]

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my bff ******(don't want to give out her name),has a boyfriend who she met over the phone and he just came to see her today.But when he came over he siad he liked another girl in my nieghborhood.Who's also her's and my best friend. And i want to get back at him for it, what should I do!?!?!?

talk to your friend that he likes. tell her everything that happened. also, tell her how much your bff is hurt by it. i wouldnt actually "prank" him, but if you want to, just let me no =] i'll be sure to help

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What should I do? I have a bff and she likes a kid who i have been talkin to alot lately and she started to like him this year and he likes me this year along with 3 other ppl but she said it still matter tht i am in it. She throws it up to my face everytime she gets mad at me. And i cnt help it if he likes me. I mean im not goin out with him and i have a bf. but still she doesn't like it. Help!

i think the only reason this "friend" got mad at it, was because you and your bf always seemed "if-y" like, you werent sure about the relationship. and maybe you acted like you would have liked him if you and your bf werent together.


the one and only
dina =]

aka your bff

=D

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I have AOL and would like to CLEAR the My History dropdown. I have tried History Sweep and it does not work. Does anything work?

try hitting Ctrl H and see if the history pops up. then, right click an item and hit delete, or you can just highlight it and hit the Delete button. hope i helped =]

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Hi! I'm going out with my boyfriend for our 3 month anni. tonight and I've got my makeup and hair done, but don't know what to wear. I was thinking black pants and a tank with another shirt on the top and heels. Or is that to much, or not enough? Anything you can think of would be great. Thanks! And I'll rate :)

i think that you should just wear what feels confortable. if you've been together for 3 months, hes not gonna care what you wear, but just spending time with you is gonna make h is night. =]

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I've just moved to a new school
i met this guy who i am now best friends with.
he asked me out but i turned him down, coz i don't like him in that way.
he understands completely, and we are still best friends.
I recently went to the movies with him, and he didn't tell me that there were two other guys there.
One of the guys i know, and i get along pretty well with him.
But the other guy i knew was in my science class, and I don't know him at all, apart from his name.
When we all gather around a desk to do an experiment or something, he always stands opposite me and looks at me and smiles.
I completely and utterly am in love with him!
So anyway, after the movie was over, we all went to the arcade.
I was just sitting on the bench while the other two guys played on the games, but this guy i like came and sat next to me.
We didn't say anything for awhile, but then he said, "Oh I think I'm in your science class." and I said "Yeah you are".
From then on we basically didn't stop talking!
We left the arcade and walked around the mall, and we were still talking.
Then it was time for me to go home.
My parents agreed to meet me at the front of the movies, but then the guy i like said that he would walk me home.
I looked at him and went "what?" and the other two guys looked at him and started laughing their heads off, and he looked a bit embarassed (awwww! haha) but we all agreed that i should stick to the plan that me and my parents agreed on at the start.
So we went up to to the movies, and my parents came and got me.

The next day, Monday, I saw him in science.
I smiled at him and he smiled back.
We started talking again, and he started talking about this girl he went to the mall with the other day, a girl called *sarah* (not me) and he was also talking about this other girl called *bianca* (also not me haha) and, well, i started to get a bit jealous. (thats not their real names by the way)
But it's just the way he looks at me, it's like he wants to know me, and I want to know him.
I just don't know how I can ask him for his email, or something like that, without seeming too desperate.
I have his friend's email???
please help!

in the middle of your conversation, be like, oh i didnt catch your email


something like that

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for this halloween me and my friend really want to go as maggie and the furocious beast, from that old little nickolodeon cartoon.
were having trouble where to find the costumes tho, if someone could send a site itd be awesome!
thank you!

by the way were both 13 so toddler costumes wont help lol

i'm not sure if you'll be able to find that particular costume, but this website has alot of great costumes.

www.buycostumes.com
hope i helped =]

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