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dressing
i have a really close relationship with my friend mike he's not a boyfriend or anything and i dont see him that way at all, but he's like an older brother to me and ever since we became friends he has been. well, i USED to dress punk, and he does now too...and well im prep now but he hasnt seen me...im afraid that hes not gunna wanna be my friend anymore since im dressing prep, i mean maybe he still will but maybe he wont...i just have worries, what do i do?
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Just because you don't dress the same way as he does, doesn't mean he's not gunna still want to be your friend. He's not gunna judge you just because you changed your style, your still the same person inside, you just look different on the outside. I'm sure it'll all be fine hun!
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to the young and the hopeless.
first off, mike is an older brother to you. if you chose to change then he should understand dispite your differences. if you are that close then a sudden change in the way you dress is not going to have an effect on the way he thinks of you. clothing is just a shell.. its a way to express yourself, and if you and him choose to dress differently, then so be it. that shouldnt change you twos close relationship. if he does have mixed feelings after he sees you then what kind of friend would that be just to judge you by your clothes. but im sure he will understand and like you as a sis for who you are, not how you dress
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Brandi
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If you have a really close relationship with him, I'm sure if you decided to dress prep, that wouldn't hurt the friendship. He's your friend!
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if he is your real true friend. it wont matter to him what you wear. you are still the same inside.
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if you two are so close, he shouldn't care how you dress. oh well, if you look different. as long as you don't act different, he should still treat you the same and stay your friend. unless he is that shallow, then he is not worth trying to change yourself for.
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He should like you for who you are.. not how you dress =)
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Well if you rather be prep than punk than thats who you are.. he should accept you for that.. and if he doesnt you really cant do anything about it.. be who you are and dont change for anything or anyone! REMEMBER THAT! =D
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i think he may joke lovingly about it, but as long as your personality is the same, then you guys should be fine
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the young and the hopeless,
it shouldnt matter what you look like or how you dress. as long as you're still the same person you are then it shouldnt matter. if you're the same then theres no reason he shouldnt be friends with you; unless hes changed. but i think that if you're youself then he'll still be friends. hope i helped. good luck.
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How you dress shouldn't effect your friendship. People who are insanely different can be friends. It's not like you two are hitler and mickey mouse or something.
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Dress how you wanna dress.If he doesn't like you because that he must not be that great. Thats a really stupid reason to not like someone and I think he'll still like ya. So just be yourself adn GOOD LUCK! Tell me how things turn out!
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If he judges you by how you dress, then he's not worth your time. Dress however you want, not to please other people. If he cares about you that much, then he will still like you. Clothes mean nothing, who you are as a person does. It sounds corny, but in this situation, it's really important to know.
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