okay so my best friend she has this problem where she flirts with EVERYONE! she like cheats on all her bf and flirts with every guy she sees and does stuff with them too. well there is this guy mike and i realy like him and i have for awhile but she just told me that shes gonna go hang out with thim tonight...and i dont knoe wut to do i mean i can't really tell her that i still like him cuz we just got into a fight and like i don't want her makein-out wit him tonight cuz i have him right at my fingertips we're almost even goin out.. and im afraid that if she flirts with him tonight he will prolly do sumthing wit her and then i'll lose him all over again!
you need to tell her how you feel, who cares if she is mad she will get over it. and if she feels the need to flirt with every guy and do stuff then let her. let her get a rep on her own. and if you like that guy that much you need to tell her and him. and if you find out what she does then.. id unno youll have to handle it. i guess thats easy for me to say cause i dont take the crap from girls. girls like that piss me off.. soo good luck.
Lena answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 10:03 pm: Dont worry about it.. take it as a test.. for him and her.. for basically him tho.. see if he would be loyal enough not to do nething =) idk.. dont worry about it so much! everything will b okay! [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
Airie answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 9:49 pm: (u wont believe this, but the same thing happened to me!) Anyway, i think u shud jus let it happen. Eventually, he'll see wat a playa she is, and he'll forget about her. What YoU need to do is be persistent. Make sure that he DoEs NoT forget about u. Flirt with him and let him know how special he is to u. Then he'll understand who's really the rite person for him. [ Airie's advice column | Ask Airie A Question ]
spoiledx3shortii answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 9:35 pm: Well the only way she will know how you feel is if you tell her! Tell her that you want to stay friends with her.. but you have noticed she flirts and does stuff a lot.. tell her that you still have feelings for this mike kid or whatever. She should take that into consideration and stop flirting with him.. if not than she is not a very good friend!
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xForeverxForgottenx answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 9:12 pm: well you should talk to mike and tell him how you feel. if he likes you too then he wouldnt make out with her. and maybe you should just ask him out. that way there's a better chance that they wont do anything. i hope everything works out. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
mshonest4eva answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 8:36 pm: Wow! Thats alot of stuff that your feeling. My advice, ask her whats up with them, if shes serious or what. She might ask if you like him, and you might think to lie. But DONT!!! That is the worst thing to do, especially when you just had a big fight. If she denies you an answer, go to him and talk to him, but, please, dont blow your cover!!! [ mshonest4eva's advice column | Ask mshonest4eva A Question ]
the_haha_boat answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 8:30 pm: Maybe you should call the guy before she gets there, and just be like well im glad weve had the oppertunity to get so close lately and im really looking forward to spending more time with you in the future (not in those words) if he catches on he's probably not going to fool around with her tonight because that would jeperdize his chances with you. [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 8:29 pm: well if you guys are almost to going out. And he likes you and all he wont do anything with her. But if he does that shows hes a worthless piece of shit and you need to find someone way better! Best wishes
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