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Boyfriend Vs. New Guy
Okayy here I go. my name is taryn, and im 15, 16 in a few months.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months, but things are getting shaky, at least for me. and he never calls me, but when we do talk, its either quiet or we talk about nothing at all. I like always have to pick what to talk about.
But yesterday i went to my grandparents house, and i went to a neighbors farm. my uncle had told me about the boy who lived there, hes 17, and i didnt believe my uncle much, you know, he was trying to make the kid seem all that. but when i got there, my uncle was right.
and i had major butterflies all that day, you know the whole new crush thing.
but when i left, he asked for my number =]
and so when i got home like 2 hours later , he called and we were on the phone for 2 hours. it was soo fun, i never have that much fun anymore.
but i think im really starting to like this kid,
but i dont know what to do.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You shouldn't feel guilty about ending a relationship you feel is not working out. You shouldn't feel guilty about meeting someone new with whom you have a better chemistry with.
It sounds like you want to break up with your old boyfriend and start something new with this new guy. You don't need to meet someone new to address qualms and issues you have in your current relationship.
Honor your truth by being honest with your self and your current boyfriend, if it is not working out, then you should consider ending it. As for the new guy, you should work on taking your time with him, if that is an avenue you want to pursue.
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well the spark goes out of relationships. I would personally leave the boyfriend and go out with the new boy. Your only 15/16, have fun with life.
-hayley
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If having personal issues with you current relationship doesn't give you enough reason to leave your boyfriend behind, then having full-effect butterflies for a new guy-- definitely is.
You called your relationship "shaky".. which is bad. Anytime one of the two people in the relationship is struggling with that they have, this only means the cracks are already there, and the break up is probably inevitable.
If this new guy is making you happen, then let him. But do it the right way, and figure out what's better for you.. feeling shaky in an awkward relationship, or moving on to something new?
It seems really hard, but it sounds to me like you already know what you want.
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