Question Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 10:45 am
What should I do? I have a bff and she likes a kid who i have been talkin to alot lately and she started to like him this year and he likes me this year along with 3 other ppl but she said it still matter tht i am in it. She throws it up to my face everytime she gets mad at me. And i cnt help it if he likes me. I mean im not goin out with him and i have a bf. but still she doesn't like it. Help!
MelLeDisko answered Sunday September 17 2006, 8:30 pm: Of course she doesn't like the fact that her crush doesn't like her and likes you. She's just all jealous and doesn't like the situation. Talk to her and assure her you don't like him like that and you never will because you already have a boyfriend that you like alot and she knows that. And let her know it hurts you whenever she throws it in your face whenever she gets mad at you, and you wish he didn't like you, and it's not your fault that he does. It's not like you WANTED him to just to spite her or something. Your friend isn't being a very good friend if she isn't trusting you. She needs to learn how to trust you and not get so upset at you. And whenever you talk to her, suggest to her that you can even try and talk about her more to him and try and get him to notice her better, and take less of the focus off of you. I'm sure she'd appreciate that you're trying and then really realize you're obviously not into him if you're trying to get them two together. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
cheche1187 answered Sunday September 17 2006, 7:32 pm: heyy suey!!
it's me chelsea
i'd say keep talking to him. relax. dont worry about what yur friend thinks i mean, come on if she doesn't trust yu then there's nothing yu can do. its pretty stupid that she doesnt trust yu scince yu already have a bf.
leanna answered Sunday September 17 2006, 5:55 pm: She seems to be mad at the situation and is taking it out on you. If you already have a bf then that is even more stupid that she is getting mad. Ahh Idk.. I guess you have to talk to her and tell her that you would never like him back..cause you couldnt do that to her.. and ask her what she wants you to do about it. [ leanna's advice column | Ask leanna A Question ]
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