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I am writing a novel about a sixteen year old girl who is forced to go to a summercamp. While she is there she meets a 25 year old man who lives up in the forest and falls in love with him. Then he gets creepy and kidnaps her to his cabin that's up in the forest where he is holding two other girls because he says that he is "in love with them and wants no one to get in the way of their love" and they have to escape and get back.

Basically the whole theme is rebellion and its effects.

would you be interested in reading this? what other things or twists could i add to make it more interesting?

i would be really happy reading this book! haha as for a huge twist, i would throw him in with a split personality, sort of like "hide and seek"...that would be great...good luck with the novel!!!
-hayley

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whenever i push the applicator up to get the tampon in, it hurts. not in my vagina, but it's like a sucking-in feeling right below my stomach. but it's just flat out uncomfortable.. is this normal?

its probably just because you are uptight and not comfortable so the muscles are tightening...just relax
-hayley

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You're messing with a heart
You're messing with a head
You're pointing fingers at a corpse
I'm sure it already knows it's dead

I think you became so high and mighty
When they stuck you up on that pedestal
I hope it's fun looking down on the rest of us
And don't you stray far from from the things you stole

Be wary not to fall too far
Because you may have to walk with the ones you scold
Breathe easy, and relax on your throne of hypocrisy
Something's tarnished where it was once gold

Maybe curiosity killed the cat
But what the hell has been killing you
Lately, you sure are a sight to look at
Something seems so mortal, you've gone so cold you're turning blue

It wouldn't matter if I started white flame
Or raised a white flag
It dosen't matter who takes the blame
Time still drags and drags
Your pompous mind resembles a gun
Let me learn, I don't need to hold your hand
Try learning some lessons of your own
Because I'm done



What do ya'll think this poem actually means? Also, what would your opinion be on the quality/writing style? I tend to find poetry and not see much meaning in it, so.. Yeah. This stood out for some reason. Help? Ha.

I think it is saying that said person thought that they was all high and mighty. But its not all it is cracked up to be. And its killing them because they want to get down from the "pedistal" in question. (but their could be many other options as well)

i like the way it is written and it is a beautiful poem..
-hayley

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I haven't had my period for a little bit over 2 months now, and I am getting worried. I haven't been sexually active, and if I have I have absolutely no memory of it. But I am still very worried that something is wrong. I started my period like 1 year ago, and I usually have my periods around the same time as my mother, but again, I haven't have my period in a little over in 2 months. I mean, my mom has had 3 periods so far, that means I missed 3. So is there something I should be worried about?

well if you only had it since a year ago, then its probably still irregular. Yeah i mean they can get in sync and all but if you are REALLY worried, then ask your mom.
-hayley

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im going to the movies with the guy i like. its not really a date. me and my bedt friend were like hey we should hang so we decided on the movies. but we both like each other and we know it. and we both have been saying we need to hang. and im not really suure on what to wear. i dont want to look like a whore. or look like a 12 year old girl. im 16 if tht helps. some ideas would be great. and tips for anything as in flirting and dating.
mch aprreciated and love.
:]

just dress normally. if its not really a date then its casual. Maybe through in some heels though to make him drool haha
http://www.datingfast.com/
keep scrolling and you will get to the womens part haha
-hayley

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your stuck in a room with no windows or doors, a solid room. NLY THINGS N THIS ROOM IS A Mirror and a table. How do you escape?

look in the mirror and see what you saw. use the saw to cut the table in half. two halves make a whole so you go through the "hole" to get out.
-hayley

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can you type on the computer when you're drunk or high?

guess it depends on how much you have had and how much your system can handle.
-hayley

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I know this is an odd question but it's genuine.. I wonder whether a woman can cum (obviously not with sperm or anything) TY

yeppers
-hayley

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Hey my name is Michelle im 15,

My question is i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time on Tuesday then the next moring i woke uo with a sore inside of my mouth.
I am so scared and dont kno weather to tell my parents or wat it is.I read about herpes and all that,but it says u kant get it the next day.
It is now Saturday and i still have it.it looks better but im still scared.if you kan help me please do.

Thanks

Michelle

its probably just a kanker sore from the friction. gets any worse go to a doctor
-hayley

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14/f Ok, well i like this guy who rides my bus but he dosen't know i exsist. Recently, this girl that got her drivers liscence has been taking him to school and taking him home so i dont get to talk to him ever, and he is 2 years older than me so he isn't in any of my classes. Occasionaly he will ride the bus but it would seem weird to just be like "hey! whats up?" If i told anyone that i like him and he found out he might not like me or want to date me because i am a freshman and he is a junior. I never see him in school hardly ever...what should i do?

okay well age really dont have anything to do with that. Because in my school, although being small, most of the seniors date freshman and sophmores, so it should be okay for a junior to do it. And it really wouldnt be all that weird. Just start up a conversation with him. Make him notice you, but dont change yourself for it, just talk to him.
-hayley

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I have a bichon-shitzu mix. She's like 9 mos and around 15 lbs I think.

