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Am I gay?
This seems like the typical question, but I am honestly really confused. I'm 17f, I have only ever been in relationships with guys, but I have fooled around with girls before when drunk. I have always really considered myself as Bicurious. I have a bf, been with him for about 5 or 6 weeks. We havent slept together yet, but I have had sex in relationships with guys in the past.
I have been thinking about girls more and more in the last week, and last night I met this lesbian. It was at a party and I was with my bf at the time. This girl really fancied me though and I know that if i was single I would have really gone for it.
I guess my dilemma is, is that to determine what my sexuality is i am going to need to experiment. But i really dont want to break up with my boyfriend. What if I'm wrong? I really dont want to be bisexual though because everyone is trying to be as a trend.
I think I really want a relationship with a girl. What should I do?
Cheers xx
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It's obvious that your boyfriend isn't doing something right for you, so i think the first thing to do is take care of that problem. If your battling with your sexuality you don't want anything swaying your opinion. Take a dating sabbatical. The space will allow you to think about which you miss more, the company of a male or a female. Once you've decided you have to find the courage to stand by your choice.
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its okay...this stuff IS confusing...If you really want a girlfriend then i say go for it. Because if you dont then you will never know what it felt like or if you liked it. You will regret it. So i say go for it and see what happens.
-hayley
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