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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol

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I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!

sorry.. but it sounds like you are pregnant.. throwing up and missing your period for 2 MONTHS (( a loong time )) are two major signs of pregnency.. you should really tell your mom.. or tell your doctor ((he cant tell your mom))
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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do

You should probably just sit down with her and be like mom i know it was wrong but i had sex and now i think i am pregnant.. its better to get it over with..
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Hey Does anyone know how to get rid of dark circles under the eyes. I want to know about stuff that i can make at home. Or something that i can buy that doesnt cost too much

I dont know if it works but 1- you can put a cold spoon under your eye. ((im not sure)) or you can buy this yellow or maybe its green.. idk concealer that hides under eye circles!
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Okay, well i really love show choir, it might sound dorky to some people but i LOVE it. So now im going to a HUGE high school, and theres not many freshman that make it into my schools show choir group, so at my audition i want to be able to sing REALLY good. I dont really need a private teacher right now, and i sing a whole bunch, but does any body know any good tips for me to make me become a better singer?

ok well i do take singing lessons and we warm up for like seriously an hour and a half and it really does make a difference! So warm up, drink lots of water and yeah..
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Hey! I wanna dye my hair before i go back to school my hair is brown with like blondish color in it but you can hardly tell! I dont know what color to dye it. If you have any colors that would look good please post back! I also have a picture if you wanna see lol. My aim sn is - Pinkispimpin029

If your eyes are blue- your would look good with dark brown, light brown or a darkish blonde *nO bLeAcH bLoNdE!! =D* If your eyes are green- same as above but will prolly look good lighter too.. If have hazel eyes go with the same as above... but if you have dark brown, chocolate colored eyes they look good with dark dark brown hair!

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Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!!

DONT DO IT!!! this guy could have like sent you a pic of some weird guy then be a 50 year old child mollester! never date online or meet them! soo many kids get killed like that! dont risk it.. but if you still do then whatever and when you meet him bring a friend just in case! ((safety in numbers!))
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im sry i just picked this category cuz its where most people go. but somhing weird just happened. i was out bak and itss very dark cuz its like 9. and i look at the woods in my yard and.............i saw something. ....i dont want 2 believe wat i saw cuz peeps wud tthink im wweird....but i saw a pair of bright...hypnotic...red eyes. now im the kinda guy who think movies like signs and the mothman prophocies r wicked gay. i dont get scared by hem i getbored. but as i stared at these eyes i felt llight headed andd i kept hearing this sharp,crackly sound coming rom he eyes. then it all of a sudden took off!!i jumed up in the air i saw its shadowy silouhette in the sky. it reminded me alot bout mothman. but i live in Mass. this has really freakedd me out. should i tell som1?

oooookay then.. haha i dont quite believe you but thats okay.. if it really did happen i would tell my parents..
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umm.. Im a 13 year old girl and i wiegh 135 and i do alot of sports and i dont know what to do

If you do a lot of sports than it could just be muscle ((muscle weighs more than fat!)) or you could have one of those problems where even though your active and eat healthy you still gain weight! Try eating healthier or if you really want to you could go on like a diet.. but go on one that still lets you eat every food group (( the only healthy diets))
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my friend is really nice to me when she its just me and her but if she is with another friend she is such a butthead to me and i get mad at her all the time and stuff but then we havce a fun time or we talk o0n the phone and we r friends again like all my friends are friends with her so it sucks and now im mad at her again wut shuld i do ?

I have friends JuSt LiKe ThIs!! haha well you need to talk to her and be like ((calmly)) well when we hang out we have a lot of fun, but when you are w/ other people you arent nice to me and it makes me mad.. if she still acts like that then she isnt a good friend!
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how do i prevent the red razor bumps on my bikini line from coming when i shave? and how do i get a very close shave to where you cant even tell there is hair there? i want it all gone but everytime i shave it just turns red and gets razor burn.

Try a new razor.. if your razor is dull it will do that.. or try an electric razor or waxing.. waxing will prob. do it best though.. it goes down to the roots..
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I'm a little unexperienced in the dating world. Entering highschool and having only dated one person is nothing to boast about. I have a hard time realizing that guys are cute and always needing a second opinion... But this guy, is different, I've known him since Elementary and he's a Buddhist, Commie, and Libral Democrat. I think I'm in love. The problem. 1) I don't know how to approach him, 2) My friend, we'll call her Sarah and her best friend Melanie, likes him too... They've always had no trouble and are putting me under a lot of pressure. Don't know what to do... Help?