How often am I supposed to bathe her?? I know it depends on the kind of dog, so if you have a small dog similar to that, how often do you bathe him/her?

i have a 13 inch beagle and we usually bathe him once a week. We usually blow dry him after that so he wont get sick or cold too... use warm water
-hayley

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Every time i put in my contacts, after a little while they get dirty and irritated. When i take them out to clean them, there are are brown specks of make up on them. Its also very hard to clean and often i have to use new ones. Help? I also wear eyeliner

Dont wear as much makeup...put on make up after...
-hayley

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do you kno any quotes on growing up/moving on...
my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i want to let him know that i am over it with a quote on my msn...lame i know lol...
but i need something suttle you kno...
not anything like free single or you kno he ost the best thing he ever had lol...
i want something that could mean aning.
thanks
sorry about the length x

Never miss anyone from your past...theres a reason they didnt make it to your future

I LOVE THIS ONE haha
As soon as you start to let go, they start to catch on...when they come back (like always) laugh in their face and never give in...they shouldve realized what they had before they said good-bye...sucks for them

your definitely just fading away and turning into a faint memory...just another picture in the album...isnt that what youu wanted?

-hayley

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I got BAD sun burn on my nose, cheekbones, forehead, and lips. My lips are blistering, ouch. How do I help this healing process move faster???

green aloe vera stuff from banana boat and i hear cocoa butter helps too...and ice and chap stick or vasiline or your lips
-hayley

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does sex lastt?

until you both are tired...
-hayley

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how long do you usually make-out with a boy for

yeah i dont really think there is a time. Usually it lasts for me ntil someone has to leave or some one shows up that doesnt need to see it...haha but it can last however long you want it to
-hayley

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do most girls have vibrators? and if so how often do they use them?

well i dont know its majority i guess...i dont have one...and i would say they would usually use them whenever they felt like it...its just preference i guess...
-hayley

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ok so is it possible that a person on msn cant get your message when YOU send it but you can still chat when THEY send it.cos there is this guy and i was like: sorry who are you again?
and then after like 3 minutes he was like:
sorry who are you?
etc.
so we talked but then i asked again who he was and when he answered it sounded like he never got my first message when i already asked.
errm and yeah i started talking to him the next time he got online TWICE but he never ever replied. so is it possible that sometimes you have this person who doesnt get your messages. because i really dont think he hates me lol
but im too shy to talk to him in person, but he DOES notice me alot in school by smiling etc. so i dont think he hates me.
i dont knowwww. lol
but is it possible ... the whole msn thing? cos its been bothering me.

sorry for asking this again but i forgot smth last time.
i forgot to say that
the message still got saved on my PC cos i have it programed that way, as you can. i dno if you do it. :P but does that still mean that it's possible he didnt get it??
i'm sorry for making such a big deal but i really like him alot mwhaaa.



DONT TELL ME TO TALK TO HIM BECAUSE I WONT NOW ALRIGHTT? dont waste your "typing-Hands"
no offence. :P
xx

well maybe the connection was bad and he didnt get it til late. My phone does that with text messages sometimes.

or maybe he got it but was embarrased.

talk to him. it wont kill you. he could like you.
-hayley

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Okayy here I go. my name is taryn, and im 15, 16 in a few months.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months, but things are getting shaky, at least for me. and he never calls me, but when we do talk, its either quiet or we talk about nothing at all. I like always have to pick what to talk about.

But yesterday i went to my grandparents house, and i went to a neighbors farm. my uncle had told me about the boy who lived there, hes 17, and i didnt believe my uncle much, you know, he was trying to make the kid seem all that. but when i got there, my uncle was right.
and i had major butterflies all that day, you know the whole new crush thing.
but when i left, he asked for my number =]
and so when i got home like 2 hours later , he called and we were on the phone for 2 hours. it was soo fun, i never have that much fun anymore.
but i think im really starting to like this kid,
but i dont know what to do.


well the spark goes out of relationships. I would personally leave the boyfriend and go out with the new boy. Your only 15/16, have fun with life.
-hayley

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This seems like the typical question, but I am honestly really confused. I'm 17f, I have only ever been in relationships with guys, but I have fooled around with girls before when drunk. I have always really considered myself as Bicurious. I have a bf, been with him for about 5 or 6 weeks. We havent slept together yet, but I have had sex in relationships with guys in the past.
I have been thinking about girls more and more in the last week, and last night I met this lesbian. It was at a party and I was with my bf at the time. This girl really fancied me though and I know that if i was single I would have really gone for it.
I guess my dilemma is, is that to determine what my sexuality is i am going to need to experiment. But i really dont want to break up with my boyfriend. What if I'm wrong? I really dont want to be bisexual though because everyone is trying to be as a trend.

I think I really want a relationship with a girl. What should I do?

Cheers xx

its okay...this stuff IS confusing...If you really want a girlfriend then i say go for it. Because if you dont then you will never know what it felt like or if you liked it. You will regret it. So i say go for it and see what happens.
-hayley

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