Ok well sorry to burst your bubble.. but if these two girls like him than you really shouldnt go out with him.. it will hurt your friends.. And to approach a guy just hang out with him more and maybe when the time is right just kiss.. or you can write him a letter or you can just tell him how you feel and maybe he will like you too!
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okay so my best friend she has this problem where she flirts with EVERYONE! she like cheats on all her bf and flirts with every guy she sees and does stuff with them too. well there is this guy mike and i realy like him and i have for awhile but she just told me that shes gonna go hang out with thim tonight...and i dont knoe wut to do i mean i can't really tell her that i still like him cuz we just got into a fight and like i don't want her makein-out wit him tonight cuz i have him right at my fingertips we're almost even goin out.. and im afraid that if she flirts with him tonight he will prolly do sumthing wit her and then i'll lose him all over again!

so please help asap!
sorry if this is soo long

Well the only way she will know how you feel is if you tell her! Tell her that you want to stay friends with her.. but you have noticed she flirts and does stuff a lot.. tell her that you still have feelings for this mike kid or whatever. She should take that into consideration and stop flirting with him.. if not than she is not a very good friend!
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i have a really close relationship with my friend mike he's not a boyfriend or anything and i dont see him that way at all, but he's like an older brother to me and ever since we became friends he has been. well, i USED to dress punk, and he does now too...and well im prep now but he hasnt seen me...im afraid that hes not gunna wanna be my friend anymore since im dressing prep, i mean maybe he still will but maybe he wont...i just have worries, what do i do?

Well if you rather be prep than punk than thats who you are.. he should accept you for that.. and if he doesnt you really cant do anything about it.. be who you are and dont change for anything or anyone! REMEMBER THAT! =D
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i used to cut for 2 years but my ex bf told after i went through a lot and he told so now im getting help...well the other day my friend came over and we were talking about cutting but i stopped so she said "well getting high takes it away like cutting does" so i got high, my friends would kill me if they found out...and theyd probably tell and i dont want that to happen...theyd probably all hate me too and i dont want that to happen cauze i love them all sooo much! but the only person who knows is that girl...help me please, what do i do?

well if u know what you did was wrong and you dont want to do it again, then keep it secret and if anyone asks anything, just say yes you did it and you arent doing it ever again.. it was a mistake.. Or if you do want to do it again- well i dont know.. you shouldnt it is dangerous..
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okay so there is this boy james we went out last year but i broke up with him b/c i didn't want a bf over the summer. well after i dumped him i relized how much i needed him he is always soo fun to b around and cute and funny and play-ful.
well my friend is gonna have a party and she invited 3 gurls and their bfs her bf and me..but im single so she asked if i wanted any particular boy to come so i said james. well i knoe their all gonna b makeing-out with all of their boyfriends and me and james....prolly just talkin about our relationship...how can i brake the ice nd just lay a kiss on him with out it being too....akward?
please help asap!

Wait until the moment is right.. then go for it!!
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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused.

Sorry to have to say this but.. you may not have a chance to go out with him.. if they do break up, Lori is going to be upset.. (probably) and even if she says you can go out with him, it will hurt her more.. One rule in friendships is - You cannot/should not go out with a friends ex..
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

Theres no BeSt AgE.. whenever you feel like you are ready to commit to haviing a baby if u do get pregnant.. dont have sex unless you are willing to have to practically give up your life for a baby...
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ok im going into 9th grade and im trying out for varsity...we already had one tryout and i didnt do very well i dont think...i need to be tougher going to the ball....any suggestions??? im a fast learner and im willing to work hard! leave your AIM sn if u can help and also leave advice!!

One Thing- Coaches love to see players Hussle for the ball.. in every sport... throw yourself on the ground if you have to, to hit the ball, be assertive.. not too aggressive though. Go out of your way to get the ball.. but don't be a ball hog!
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hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks

Blogdrive.com , Xanga.com , Blogspot.com , Blogger.com
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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!

Well don't be mean to her bcuz you cant really help who you like.. she may be liking the same guys you do bcuz when you talk about them it makes her relize she likes them or w/e.. wow that made no sence but anyways.. you should just let it be.. if she actually goes out with the boy you like than you should deffinetly talk to her bcuz you are NOT ALLOWED to go out with the boy a friend likes.. its wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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